Choices: You Make 'em You Own 'em: The Jerry Tillinghast Story
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Choices: You Make 'em You Own 'em: The Jerry Tillinghast Story

Paperback – October 23, 2018

Price
$19.09
Format
Paperback
Pages
267
Publisher
Independently published
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1718148611
Dimensions
6 x 0.67 x 9 inches
Weight
14.1 ounces

Description

The worst mob books are byxa0ex-mobsters, trying to justify their existence as rats. In 'Choices,' retired New England mob enforcer Jerry Tillinghast had the good sense to wait until all his former colleagues were dead..." - Mark Ebner, New York Times bestselling crime writer EDITORIAL: CHOICES: YOU MAKExa0 'EM,YOU OWNxa0 'EM"Listen, it ain't the Sopranos or Goodfellas. The image most people have about organized crime is bulls....It's not about loyalty.It's not about honor.xa0It's not about the family.It's about greed and treachery and manipulation. It tears the real family apart for the sake of a false one.My family paid a big price for being associated with that life. We all had to find our own way to cope .I lived it. It wasn't anything like TV or the movies.Anybody who thinks differently never spent a moment in my world."GERALDxa0 M. TILLINGHAST, JR.Thus, spoke the son of the main character, Gerald(Jerry) M. Tillinghastxa0 of this non- fictionxa0 book. The sonxa0 shows considerably more insight into the harm done to his siblings than his father does.xa0 This book is a dead-on portrayal of a mob figure who, like some of his counterparts, justify their actions in memoirs and who merely mouth their "apology"xa0 for their actions. In fact, while the senior, Mr.Tillinghast avers that he is telling his story with honestyxa0 and to set the record straight,xa0 he neglects to acknowledge whether he was an "enforcer" forxa0 the New England mob (which he most assuredly was) or whether he really was guilty of the crimes for which he was found not guilty.CHOICES should be read by folks who like mob related books. Author, Joe Broadmeadow, has done a fine job of letting Mr. Tillinghast tell his talexa0 and Broadmeadow resistsxa0 the temptation to assert himself into the narrative. The book is an easy read but a troublesome one given its rationalizations. Former Attorney General Arlene Violet Author, THE MOB AND ME Joe Broadmeadow retired with the rank of Captain from the East Providence, Rhode Island Police Department after twenty years. Assigned to various divisions within the department including Commander of Investigative Services, he also worked in the Organized Crime Drug Enforcement Task Force and on special assignment to the FBI Drug Task Force.Collision Course and Silenced Justice, Joe's first two novels, are from the highly-acclaimed Josh Williams series. The books continue to garner rave reviews and are available in print, Kindle, and audio format.In addition to crime novels, Joe is developing a series of YA Fiction. The first, Saving the Last Dragon, is available in Kindle, print, and audio versions. The next book in the series, Raising the Last Dragon, is in development.Joe also writes for two blogs, The Writing of Joe Broadmeadow (joebroadmeadowblog.wordpress.com) and The Heretic and the Holy Man (thehereticandtheholyman.wordpress.com)When Joe is not writing, he is hiking or fishing (and thinking about writing). Joe completed a 2,185-mile thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail in September 2014. After completing the trail, Joe published a short story, Spirit of the Trail, available on Amazon.com in Kindle format.xa0Joe lives in Lincoln, RI with his wife Susan.

Features & Highlights

  • In a remarkably personal and intimate account, Jerry Tillinghast, one of the most popular characters from the first season of Crimetown, talks about his life and the choices he made. Battling alongside his brothers on the streets of Providence. Enlisting in the United States Marine Corps,fighting in Vietnam, and becoming a victim of the politics of that war. Returning to Providence an angry young man and his choice to hang with the wiseguys. His reputation as a "feared mob enforcer" and the effect on his family.Meeting Raymond L.S. Patriarca and how he came to embrace him as a father figure.His brushes with the law and the two most infamous cases he is forever linked to, Bonded Vault and the George Basmajian Homicide Silent no more...

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Terrific book by a man who was there!

Joe Broadmeadow paints a portrait of a man who has been there and back again, who very nearly lost it all, and yet was able to maintain his dignity throughout his dealings in a very undignified world. Jerry isn't a saint, and he's very up front about his life, but in coming clean, perhaps he is able to reclaim some of the humanity so many of his fellows in the underworld lose completely. We all know the stories of the sadistic men in the mob--the Steven Flemmis, the Sam DeStefanos, the Thomas Piteras--but Jerry wasn't that sort. He was a hard man, and did bad things, but through it all, he maintained the fundamental sense of right and wrong that none of the men of his tradition adhere to. Jerry's code of silence, basically his honor, was his entire undoing, first in Vietnam, and later in Providence.

The book follows Tillinghast's life, from growing up in Providence to heading off to the Marine Corps. It reads somewhat like Pat Nee's story. In Vietnam, Jerry became enmeshed in one of the awful tragic situations that would come to characterize that war, and despite the objections of many high ranking officers who spoke in his favor, Jerry was made a scapegoat, and in a way, his fate was sealed. When so many doors in a young man's life are closed to him before he has even begun, when he is labeled a criminal tight out of the gate, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Broadmeadow takes great pains to illustrate that criminal behavior often comes from somewhere, it isn't spontaneously generated.

Jerry's resourcefulness and work ethic helped him rise through the ranks in the Patriarca Office-- criminals appreciate a little hustle and hard work un the youngsters. His "random" proximity to a hell of a lot of murders is disheartening, but criminals do criminal things, and then they are less than honest about it. Jerry's story is about as close to honesty as one will get from someone in 'the life'.

And then there's the inevitable fall. The truth that wasn't covered in Crimetown, and you've got to read every last page to get to it, but it's a gut punch.

Jerry lived the life. He rose a criminal, and he fell a criminal, and like so many criminals, he took others with him: his brother, his children, his wives...they all suffered as a result of Jerry's actions, but to his credit, he tried to make up for it. With mixed results, he tried to look after his children, same for his second wife. He could have done more for his brother, but his brother got him started to begin with, so turn around, I suppose. This book is not an exoneration or a pardon. Jerry did bad things, and bad things were done to him. He put himself in a position where he could fall, and he fell, but as he says, it was his choice. Rarely do men like Jerry take responsibility for (most) of their actions like Jerry is, and it makes for a refreshing book. The writing has a few weak points, but it is difficult to write a story as someone else narrates, so Broadmeadow is to be forgiven. He has chosen an interesting subject, and this is a hell of a good book.
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SEMPER Fi Always Faithful, Always Loyal

Choices, very well written with a good flow and rhythm. I received the book yesterday afternoon, began reading and didn’t put the book down, my
“Choice” read cover to cover!!
I’m from Rhode Island born in Providence raised in Warwick. I am 10 years younger than Jerry. For me I could visualize the streets and landmarks as I read. Couple of the persons mentioned mothers house had adjoining backyards, from my house. Over Her bushes was a homerun when we played whiffle ball as kids. As said in the book in Rhode Island there is only one degree of separation.
Jerry Tillinghast and others named in the book were all well known names growing up in RI
What I didn’t know, was that Jerry is a Marine!! As a fellow Marine I thought it was spot on description!
Marine Corps Birthday coming up 10 November is a reminder of Jerry’s unwavering loyalty as The Marine Corps Motto SEMPER Fi; ALWAYS FAITHFUL!
Jerry choices; SEMPER Fi; Always Faithful or Always Loyal even to his detriment.
Must read for Rhode Islanders and non Rhode Islanders alike!!! Intriguing, interesting well written!! Can’t wait for the movie!
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Thrilling account !

I loved reflecting back and just being able to know more about the times I lived through in RI. Filling in gaps etc. Things the news papers never knew. A first hand account and thrillling view of the truth. Also somewhat of a surprisingly different side of a feared man. Great from all angles.
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TRUTH

you don't know someone until you walk in there shoes,
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Once you start reading this book you won’t want to put it down

Disclaimer, I did not buy this book on Amazon it was given to me as a gift. Great story hard to put down. I started reading the book on a flight down to Florida and I couldn’t put it down once I got there. Being a Rhode Island native it’s even more interesting for me. Would definitely recommend this book
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I said "oh wow" to myself a bunch of times while reading!

Rhode Islanders will want to read this for many different reasons than people from other states but no matter where you're from, if you like stories that are frighteningly honest and gritty you will love this. Once you start it's hard to stop and have to wait until you can pick it up again. A great read. You won't be disappointed .
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Awesome true tale of RI, from a great source

loved the book. Like many, I couldn't put it down. Great true reading of criminal events. Recommended to all!
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Interesting story!

Great book and so easy to read!
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LOVE THE BOOK

So I got your book the other night. I am the type of reader if you don't catch my attention in the first chapter the book goes on the shelf. I have to tell you I read half of it yesterday and had a hard time putting it down. It made me sad for some of the things you went through but also made me giggle at the one liners and cheering you on as well. Congrats on the book going try to finish it tonight. If anyone hasn't gotten the book yet get it you won't be disappointed.
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Fantastic read!!

Would recommend this book to anyone.