Marcy's Having All the Feels: Understand and Value All of Our Emotions and Feelings
Marcy's Having All the Feels: Understand and Value All of Our Emotions and Feelings book cover

Marcy's Having All the Feels: Understand and Value All of Our Emotions and Feelings

Paperback – Picture Book, March 11, 2020

Price
$9.49
Format
Paperback
Pages
32
Publisher
National Center for Youth Issues
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1937870645
Dimensions
8.7 x 0.2 x 7.6 inches
Weight
3.2 ounces

Description

What do you do with all your feelings? In Marcy's Having All the Feels, counselor and therapist Allison Edwards explores how sometimes feeling so many feelings doesn t feel so good at all. Marcy wanted to be happy. Happy is all she wanted to be. But all her other feelings kept showing up and at the worst times! There was Frustrated and Angry, Sad and Embarrassed, and even Worried and Jealous. Her feelings were there as soon as she opened her eyes each morning, and they followed her around throughout the day. Some days all these feelings just felt like a little too much and she wanted to hide! Marcy didn t want to feel angry or jealous. And she didn t like feeling sad or embarrassed. Why couldn t she be happy all the time? Then one day when Marcy s feelings disappear, she learns that her feelings don t have to control her, and they might even have a function. Maybe having all the feels might not be such a bad thing. And that one discovery? Well, it changes everything! --From the Inside FlapWhat do you do with all your feelings? In Marcy's Having All the Feels, counselor and therapist Allison Edwards explores how sometimes feeling so many feelings doesn't feel so good at all. Marcy wanted to be happy. Happy is all she wanted to be. But all her other feelings kept showing up"š€š"and at the worst times! There was Frustrated and Angry, Sad and Embarrassed, and even Worried and Jealous. Her feelings were there as soon as she opened her eyes each morning, and they followed her around throughout the day. Some days all these feelings just felt like a little too much and she wanted to hide! Marcy didn't want to feel angry or jealous. And she didn't like feeling sad or embarrassed. Why couldn't she be happy all the time? Then one day when Marcy's feelings disappear, she learns that her feelings don't have to control her, and they might even have a function. Maybe having all the feels might not be such a bad thing. And that one discovery? Well, it changes everything! --From the Back Cover From the Inside Flap What do you do with all your feelings? In Marcy's Having All the Feels, counselor and therapist Allison Edwards explores how sometimes feeling so many feelings doesnx92t feel so good at all. Marcy wanted to be happy. Happy is all she wanted to be. But all her other feelings kept showing upx97and at the worst times! There was Frustrated and Angry, Sad and Embarrassed, and even Worried and Jealous. Her feelings were there as soon as she opened her eyes each morning, and they followed her around throughout the day. Some days all these feelings just felt like a little too much and she wanted to hide! Marcy didnx92t want to feel angry or jealous. And she didnx92t like feeling sad or embarrassed. Why couldnx92t she be happy all the time? Then one day when Marcyx92s feelings disappear, she learns that her feelings donx92t have to control her, and they might even have a function. Maybe having all the feels might not be such a bad thing. And that one discovery? Well, it changes everything! What do you do with all your feelings? In Marcy's Having All the Feels, counselor and therapist Allison Edwards explores how sometimes feeling so many feelings doesn't feel so good at all. Marcy wanted to be happy. Happy is all she wanted to be. But all her other feelings kept showing up"š€š"and at the worst times! There was Frustrated and Angry, Sad and Embarrassed, and even Worried and Jealous. Her feelings were there as soon as she opened her eyes each morning, and they followed her around throughout the day. Some days all these feelings just felt like a little too much and she wanted to hide! Marcy didn't want to feel angry or jealous. And she didn't like feeling sad or embarrassed. Why couldn't she be happy all the time? Then one day when Marcy's feelings disappear, she learns that her feelings don't have to control her, and they might even have a function. Maybe having all the feels might not be such a bad thing. And that one discovery? Well, it changes everything! Allison Edwards is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Registered Play Therapist who specializes in working with children, adolescents, and their families. She received her undergraduate degree in Education from Northwest Missouri State and a graduate degree in Counseling from Vanderbilt University. Before opening a private practice, Allison developed and maintained a play therapy program for at-risk and immigrant children in the public school system. In her current practice, she sees children of all ages, consults with parents, supervises counselors, and writes about childhood anxiety. She also serves as an Affiliate Professor at Vanderbilt University where she enjoys teaching future counselors how to work with kids. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Help Kids Understand and Value Their Emotions and Feelings
  • What do you do with all your feelings?
  • In
  • Marcy's Having All the Feels
  • , counselor and therapist Allison Edwards explores how sometimes feeling so many feelings doesn't feel so good at all.
  • Marcy wanted to be happy. Happy is all she wanted to be. But all her other feelings kept showing up and at the worst times! There was Frustrated and Angry, Sad and Embarrassed, and even Worried and Jealous. Her feelings were there as soon as she opened her eyes each morning, and they followed her around throughout the day. Some days all these feelings just felt like a little too much and she wanted to hide!
  • Marcy didn't want to feel angry or jealous. And she didn't like feeling sad or embarrassed. Why couldn't she be happy all the time? Then one day when Marcy's feelings disappear, she learns that her feelings don't have to control her, and they might even have a function.
  • Maybe having all the feels might not be such a bad thing. And that one discovery? Well, it changes everything!

Customer Reviews

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Great book for kids

This is a great book! Stresses the importance of all our feelings, even the uncomfortable ones. It has good messages for kids like noticing and accepting our feelings, that feelings don’t last forever, and that we can manage our feelings. Also love the tips in the back about labeling the intensity of a feeling with a number and practicing deep breathing.
5 people found this helpful
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Great book for kids

This is a great book! Stresses the importance of all our feelings, even the uncomfortable ones. It has good messages for kids like noticing and accepting our feelings, that feelings don’t last forever, and that we can manage our feelings. Also love the tips in the back about labeling the intensity of a feeling with a number and practicing deep breathing.
5 people found this helpful
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Great book for kids

This is a great book! Stresses the importance of all our feelings, even the uncomfortable ones. It has good messages for kids like noticing and accepting our feelings, that feelings don’t last forever, and that we can manage our feelings. Also love the tips in the back about labeling the intensity of a feeling with a number and practicing deep breathing.
5 people found this helpful
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Great book for kids

This is a great book! Stresses the importance of all our feelings, even the uncomfortable ones. It has good messages for kids like noticing and accepting our feelings, that feelings don’t last forever, and that we can manage our feelings. Also love the tips in the back about labeling the intensity of a feeling with a number and practicing deep breathing.
5 people found this helpful
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Good book overall.

This is a very cute book that teaches kids about their feelings. It personifies feelings to create a visual for young children (much like the movie Inside Out did but in a more straight forward way) and tells a story about a little girl who wants her feelings to go away because she only likes Happy and Happy isn't around enough. The book does a good job explaining in simple terms and visuals why it's important for us to feel all of our feelings. My only complaint is that I feel like it misses an opportunity to also explain depression when the little girl has a day with no feelings and doesn't like it. In her case she just asks her feelings to come back and they do, which also oversimplifies depression (and small children CAN have depression and explaining It could be helpful to children who don't have words to explain it) but a few changes, and a couple extra pages, could have used the opportunity to inform children about mood disorders. Feeling nothing and feeling one thing too often are issues children have and I feel like it's a missed opportunity to be informative about that. I do realize that wasn't the books intent, that it just wanted to teach kids that all feelings are important and okay and it does a really good job conveying that message but I can't help but wish they had taken the opportunity to expand on feeling nothing and feeling too much.
5 people found this helpful
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4 and 7 year old both love it!

We have a number of different books about feelings and this is the best one by far! Both my kids love it (which is important!). I really appreciate the way feelings are described and explained. Makes a lot of sense and is done in a way that is fun yet understandable, relatable, and helpful for kids. Definitely recommend!
3 people found this helpful
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Great

I bought this to read to my kiddos while we are away from each other due to the pandemic.
2 people found this helpful
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Better than Inside Out!

I loved this book; absolutely loved and adored it. Allison Edwards’ Marcy’s Having all the Feels did the thing that not a lot of author’s are gifted with and created a realistic children’s story that focuses on feelings and feeling too much and how to deal with all of these wayward emotions for children AND adults!
The illustrations were bright, colorful and entertaining, and the story was engaging with dialogue and explanations for what each feeling represents and how to cope with overwhelming emotions.
I enjoyed that the author embraced the fact that while we all want to be happy every moment of our day, not only is it unrealistic to not feel other emotions, but without feeling other emotions, we would take our happiness for granted.
I personally enjoyed this books interpretations more than the movie Inside Out which I am sure people will compare it to. This book had an easy-to-read, easy-to-understand approach to dealing with your feelings and you don’t have to watch a two hour movie to understand the message. And after you’re done reading it to your child, there are prompts at the end of the story to engage your child with!

I received an ARC from the author and publisher in exchange for an honest review.
2 people found this helpful
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Great children’s book with nice Illustrations/ great about feelings.

Such a great book! Perfect fo kids. A great book about feelings.
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Embrace and Integrate Your Emotions

I really liked the vibrant colors and fine detail in this book. Cleverly, the emotions are depicted as small living things that look like tiny elves; emotions include Happy, Sad, Frustrated, Angry, Jealous, Embarrassed, and Worry plus a few more. They are in different colors to go with the emotion, like green for Jealous or dark blue for Sad. The gist of the book is that Marcy only likes having Happy as an emotion, not all the rest. We see a typical day of hers where negative emotions crop up when all she wants to be is happy. She only sees Happy once that day. After this tough day, Marcy wishes that all of her feelings would go away. But when that happens the next day, she finds herself feeling empty. And, of course, her favorite emotion, Happy, stays away as well. After this experience, she decides to embrace all of her emotions as they crop up. She faces her negative emotions head-on and comes to appreciate what they could teach her. Two new emotions emerge as well, Confidence and Peaceful. There's a page with three tips for parents and educators for them to give guidance to children so they can be more aware of and integrate their emotions.

I received a free copy of this book, but that did not affect my review.
1 people found this helpful