Nothing Good Can Come from This: Essays
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Nothing Good Can Come from This: Essays

Paperback – August 7, 2018

Price
$10.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
224
Publisher
MCD x FSG Originals
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0374286200
Dimensions
5.07 x 0.69 x 7.57 inches
Weight
6 ounces

Description

Finalist for the 2019 Washington State Book Awards "Kristi Coulter charts the raw, unvarnished, and quietly riveting terrain of new sobriety with wit and warmth. Nothing Good Can Come from This is a book about generative discomfort, surprising sources of beauty, and the odd, often hilarious, business of being human." ―Leslie Jamison, author of The Empathy Exams and The Recovering "Deeply human. Taken together, the collection is about more than sobriety. It’s a celebration of the quotidian, a love letter to the breathtaking beauty of the mundane." ―Rachel Sugar, Minneapolis Star Tribune " Coulter’s essays are short, smart, and with the heart that the (mostly male) addiction stories seem to miss . . .The pieces in Nothing Good Can Come from This are pleasantly messy incantations on loss, and what happens in its wake. Coulter shows her stumbles. She interrogates her usefulness, her language usage, her privilege, her ragged happiness . . . Coulter proves that our stories can be as complicated and powerful as we are." ―Sonya Lea, Los Angeles Review of Books "The collection – recounting the trials of alcoholism, yes, but further ranging through neighborhoods of childhood memories and job (dis)satisfactions and running marathons and what it’s like to be a woman, this Coulter woman in particular, in our modern world – will give readers a reason to stay awake and keep turning pages. In sympathetic fascination, definitely; but also in delight at Coulter’s insight-rich observations and self-abrading, sometimes LOL snark . . . Like a carafe of cool clear water, this book of Coulter’s will pair well with everything in life’s rich pageant." ―Wayne Alan Brenner, The Austin Chronicle “At turns heartrending and hilarious, Coulter is wonderfully conversational and never preachy as she tells her story of sobriety." ― Booklist "Women can talk about anything with one another, but we can't seem to talk about the insidious ways that alcohol has taken over our friendships, our social lives, and every aspect of our womanhood. Nothing Good Can Come From This is equal parts uncomfortable and important, and needs to be read by every woman who has wondered if she really should 'rosé all day,' or who regrets whatever happened at the last book club." ―Nora McInerny, author of It's Okay to Laugh “Brave, whip-smart, and laugh-out-loud funny. Kristi Coulter does not pull any punches tackling the taboos in so many women’s lives: addiction, sex, money, privilege, ambition, adultery, and power. In these essays, she bares her own soul to a greater end, writing with unflinching honesty and unexpected poetry. Although this is framed as a book about drinking, it’s ultimately about so much more: the insidious reasons why so many of us might polish off an entire bottle of Chardonnay in the first place―and how we might better serve ourselves in the end. Coulter herself is addictive to read. She’s a fresh, uncensored voice, offering up more than a drop of insight and hope.” ― New York Times –bestselling author Susan Jane Gilman “What’s the opposite of disappointment? Oh right, pure joy.That’s what I felt reading Nothing Good Can Come from This . I was dazzled by Kristi Coulter’s honesty, her humor, and above all her beautiful, perfectly tuned sentences. Rarely do formal invention and real emotion coexist so comfortably; in other words, both intelligence and heart are on full display here. It’s difficult to imagine a more, well, joyous reading experience.” ―Claire Dederer, author of Love and Trouble “Perfectly observant down to the smallest details, this account of drinking, sobriety, and starting (and then restarting) a manageable life is one of those books that is deeply serious, witty, and wonderfully compelling. The miracle of Kristi Coulter’s narrative is that it looks back at the reader and asks, ‘And how do you live?’ Nothing Good Can Come from This seems to speak for a whole generation, and it does so with great charm and brilliance.” ―Charles Baxter, author of The Feast of Love "Kristi Coulter’s Nothing Good Can Come from This is powerful medicine―healing in its fearlessness and elegant in its form. It is an inspiring account of a human being committed to examining her own life and mind in the midst of a toxic and tuned-out contemporary culture, and is recommended reading for anyone interested in doing the same.” ―Bonnie Nadzam, author of Lamb “Kristi Coulter says all the things you’re not supposed to say and points out all the things you’ve kind of noticed but never quite articulated. Nothing Good Can Come from This is equal parts hilarious and poignant, beautiful and wise. These are clear-eyed, fresh, and vital essays about addiction, sex, money, love, and the messy, terrifying work of being a person in this world.” ―Diana Spechler, author of Skinny and Who by Fire “ Nothing Good Can Come from This is a refreshing, candid, and very funny look into the life of a woman trying to learn how to be sober in a world that seems to want everyone to keep drinking. In unapologetic and deeply intelligent prose, Kristi Coulter exposes her own flaws while also turning a critical eye to our alcohol-drenched culture. This book is about sobriety, but it’s even more about a woman trying to define herself on her own terms, outside the frames of work, sex, and family.” ―Tom McAllister, author of How to Be Safe Kristi Coulter holds an MFA in creative writing from the University of Michigan. She is a former Ragdale Foundation resident and the recipient of a grant from the National Foundation for Advancement in the Arts. Her work has appeared in The Awl , Marie Claire , Vox , Quartz , and elsewhere. Nothing Good Can Come from This is her debut book. She lives in Seattle, Washington.

Features & Highlights

  • "Kristi Coulter charts the raw, unvarnished, and quietly riveting terrain of new sobriety with wit and warmth.
  • Nothing Good Can Come from This
  • is a book about generative discomfort, surprising sources of beauty, and the odd, often hilarious, business of being human." ―Leslie Jamison, author of
  • The Empathy Exams
  • and
  • The Recovering
  • Kristi Coulter inspired and incensed the internet when she wrote about what happened when she stopped drinking.
  • Nothing Good Can Come from This
  • is her debut--a frank, funny, and feminist essay collection by a keen-eyed observer no longer numbed into complacency.
  • When Kristi stopped drinking, she started noticing things. Like when you give up a debilitating habit, it leaves a space, one that can’t easily be filled by mocktails or ice cream or sex or crafting. And when you cancel Rosé Season for yourself, you’re left with just Summer, and that’s when you notice that the women around you are
  • tanked
  • ―that alcohol is the oil in the motors that keeps them purring when they could be making other kinds of noise.In her sharp, incisive debut essay collection, Coulter reveals a portrait of a life in transition. By turns hilarious and heartrending,
  • Nothing Good Can Come from This
  • introduces a fierce new voice to fans of Sloane Crosley, David Sedaris, and Cheryl Strayed―perfect for anyone who has ever stood in the middle of a so-called perfect life and looked for an escape hatch.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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So relatable

I was sober-curious when I ordered and had begun my sobriety when I started the book. Kristi was so relatable that sometimes it made me laugh and sometimes it made me cry. I'm so glad she wrote this.
25 people found this helpful
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Author disconnected from reality

I think the author has such potential , but , unfortunately, she can't get past whining and complaining about literally EVERYTHING. At one point she mentions that an alcoholic stops maturing at the age they begin drinking and this book certainly makes a good case for that.
17 people found this helpful
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Fun read if disorganized

I put off writing this review for quite a while because I'm just not sure what I think. I was (still am) a HUGE Kristi Coulter fan -- no one was more excited than me for this book to come out. I discovered her blog, Off Dry, at the perfect time in my life and I found her writing hilarious, insightful, resonant, brilliant. I was thrilled when she got the book deal and I pre-ordered the book in, oh, February. Read it in two days when it arrived in August. And ... hmm. It's an odd beast. It is engrossing and a fun read, like the blog but different -- and less engrossing and less fun. While I realize that memoirs don't have the same sort of story line or narrative arc that other types of writing does, this one needed a developmental editor. It jumps around in ways that it wouldn't have to, had it had a guiding hand. (E.g., the first essay is very disorienting and its fit with the themes of the book only becomes apparent later.) Aside from the organizational/thematic roughness, there were a couple of content-related things I found really weird. One is the much-too-often-repeated comments about how privileged she is. It's great that she recognizes this and it would have been cute and funny to have that popped in there once or twice, but the loud drumbeat? Of the $1700 handbag sort of life? Not sure who she thinks will relate to that or find it funny -- not that it's an author's job to hand the readers only things they can relate to (far from it), but there's something very tone deaf about this. And then there's the sudden spate of explicit sexual discussions in a single chapter. Erg. Can't get those images out of my head and boy I'd like to. Again, nothing wrong with sexual content in books, but it so doesn't fit in this one. Just me, but I'm hoping her next book (which there better be one!) gets better developmental editing.
17 people found this helpful
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Whines With a Side of Wine

The electric and lilting use of words and metaphors is tantalizing, and the self-deprecation depictions laugh-out-loud-able, but the overkill of narcissistic ramblings on music and a high class restaurant lifestyle are tiring. I kept hoping it would move outward towards the reader, and to all of us who have our own addictions, yet as soon as it did, it cycloned back into self-absorption and shopping and problems that the majority of Americans would love to have.
14 people found this helpful
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A genuinely stunning read

I picked up this book after a long hiatus from reading. I actually got an advanced copy. And I'm so glad I did. It was almost by chance, but what a gem I've unearthed.

Kristi calls the book a collection of essays and each has a unique focus and tone. But collectively they paint a rich and wonderful picture of an author you feel you come to know well in the end. The book is nonlinear, but the movement through time is elegant and purposeful. The book feels less about sobriety than it does about navigating contemporary society and its norms. Sometimes painfully, but the journey is always rewarding.

I love the sheer honesty in Kristi's writing and her choice of focus. I found myself frequently having to pause after reading a passage, taking it in-- savoring it awhile. Not "having" to so much as wanting to. This is not a book to rush through. And there are moments where the writing is as good as any I know. An essay on contemplating infidelity is startling in both subject and prose.

My only problem with the book is that its left me wanting more. Its a rare book that I'll keep after reading. This one will remain, beloved on a shelf awaiting company from another like it if we are so lucky.
11 people found this helpful
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Read it

I was excited to read this book and so I set aside a few hours the day of delivery. I wasn’t disappointed. I tore right through it (I’m a crazy fast reader) and then re-read sections. It’s exactly what it should be - human, not perfect, hopeful and real. If I were a book I’d want people to think that about me :). The writing is clever but not trying to be. Will it fix your addictions? No, it’s not trying to. Will it make you think, and flinch and question? Yes. And it will make you think...damn when is another book coming out??
9 people found this helpful
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Human Experience from a Sober Perspective

I know that, as humans, we're more alike than different. But, I never would have thought I'd find *so much* of myself in someone's life which looks very little like mine. And yet, in every essay I marveled at her ability to completely and perfectly describe (with nearly identical phrases!) experiences I've had in my own life.

To me, this is so much more than a book on sobriety (or maybe I think that because I'm sober). These are essays on the human experience, from a sober perspective. I've read other books by sober people talking about their life before & after their drug of choice, but Kristi Coulter talks about it with humor, compassion and grace in all its complexity, in a way I haven't read yet.

She had me at Going Long. Then again with Pussy Triptych, Useful, and Elephant Gray.

This is a soul connecting memoir-in-essays and she's a brilliant writer. I highly recommend this one if you like a hearty laugh, enjoy feeling connected to others, and/or identify as a human being.
8 people found this helpful
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Ignore the wine glass on the cover

This connection of essays isn't "about" alcohol, even though Kristi Coulter returns to the topic several times over its course. (She also talks a lot about lipstick and Paul Westerberg, but it's not about either of those things, either.) It's about discovery more than recovery: learning, at an age where we had assumed we had figured these things out already, that we're not necessarily the people we thought we were, or that we're not just those people. The experience can be scary, confusing, depressing, and/or unexpectedly hilarious. Coulter has clearly felt all those feels, and these essays--as eclectic stylistically as they are emotionally--deliver a powerful, personal, but relatable message.
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Loved it!

I loved this book! I've been reading Kristi Coulter's writing since her Enjoli essay went viral last year, so I preordered this and I'm so glad that I did. Her essays are funny - I laughed out loud several times - and I love the way she is able to blend humor with lines that are also poignant and beautiful. "Pussy Triptych" was one of my favorites, as was "Notes to Self: Rachel's Wedding," and any parts that included her husband, John. It seems like this book is being marketed mostly as a story about getting sober, and that's certainly a big part of it, but it's also about much more than that, so don't let that put you off if you aren't into that subject. I'm not either, particularly, but I could have read this in one sitting if I'd let myself.

The only downside for me was that some of the best essays are available online, so I had read them already, but there is still enough new material to keep it interesting. I read another review that described the book as "crude." I don't think that's a fair description, but she does talk openly about sex, so if that's not your thing, then this is not the book for you.

Overall, though, I think this book is great, and I will be recommending it to my friends. It's fun, smart, and exactly what I wanted.
7 people found this helpful
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Not much more then became a drunk, now I'm not and I work at amozon and am rich.

I didn't get much from book. You might. It's ok. Loved the part where she loved an AA meeting, never went again then whines about not having sober friends. Lol.
5 people found this helpful