Nowhere Girl: A Memoir of a Fugitive Childhood
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Nowhere Girl: A Memoir of a Fugitive Childhood

Hardcover – June 15, 2021

Price
$25.30
Format
Hardcover
Pages
320
Publisher
Algonquin Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1616208202
Dimensions
5 x 1 x 8 inches
Weight
1.05 pounds

Description

From School Library Journal Born to a family on the run, Harbhajan, aka Bhajan, has never known what it's like to call somewhere home. Throughout her transient childhood, her family cycles through countries, identities, and religions at the drop of a hat, always on the run from a mysterious, unknown enemy. Because they are always on the move, a formal education, stability, and sense of normalcy are never a priority for Bhajan, the youngest in her family. The book charts her life through significant ages and locations, beginning at age four and ending at 28, with stints as a top-level gymnast and best-selling author among the highlights. Much more frequent, however, are the lowlights that punctuate her isolated family life: physical abuse at the hands of her volatile father, verbal abuse perpetuated by a hateful sister, and sexual abuse carried out by the person she had trusted most, her brother. This compelling memoir illustrates life on the run with short, fast-paced chapters that often end abruptly as Bhajan and her family are found out and take off again. As Bhajan grows older and life becomes slightly more stable, the narrative slows down, focusing more deeply on Bhajan's reckoning with her upbringing: trauma, forgiveness, family, and finding home. VERDICT Readers intrigued by memoirs of resiliency in spite of insular upbringings like Educated by Tara Westover or The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls will be riveted by Diamond's work.-Mary Kamela, Kenmore West High School, Buffalo, NYα(c) Copyright 2011. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted. "A riveting tale of trauma and resilience." — People “Like Tara Westover’s Educated , Cheryl Diamond’s memoir tells the harrowing story of how crippling a childhood can be under the despotic narcissistic rule of a controlling father . . . Diamond has a powerful story to tell, and she tells it well, creating strong characters and settings, describing the complicated motivations of her parents and older siblings, all while conveying her yearning for ‘normalcy,’ whatever that is.” — New York Journal of Books “A shocking rollercoaster ride of a story that shares secrets of life on the run but also asks big questions about what family means and who we truly are, no matter what the name on a passport might say.” — Town Country “This memoir is proof that truth really is stranger than fiction.” — CrimeReads, “The Most Anticipated Crime Books of 2021: Summer Reading Edition” “A transfixing chronicle . . . Propulsive . . . Eloquent and bracing, Diamond’s story will haunt readers long after the last page.” — Publishers Weekly , starred review “A beyond-harrowing memoir . . .xa0 Diamond's tale might just be the most mind-blowing of them all.” — Booklist, starred review “Former teen model Diamond reveals a childhood both wacky and cliff-hanging in Nowhere Girl ; on the run with an outlaw family, she lived in more than a dozen countries, on five continents, under six assumed identities, by age nine.” — Library Journal “ Nowhere Girl beautifully captures the intensity, darkness, and fierce love within an uncompromising outlaw family. Diamond's odyssey would leave the most adventurous among us panting to keep up.” —Alia Volz, author of Home Baked: My Mom, Marijuana, and the Stoning of San Francisco Cheryl Diamond is now a citizen of Luxembourg and lives between there andxa0Rome. Her behind-the-scenes account of life as a teenage model, Model: A Memoir , was published in 2008. Diamond´s second book, Naked Rome , reveals the Eternal City through the eyes of its most fascinating people. Her new book, Nowhere Girl: A Memoir of a Fugitive Childhood , is available now. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • By the age of nine, I will have lived in more than a dozen countries, on five continents, under six assumed identities. I’ll know how a document is forged, how to withstand an interrogation, and most important, how to disappear . . .
  • To the young Cheryl Diamond, life felt like one big adventure, whether she was hurtling down the Himalayas in a rickety car or mingling with underworld fixers. Her family appeared to be an unbreakable gang of five. One day they were in Australia, the next in South Africa, the pattern repeating as they crossed continents, changed identities, and erased their pasts. What Diamond didn’t yet know was that she was born into a family of outlaws fleeing from the highest international law enforcement agencies, a family with secrets that would eventually catch up to all of them. By the time she was in her teens, Diamond had lived dozens of lives and lies, but as she grew older, love and trust turned to fear and violence, and her family—the only people she had in the world—began to unravel. She started to realize that her life itself might be a big con, and the people she loved, the most dangerous of all. With no way out and her identity burned so often that she had no proof she even existed, all that was left was a girl from nowhere. Surviving would require her to escape, and to do so Diamond would have to unlearn all the rules she grew up with. Wild, heartbreaking, and often unexpectedly funny,
  • Nowhere Gir
  • l is an impossible-to-believe true story of self-discovery and triumph.

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Unbelievable story, convinced it is true

I finished the book and decided it had to be a true story. It would have taken the creative imagination of a genius to write this book and Cheryl Diamond is smart and clever but not a genius. It is a harrowing tale of abuse by both her brother (sexual), father and sister. It is amazing that she survived the abuse and her illness. She had an idyllic early life so it must be true that the first years of a person's life gives one the tools for survival.
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Interesting Read

Cheryl Diamond did not have a traditional childhood. Her family traveled the globe, not staying in one place for very long, on the run from Interpol. She lived under different names and learned different languages while constantly adapting to new situations. She makes few friends and doesn't get to experience most traditional childhood rites of passage like attending regular schools, eating sugar, and staying in one place long enough to build community.

Diamond definitely did live an interesting life, enduring things no child should have to endure and a controlling father. Her story reads like a stream of consciousness and is at times hard to follow, especially in the beginning where there is no real introduction.

I received an ARC of this book for free and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
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Excellent read

I couldn’t put this book down. The life the author lived is unbelievable, both endearing and very disturbing at the same time. I won’t re-tell the story as so many other readers do as you really have to read it to believe it. The intense emotions, love, competition, family loyalty and abuse are all compelling reasons to read this story. I only wish we could have known what happened to her brother after they were separated. This is probably one of the best autobiographies I’ve read in many years.
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Enthralling, heart-wrenching memoir

It’s blog tour day for Nowhere Girl by Cheryl Diamond! Thank you to Algonquin for having me and sending me copies of this wonderful memoir. I enjoyed this book from the first page to the last. Memoirs can be a tricky thing to rate, because it can feel like you’re putting a rating on someone’s personal experiences. I find that most memoirs that I pick up, I really enjoy. There’s nothing quite like looking into another person’s life, especially when their life has been quite out of the ordinary.

There’s a few things that make a memoir great to me and a huge one is vivid storytelling. I like when you get a sense of that personal inner voice and we absolutely get that with Nowhere Girl. We follow Cheryl into adulthood from childhood. We watch her evolution from a mature, overachieving, loyal child to a grown woman reeling from the trauma she didn’t realize she was experiencing as kid. There’s a lot of heavy stuff in the book and she tells it in a way that keeps us wanting to read more. Trigger warnings for molestation by a family member, familial abuse, intense manipulation and gas-lighting. The writing is well done; intelligent and expertly crafted. There was never a boring passage or moment that I glazed over.

Cheryl lives a life by many names but it’s truly empowering to see her journey from young Harbhajan to the woman she is today. She lives with a father whose motives are all selfish but as a child, he’s her hero. She sees a man on the run from Interpol at no fault of his own, though as she gets older, the layers are pulled back. Like most children, she realizes her parents aren’t perfect, that they’re actually very flawed people. Though her situation is extreme, many can relate to the moment that you shed the childlike mentality of blissful ignorance and realize that life isn’t as stable and idyllic as you once thought. She comes to a moment of reckoning; her father stole years of stability, stole from her a place to call home. She literally has no legal home country, as her parents used fake names on her birth certificate and have spent years running around the world on forged passports. Does she go to court to try to fight for a place in the world? Is this a betrayal to her father? Will she be exiled to a country where she doesn’t know a soul, doesn’t know the language? Will she ever have a life to call her own?

Nowhere Girl is one of those books that would make an excellent movie because it’s almost unbelievable that someone went through this. It’s truly awe-inspiring that Cheryl is able to write and tell us of all these hardships that she faced with her family. She’s someone who has lived through the unthinkable and somehow keeps rising, keeps finding new ways to succeed. This is a breathtaking, honest, witty memoir and I’m glad that I had the opportunity to read it.
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" child of the world learns to live on her own"

This book was chosen by my university book club. We all read one book and discuss it along the way for several months. The group is choosing the books to read with a majority vote. This system works well as the book club has chosen riveting books for the two years of its existence.
Nowhere Girl is a gripping nightmare of a child alone in the world. This seems unlikely in a world that wants children...but there are some individuals who don't want them or only want them for work or for profit.
A feral child from Mexico once came to my literacy program---he had no alphabet and spoke in gurgling sounds. That was a sad case. This book reveals how this situation can happen anywhere and brings admiration to the survival skills of the Nowhere Girl.
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Nowhere Girl

Cheryl Diamond has a unique childhood, with a family which lives everywhere and nowhere. Her father is a conniving, brilliant investor who makes sure his family conforms to his assumed identities, and treats them like followers rather than family. This family is from Canada, but moves to India, Cyprus, Germany and the United States by the time Cheryl ( Harbajan) is 13. A fascinating read.
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Stranger Than Fiction

When I heard about this book, I was immediately intrigued by its description. It sounds like the epilogue of a fugitive story - and definitely proves the adage that truth is stranger than fiction! Crossing continents and decades, this story of a family on the run really does read like fiction with its short chapters organized by the author's age and location. It's hard to put down!

The author reveals a childhood fraught with danger - both from shadowy and more present external threats, but also no less sinister internal ones. Flitting across so many countries and continents, as the author ages, the dangers, secrets and outright lies begin to take this family over completely. Scenes tinged with warmth and genuine affection are replaced by ones bogged down by fear and distrust.

And though the book ends on a more hopeful note than I expected - especially after all the violence, stress and sickness! There are, however, a few things that I wish had a bit more clarity to them - particularly in regards to the fate of Frank, and more detail about Chiara. For a book devoted to revealing the truth, there are certainly more than a few scenes that seem to obfuscate the truth, which can make it a little muddled. But the author proves herself to be the strongest one of her family - though, obviously I would have liked more detail about the rest of them as well. And it certainly makes me curious to pick up a copy of the author's debut memoir about her life as a teenage model in NYC.
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she didnt like it

no good
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Excellent, quick read!

This book was very interesting; I love true stories and the writer does a great job pulling you into her life growing up in her families unusual lifestyle.
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Key Figure Dropped

It was a page turner alright but after making her brother be a key figure in her life and to US, she drops him completely out of the story. Being it is a memoir a reader can't demand a different truth but was he killed, or had he committed suicide? We are told of the long breakdown of the mother BUT we are never told what she was told about her son or her WORDS said or screamed out concerning her grief. What did she say? This causes a major flaw (to me) about the last 1/3 of this story. The author had to have conjured up a scenario in her mind as to what had happened to him and had at least shared those scrambled thoughts. I got the feeling if she had had, she couldn't explain her loyalty to her dad or her anger at her mother in any way which would make us sympathetic to her. We wouldn't then buy that she presented such a "happy face" to keep the family together. Understandably she did this to keep herself sane BUT where is Frank?
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