Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Coming Home
Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Coming Home book cover

Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Coming Home

Paperback – Illustrated, March 27, 2018

Price
$15.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
240
Publisher
Hachette Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0316352628
Dimensions
5.5 x 0.63 x 8.25 inches
Weight
6.4 ounces

Description

"Funny, generous, thoughtful, and wonderfully crisp, Dickinson's memoir is one of those tales that make you proud to be a human--with all of our hopes, failures, and graces intact."― Gillian Flynn, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Gone Girl "Dickinson deftly recounts [her story] truthfully but without trespassing on family members' privacy...Her warm and generous spirit makes a reader feel as though they've been invited in for hot cocoa on a cold day."― Booklist (starred review) "Amy Dickinson has written a simply wonderful memoir. It is courageously honest and touching, but most of all, hilarious and laugh-out-loud funny. She tells us what it is like to be human, to love and to lose and keep going, no matter what. This book is a life-affirming love letter to small town America and the true meaning of family and community. I couldn't have loved it more!"― Fannie Flagg, New York Times bestselling authorof Can't Wait to Get to Heaven "[An] honest, funny memoir...especially potent when it comes to the blending of families...[a book] that won't disappoint."― Real Simple "A wonderful memoir of what family and home mean in these complicated times. Amy Dickinson will captivate you with her wit, wisdom, and honesty."― Delia Ephron,author of Siracusa "Wryly sincere and poignant...Dickinson remains an engagingly chatty, witty, and relatable writer with sage insights."― Kirkus Reviews "This book is a truth machine. A laugh machine. An I-needed-that-kick-in-the-ass machine. Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things is absolute proof that the best stories don't just entertain us; they reveal us. And lift us. Wherever you are in your life, you need this book."― Brad Meltzer, #1 New York Times bestsellingauthor of Heroes for My Daughter "This is awkward, because the characters in this book are real people, but I'm going to say it anyway: I love the people in this book. Jane! Bruno and the daughters! And Amy, who is very tough on herself, and funny and wise; I especially love her because she is a wonderful writer. Plus, she sings in the church choir. Plus, there is a line on p. 169 that makes me laugh every time I think of it. Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things is a terrific memoir."― Jane Hamilton, bestselling author of A Map of The World "Poignant and revealing."― Bustle, Best Nonfiction Books of the Month "Dickinson makes you believe in the ageless gift of love....In Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things, she is...making room for us to make our own mistakes, to leave the house with our hair unbrushed, to fall in love in a rush, to fall off the tightrope during that awkward blending family stage, and then to climb back on, quietly triumphant."― Beth Kephart, The Chicago Tribune "'Real life doesn't always reveal itself as neatly as a question sent in to an advice columnist,' Dickinson admits. But the heartfelt honesty of her entertaining narrative--rife with contemporary dramas to which many readers will relate--makes for a compelling, hopeful portrait of a woman coming-of-middle-age with wit, aplomb and authenticity."― Shelf Awareness "You can't go home again. But you should consider moving to Amy Dickinson's hometown. The Village of Freeville may not have a Starbucks but it's got Venti grace, kindness, and wisdom."― Mo Rocca, CBS Sunday Morning "Amy Dickinson's Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things is a very funny, whip-smart, charming, and addictively engaging memoir. I felt myself wanting to jump into the pages and be with all of Amy's people, and of course Amy. The wisdom she is well known for is present on every page without knocking you over the head. This is a book you will want to read and give to the people you love (and maybe the people you aren't so crazy about)."― Julie Klam, New York Times bestselling author of You Had Me at Woof Amy Dickinson is a syndicated advice columnist. She replaced Ann Landers in 2003 and now pens the "Ask Amy" column, which appears in more than 100 newspapers nationwide, including the LA Times , the Chicago Tribune, Newsday , the Boston Herald , the St. Louis Post Dispatch , and the Washington Post . She currently lives in Chicago.

Features & Highlights

  • In
  • Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things
  • --her follow-up memoir to the
  • NYT
  • bestselling
  • The Mighty Queens of Freeville
  • --America's most popular advice columnist, "Ask Amy," shares her journey of family, second chances, and finding love.
  • By peeling back the curtain of her syndicated advice column, Amy Dickinson reveals much of the inspiration and motivation that has fueled her calling. Through a series of linked essays, this moving narrative picks up where her earlier memoir left off. Exploring central themes of romance, death, parenting, self-care, and spiritual awakening, this touching and heartfelt homage speaks to all who have faced challenges in the wake of life's twists and turns. From finding love in middle-age to her storied experience with stepparenting to overcoming disordered eating to her final moments spent with her late mother, Dickinson's trademark humorous tone delivers punch and wit that will empower, entertain, and heal.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Returning Home and Finding Love

Dickinson’s memoir is a warm, wise, slice-of-life look at her bucolic hometown of Freeville, NY. She returns there as a divorced, single mother, after having lived in London and Chicago. From Freeville, she writes her popular, syndicated advice column and travels back to Chicago for work-related stints. She flourishes back home, amid the throng of her close-knit family and numerous relatives. She finds unexpected, mid-life love and embraces sudden stepmotherhood, while also caring for her elderly mother. The book is like having a cup of coffee with a good friend. Dickinson writes with candor, humility and palpable empathy. She clearly has affection for Freeville, the defining backdrop of much of her life. In the small town of people that Dickinson has known for decades, casseroles are still left on porches, kids walk with fishing poles in summer and church choir practice and Dairy Day are reliably attended. The reader is transported back to a simpler time and place, and then abruptly brought up short by the realization that this town is not a fictionalized Mayberry of long-ago, but rather, a present-day town that thrives on the values of family, faith and community. Dickinson gives the reader a small glimpse into her world as she juggles work, parenting, care-giving, marriage and friendships. Her strong family ties and a deep and abiding connection to Freeville resonate throughout the book. This is an engaging read about a woman who spends much of her life searching, only to find that the things she wanted most, and the things that mattered most were at home all along. The book is wry, wistful, nostalgic, forgiving and generous. It is filled with the hard and wonderful life experiences that make us strong and grateful. Wonderful book.
Relatable and authentic.
7 people found this helpful
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Tiresome

I wanted to like this, and the writing style is interesting, but the humble-brag “my life is better than yours but I’ll act like I also struggle occasionally” tone wore me out. Many first-world upper-class problems and a healthy dose of self-absorption.
2 people found this helpful
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A Great Clever Read

This book is a follow up to Amy first book. Very cleverly written, wish Amy would write more books.
Also love her Ask Amy column.
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Now I want to be friends with Amy

Although this book dragged in places (most people's personal lives are simply not that interesting) and included some whiplash-inducing name-dropping (meeting Barack Obama, Jeff Bezos, and Hank Aaron all the same night?), overall I enjoyed this book very much and found myself wanting to hang out with Amy's family. I did wonder what happened to her brother Charlie; she mentions him in the anecdotes about her childhood but not after that, and with how deeply she delves into the loss of her mother and other relatives, I thought she would have mentioned if he'd died.
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Loving, honest memoir

I loved this memoir by Amy Dickinson, from “Ask Amy” and “Wait, Wait, Don’t Tell Me”.
Hers is an interesting and heartwarming story of Love and Loss and Love again, and of her journey as a professional and as a family member.
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A universally appealing book!

This was a wonderful, poignant, hilarious and beautifully written book. I'm in my mid-30s, and I got this from my mid 80s year old grandpa, and despite having totally different life experiences, we both resonated with this book and loved it. Amy tells her story with a precise and yet universal appeal. You won't be able to put this book down!
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So Real

Loved this book. Amy Dickinson's advice column is so real and down-to-earth, just like her book. She's no nonsense and reading about her life explains a lot about how she responds to people's letters. Enjoyed every page of it.
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Great aughor

Another great author!
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A memoir of finding love in late midlife

A memoir of finding love in late midlife. An introspection of the short comings of ones self, a story of loss. Even a bit of an emotional twelve step. What did ya expect from an advice columnist? I liked the Queens Of Freeville and I liked this even more. Huba Huba.
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Fun Read

Fun read, interesting real life story. Great summer read, a bit chaotic but fun and very entertaining.