The Ones We Choose
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The Ones We Choose

Paperback – May 8, 2018

Price
$11.89
Format
Paperback
Pages
368
Publisher
Gallery Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1501184475
Dimensions
5.31 x 0.92 x 8.25 inches
Weight
9.6 ounces

Description

“How could I not love a debut about science, secrets, DNA, and how the traumas of our ancestors still live within our very cells? With gorgeous prose, and a deep emotional resonance, The Ones We Choose is about the science of love, how our DNA shapes us, and a mother’s fierce battle to protect her son while confronting what really makes our identity ours, what and who we choose to let in, and what and who we don’t. An absolutely dazzling, profound ruby of a novel.” -- Caroline Leavitt, New York Times bestselling author of Pictures of You and Cruel Beautiful World"A novel with a wonderfully smart and strong protagonist, Julie Clark's debut The Ones We Choose is an impressive and surprising combination of hard science and raw emotion. In this absorbing story of friendship, parenting, and the intensity of the sibling bond, Clark reveals how messy family life can be and how the mess itself might be of great value. An engaging read!" -- Amy Poeppel, author of Small Admissions"An engaging, heart-felt alchemy of genetics and emotion, THE ONES WE CHOOSE is a unique story that will having you thinking about the true meaning of family and how our heritage silently weaves its way into every choice we make." -- Amy Hatvany, author of Outside the Lines"This chimera of heart and science skillfully produces an extraordinary breakthrough novel. I love smart fiction with a sharp heroine at the core. Julie Clark has perceptively given us that in The Ones We Choose . A story of mother and son and the ties that bind, right down to the marrow. Trust me, you're going to want to read this." -- Sarah McCoy, New York Times and international bestselling author of Marilla of Green Gables and The Mapmaker's Children"A unique marriage of love and science, Julie Clark’s powerful debut The Ones We Choose proves family is what we make it. Poignant and captivating, this is a read-in-one-sitting story!" -- Karma Brown, bestselling author of The Choices We Make Born and raised in Santa Monica, California, Julie Clark grew up reading books on the beach while everyone else surfed. After attending college at University of the Pacific, and a brief stint working in the athletic department at University of California, Berkeley, she returned home to Santa Monica to teach. She now lives there with her two young sons and a golden doodle with poor impulse control. The Ones We Choose is her first novel. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. The Ones We Choose Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Lisa Genova meets 23andMe in this exploration of the genetic and emotional ties that bind, as debut author Julie Clark delivers a compelling read about a young boy desperate to find his place in this world, a mother coming to terms with her own past, and the healing power of forgiveness.
  • The powerful forces of science and family collide when geneticist Paige Robson finds her world in upheaval: Her eight-year-old son Miles is struggling to fit in at his new school and begins asking questions about his biological father that Paige can’t answer—until fate thrusts the anonymous donor she used into their lives. Paige’s carefully constructed life begins to unravel as the truth of Miles’s paternity threatens to destroy everything she has grown to cherish. As Paige slowly opens herself up—by befriending an eccentric mother, confronting her own deeply buried vulnerabilities, and trying to make sense of her absent father’s unexpected return—she realizes breakthroughs aren’t only for the lab. But when tragedy strikes, Paige must face the consequences of sharing a secret only she knows. With grace and humor, Julie Clark shows that while the science is fascinating, solving these intimate mysteries of who we are and where we come from unleashes emotions more complex than the strands of DNA that shape us.

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Heartfelt story of family and motherhood with a dash of science

This was such a wonderful, heartfelt read! I loved the science and genetics subplot. It was fascinating! But more than that, I really connected with Paige. She was a sympathetic, developed character that I couldn't help but root for. Her love for her son, her fears, the walls she put up to protect herself--they made her a compelling character for me. The story, too, was equally compelling. Julie Clark weaves a heart-felt story of family, motherhood, and breaking past childhood trauma with precision. The story never lags. The in-between chapters of science, which complement the story, were intriguing. It's one of those stories that I'll read over and over again.
12 people found this helpful
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An awesome read!

A definite MUST READ!!
I never post recommendations (everyone has their own tastes, and usually I don't try to push my tastes on others), but I can't pass this up. It has been a long time since I picked up a book and did not want to put it back down, again, until I finished. I highly recommend The Ones We Choose, by Julie Abbott Clark. Similar to Henrietta Lacks in that science is interwoven into the story, but in a very understandable (but not condescending) way for a lay person...beautifully written with real and relatable characters...intriguing and interesting, without absurd or outlandish storylines. From the jacket description (with which I completely agree!): "With grace and humor, Julie Clark shows that while the science is fascinating, solving intimate mysteries of who we are and where we come from unleashes emotions more complex than the strands of DNA that shape us."
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Julie Clark's debut is storytelling at its finest. Paige Robson is every mother who is fiercely ...

Julie Clark's debut is storytelling at its finest. Paige Robson is every mother who is fiercely protective of her child and yet can't stop the wheels of her child's curiosity or temper his intense desire to know his father. She knows his heart will be broken as hers is with regard to her own father. As a geneticist, she tries to answer the complicated question of why some fathers never bond with their children, hoping to discover a solution that is one simple medication away from eliminating the heartbreak of abandonment and paternal detachment. There is so much to admire here in Clark's interweaving of Paige's history and scientific research with the present pain of her son, Miles. I'm a fan of learning something when I read, whether of the heart or the mind, and loved the information on genetics that preceded each chapter. The secondary characters are fully developed and a sign of the author's talent that I felt sympathy for each of them even when their goals were at odds with one another. A beautiful read that I thoroughly enjoyed.
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Engaging blend of science & love.

Julie Clark has written an entertaining, suspenseful, totally engaging novel about a mother's love in the complexities of 21st century life. I could not put this book down. The characters are so well drawn it pulled me into their lives. Despite being an English literature major in college I have never been much of a fiction reader but this one caught me. Mixing the science of genetics with the love of family and some complete surprises makes this debut novel absolutely brilliant. I look forward to the next offering from Julie Clark.
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During the book Paige was seeing a man who loved her and (of course) was sleeping with her (no ...

I'm Catholic and the Catholic Church has a reputation for being unfeeling and unrealistic when it comes to matters of family planning. Basically the Catholic Church teaches that sex, marriage and babies go together--and that to have one while purposefully blocking the others is wrong. No marriage without sex, no sex without marriage, no sex that doesn't allow the possibility of a baby (no, sex isn't limited to fertile people or fertile times in life, but you can't use artificial birth control to cut out the possibility of a child nor can you engage in sexual behavior that is by design, infertile such as homosexual or auto-erotic acts)and no babies without marriage or without sex (even if having sex doesn't result in a baby). While sometimes those teachings can be hard to live up to and even seem needlessly cruel, The Ones We Choose is Exhibit "A" on their wisdom.

Paige wanted a baby, but not a husband,so she got pregnant via a sperm donor. She sees no reason her son should know or want to know anything about the sperm donor but of course, her son doesn't see it that way.

As fate would have it, Paige had reason to believe she knew who the donor was and had reason to want to confirm it so she broke the ethical rules of her own lab to find out if her suspicions were correct.

During the book Paige was seeing a man who loved her and (of course) was sleeping with her (no graphic scenes). He wasn't happy with that status quo, but she was--she didn't want him too close.

For pretty much the whole book Paige does what Paige thinks is best for Paige, what meets Paige's supposed needs and wants without considering the effect those actions have on others. Nope, I didn't like Paige at all and that I'm sure colored my opinion of the book.
Actually, it was a well-written story with characters you really felt you knew when the story was over; the problem for me was rooting for Paige and not wanting to shake my "I told you so" finger in her face. It's hard to rate a book that I have to admit was well-done, but which is about a woman whose life values are so different from my own. I guess I'll give the book a B.
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I am re-born!

I cannot explain the different emotions this book evoked. I cried for the last few chapters, but it was more like an overwhelming emotion that made my eyes overflow! I feel new. I feel raw and I feel re-born. I wasn't sure I would like the style of writing where there was a scientific "report" before each chapter about DNA, but it ended up being my favorite part of the book. I loved reading the science and I especially loved when the author began incorporating the main character's thoughts and experiences into these "science reports" before each chapter. Without a strong dose of preaching, the author drew a straight line toward how to forgive and that we are all doing our best with the lessons given to us from our Nature and how we were Nurtured. Just brilliantly done!
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Ehh

The amount of times this woman used the word “incredulous” is not ok.
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I was completely absorbed in the pages of this wonderful novel!

Fabulous family drama! Julie Clark melds science with emotion in this heartfelt story about finding one's place and belonging. I was completely absorbed in the pages of this wonderful novel!
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Another great read from Julie Clark!

I loved the characters in this book and all of the factual information about how our genetics are influenced by our own experiences. It was really hard to put down once I got into it!
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Beautifully written

I absolutely adored this book. The blend of science and family was fascinating. It reminded me a lot of a Jodi Picoult novel, but smarter. I couldn't put the book down and finished it faster than I've finished any book in the last few years.
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