Today I'm a Monster (Cozy Reading Nook)
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Today I'm a Monster (Cozy Reading Nook)

Paperback – Large Print, November 23, 2017

Price
$11.95
Format
Paperback
Pages
42
Publisher
Independently published
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1973349204
Dimensions
8.25 x 0.1 x 8.25 inches
Weight
4.2 ounces

Description

***** (5*) Just whatI needed! Every once in a while I come across a children's book thatmakes me both smile and brings tears to my eyes. This is one of those books. Weall have bad days. We all become monsters. This story is a wonderful way toshow your child that it's ok. No matter what happens they are loved andunderstood. It's absolutely wonderful!By Amazon Customer mom2three ***** 5 Stars Such a sweet book! My daughter is 5 and she gave me a big hug after we read it together. It definitely touched us both. Very much recommend this book for a cuddly snugly bed time reading! :) Byxa0Amazon customerxa0Iryna S. ***** 5 Stars Adorable monster story! I am excited to see this book being so kind and adorable yet taking about the monster, as many kids are afraid of them, but not this one. The story is profound with idea of good relationship with family, mother and teaches love and kindness - that's exactly the personality i would love to see in my growing up son. Very sweet book Byxa0Amazon customer Olvij ***** (5*) ILOVE, LOVE, LOVE it! As a grandma, I couldrelate to this story both for my own son years ago and my grandkids now. Itmade me smile and laugh and even brought tears to my eyes this morning becauseit is so sweetly written and so very true! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it! I can't waitto read it to our two-year-old twin grandsons who are usually so very sweet andpolite but on rare occasions wake up like a monster too! By Amazon customer Rose W I would like to illuminate my thoughts on this story, explain why I made it this particular way, and why I believe it is really useful and therapeutic in the way it exists now.As a mother of three, I know that periods of tantrums or aggressive behavior can be short-lived and limited to a single tantrum or quarrel or broken toy. But I also know that such episodes can be several in a day, and they can recur daily for quite a long time. The storyline unfolds throughout the entire day. Hyperbole is a common occurrence in children's literature. This is to accommodate as many examples of bad behavior as possible so that children can truly recognize themselves in the main character. This book is a work of art.I didn't mean to make a teaching guide for children and parents.It wasn't supposed to be explicitly moralizing and instructive book. I didn't want to talk about responsibility and punishment for bad behavior. This is another story.It aims to interest kids and make them think. From my own experience, I know that children do not like to read about the consequences of bad behavior very much and would hardly return to such a story again.Instead, I made this story thought-provoking and a good starter for talking. The main purpose of this book is to be the starter for an important conversation between the child and the parent after an episode of bad behavior. It is very often difficult to talk about feelings after a conflict. And it is very important for the child to know that he is still loved, whatever happened. So the main point is this book is to be a starter to important conversation. Agnes Green P.S. The fact is that I wrote this story mostly about myself and my children. And so the focus is on the mother-child relationship. This connection and its intimacy and importance for the child are emphasized. Agnes Green is deeply passionate about three things: children, her family, and writing. Through the art of storytelling, she is on a mission to inspire as many children as possible. From an unwavering love for writing as a child, to creating her very own small publishing company (April Tale Books apriltalebooks.com), she strives to provide inspiring stories that bring families together. Read more

Customer Reviews

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Not for my kids! Monster's too extreme; No Responsibility Included; Dad is strangely a by-stander

I am very frustrated with this book. It is well-intended and might be good for a few children, but it is not what I wanted it to be and not appropriate for my 4 year old twins.

This book is written for kids with extreme problems acting out. Kids whose only need right now is to deal with the shame they experience after they've calmed down.

The message of the book is that Mom still sees the boy inside the monster and loves that boy even while the monster is acting out. To make this point, they make the boy/monster's behavior extreme and continuous for a whole day. I realize some kids go through day's like that, but it's the minority. It is certainly far beyond the 30-60 minute tantrums I get from my kids. The behavior in the book feels like it would give my kids additional, more destructive ideas about how to act out when they are mad and trying to upset other people.

Yes, it is important to reduce the shame that kids feel about making mistakes. But teaching them they are still loved is only the first lesson for kids that act out like this. I was looking for a book that includes more than this. This book includes very little story telling about what to do after the monster is gone. No examples of being responsible for behavior, or cleaning up messes, or taking care of people that "the monster" might have hurt or upset. At the end of the story, the authors just have the boy interact with people he wronged as though nothing ever happened.

Maybe some kids are so out-of-control that they need a book like this that is just focused on being loved and getting past the shame. I think the description of this book should be clearer about that target audience. Most kids are much smaller monsters than this, and most parents will be looking for a book that demonstrates taking responsibility after a tantrum is through.

One final note -- As a single father, I am saddened by the complete focus on the MOTHER loving the boy. Dad is in the beginning and end of the story, but he is NEVER mentioned as seeing the boy, or loving the boy, or supporting the boy. It would've been so easy to include Dads as loving parents, too. Instead we get a weird, passive, by-stander for Dad.
149 people found this helpful
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Bonus coloring pages!

This book is about a little boy who wakes up grumpy and does grumpy things until his mom comforts him. It's a sweet story to remind the little ones that it's okay to have bad days, and that we will love them no matter what! The illustrations are incredible and so vibrant! I also love how the book isn't too short, and that it rhymes. There's also coloring pages at the back. Very cute book!
30 people found this helpful
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Not recommended

I'm a mental health professional and work with children (ages 2 - 12). I'm always looking for new read-aloud books about emotions to add to my collection, for use with the children I work with or to recommend to parents. This book will not be added to my resource list.

The Good: Illustrations are cute. The overall message about unconditional love is nice.

The not-so-good: The writing is not great, and just doesn't flow well in particular sections as a read-aloud. There are certain sections that don't rhyme (e.g., blood/good, forlorn/lawn, tickles/giggles) and disrupt the flow. I had an issue with the imagery a few pages in, "My juice is the brightest orange . . . the color of monster blood". I felt like this was inappropriate for the target audience (ages 3 - 5). Additionally, the behavior described in "monster mode" was extremely destructive (breaking home items, destroying things on a neighbor's property) and aggressive (towards the family dog and a peer). I didn't have a problem with the behavior itself (that's what tantrums/anger are like for some kids) - it was the fact the the behavior was not addressed other than through the mother's unconditional love brushing it off at the end as a "bad day". This made me uncomfortable - the parent pretty much played the role of bystander as the child rampaged over people and destroyed property, which I think sends the wrong message to kids (i.e., parents show their unconditional love by letting the child's "monster" run it's course, no matter how unsafe/inappropriate the monster behavior is).
20 people found this helpful
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Cruelty is not OK

I cringe when my daughter chooses this book. The intended lesson is “Moms’ love is unconditional, even when you’re naughty”, which is sweet, but the unintended lesson seems to be “sometimes you choose to be cruel to people, and that’s OK.” The protagonist of the book treats several people and animals without regard, and at the end explains that it wasn’t him committing those acts, it was the monster inside, and that tomorrow he will treat them without cruelty. Perhaps this is a necessary framing of misbehavior for some children with serious behavioral issues. I want my child with mild impulsivity issues to have a nuanced understanding of guilt, and to forgive herself for her failings, but also to understand that treating people with cruelty is always a serious failing, is not excused by having a bad day or a mental illness, and requires restitution.
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So thankful for this funny, sweet

So thankful for this funny, sweet, and engaging book that portrays unconditional love and difficult emotions. This book is perfect for us as foster parents, especially in dealing with rage and the strong emotions that can accompany trauma. Thank you!!
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Too scary for some kindergarten children

I did not like the content for kindergarten children and some of the art work. I think some of the pictures would be to scary for some children.
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It’s paperback. But good story.

Very cute and entertaining.
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My 3 year old loves it!

The book is based on a mom seeing the good in her son, i did not know this when i purchased the book. I definitly am NOT complaining this is just info for other purchasers. I read this to my son when he is being grumpy and it acctually makes him feel better!
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Good buy!

This story melted my heart. I have custody of a child with PTSD and a lot of days he seems to want to be a monster. I bought this book to read with him. He loved it. My only complaint — I know it’s kind of silly — is that so many books talk about “mom and dad” and so many kids don’t have one or both. Still a good story. Just wanted anyone in a situation similar to mine to be aware that parents are mentioned. I’m a teacher and I will be adding this to my classroom library also. Illustrations are vibrant and I don’t think they would be scary.
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Amazing book, you can trust the reviews

I bought this book based on the good reviews for my 4 year old daughter and we both love the book! Definitely good for young children who are starting to understand feelings and learn that even when you do bad things sometimes, it doesn't make you a bad person - or monster in this case. The monster inside you comes and goes ;-) Amazing book, beautiful illustrations!
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