When Dimple Met Rishi
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When Dimple Met Rishi

Hardcover – May 30, 2017

Price
$7.45
Format
Hardcover
Pages
384
Publisher
Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1481478687
Dimensions
5.5 x 1.4 x 8.25 inches
Weight
14.4 ounces

Description

From School Library Journal Gr 7 Up—Dimple is a headstrong girl who is passionate about coding and web development much to the chagrin of her parents, who wish she would focus more on her appearance and attracting a husband. Basking in her acceptance to Stanford, Dimple is surprised when her parents agree to let her attend a six-week "Insomnia Con" in San Francisco. Not long into her convention, Dimple discovers why her parents were so willing to let her go. She has been set up to meet a potential husband—the very traditional yet charming Rishi. The plot is moderately paced as the romance between the pair flops, then flourishes. The characters are refreshing, even if familiar. Rishi has a hidden love of comics, Dimple is a feminist who secretly yearns to please her parents, and the "Aberzombies" are the superficial prep school kids who get their jollies by making Dimple and Rishi feel like outsiders. The strength of the story comes from its blending of Indian culture and values into a modern-day romance that scores of readers can enjoy. This novel touches on issues of identity while remaining light and fun. VERDICT A strong choice for any young adult collection.—Christina Vortia, Hype Lit, Wesley Chapel, FL "Heartwarming, empathetic, and often hilarious--a delightful read."xa0-- Kirkus Reviews (starred review)"The strength of the story comes from its blending of Indian culture and values into a modern-day romance that scores of readers can enjoy. VERDICT A strong choice for any young adult collection." -- School Library Journal "The arranged marriage YA rom-com we've been waiting for." -- Bustle Magazine "This book is a hug you can carry, but it's also a smart exploration of how hard it can be to hold onto who you are and what you want if you dare to let someone else in." -- Barnes and Noble Teen Book Blog Sandhya Menon is the author of WHEN DIMPLE MET RISHI (Simon Pulse/May 30, 2017) and a second YA contemporary coming in the summer of 2018. She currently lives in Colorado, where she's on a mission to (gently) coerce her family to watch all 3,221 Bollywood movies she claims as her favorite.Visit her online at sandhyamenon.com. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. Chapter 1: Dimple CHAPTER 1 Dimple Dimple couldn’t stop smiling. It was like two invisible puppeteers, standing stage left and stage right, were yanking on strings to lift up the corners of her mouth. Okay, or maybe something less creepy. The point was, the urge to grin felt irresistible. Dimple clicked on the e-mail again and read it. Stanford . She was going to Stanford. Even though the acceptance letter had come in the mail weeks ago, she hadn’t allowed herself to really, fully believe it until her student log-in details had come via e-mail. She’d thought that, at the last minute, Papa would have second thoughts and renege on the deposit. Or that Mamma would call and tell them Dimple had changed her mind (and if you didn’t think Mamma would do something like that, you’d never met her). But no, it had all actually worked out. Everything was settled. She was officially enrolled. Now, if only… Dimple clicked over to the other window she had open, her smile fading just a tad. Insomnia Con 2017: A fabulous opportunity for rising high school seniors or recent grads! Come learn the basics of web development on the sunny SFSU campus this summer! Just shut up and take my money, Dimple thought. But it wasn’t that easy. It would be an incredible opportunity—this was true. She’d have a leg up on everyone else when she started Stanford in the fall. And think of the contacts she’d make! Some of the biggest names in web development had gone through Insomnia Con: Jenny Lindt, for instance. The woman was a genius. She’d basically designed and coded the billion-dollar Meeting Space app and website from the ground up. It made Dimple salivate just to think of sitting through the same classes, participating in the same activities, walking the same campus as she had. But she didn’t know if she could push her luck with the parental unit. The summer program cost a thousand dollars. And while Papa and Mamma were solidly middle class, they weren’t exactly flush. Not to mention she’d already stretched her luck about as far as it could go, she was sure, by asking—nay, haranguing—them to let her go to Stanford. She was sure the only reason they had agreed was because they were secretly hoping she’d meet the I.I.H. of her—no, their —dreams at the prestigious school. I.I.H., for the uninitiated, stood for Ideal Indian Husband . Uggghh. Just thinking about it made her want to banshee-scream into a pillow. “Diiiiimpllllle?” Mamma sounded screechy and frantic as usual. When Dimple was younger, she’d go running downstairs, heart pounding every single time, terrified something awful had happened. And every single time Mamma would be doing something mundane like rummaging in the kitchen cupboard, greeting her casually with, “Have you seen my saffron?” Mamma never understood why it made Dimple so livid. “Just a minute, Mamma!” she shouted back, knowing full well it would be more than a minute. Dimple now knew better than to rush when she heard her Mamma call. They’d arrived at an uneasy truce—Mamma didn’t have to modulate her tone if Dimple didn’t have to drop everything and rush to her aid for saffron emergencies. She clicked through the photo gallery on the Insomnia Con website for another five minutes, sighing at the building’s giant glass and chrome structure, at the tech nerds grouped together in inviting clusters, at the pictures of previous, jubilant winners of the legendary talent contest that gave them extra seed money for their apps or websites. Dimple would kill to be one of them someday. Participants of Insomnia Con were tasked to come up with a concept for the most groundbreaking app they could conceive during their month and a half at the SFSU campus. Although no one could actually code an entire app in that time frame, the idea was to get as close as possible by the judging round. There were rumors that, this year, the winners would get the chance to have their concept critiqued by Jenny Lindt herself. Now that would be epic. Dimple said a little prayer that she’d win a thousand-dollar lottery, turned off her monitor, adjusted her ratty gray salwar kameez , and made her way downstairs. “Woh kuch iske baare mein keh rahi thi na?” Papa was saying. Didn’t she mention this? Dimple stopped, ears perked. Were they talking about her? She strained to hear more, but Mamma pitched her voice too low, and Dimple couldn’t make out anything else. Of course. When she actually wanted to listen, Mamma decided to be quiet and reserved. Sighing, she walked into the living room. Was it her imagination or did her parents look a little flushed? Almost… guilty? She raised her eyebrows. “Mamma, Papa. Did you need something?” “Dimple, tell me again about—oh.” The guilty look disappeared as Mamma pursed her magenta lipsticked mouth, taking Dimple’s appearance in. “Wearing specs?” She pointed to Dimple’s glasses, perched on the end of her nose like usual. Mamma’s eyes roamed, squinting with disapproval at Dimple’s unruly black curly hair (which she refused to let grow past her shoulders), her face so completely unadorned with makeup, and sadly, in spite of Mamma’s optimistic naming, nary a dimple in sight. She should be thankful I brushed my teeth this morning , Dimple thought. But Mamma would never understand Dimple’s aversion to makeup and fashion. Every other week one of the aunties from the Indian Association came over to help Mamma dye her roots black while Papa was at work. He was under the impression she still had her youthful color. “Where are your contacts? And remember when I showed you how to do kaajal ?” Kaajal was the potted eyeliner that was hugely popular in Mamma’s youth, a trend which she apparently hadn’t noticed had died away sometime in the ’70s. “Vividly,” Dimple muttered, trying to tamp down the annoyance in her voice. From beside Mamma, Papa, ever the peacemaker, was making a surreptitious please let it go face. “I just graduated three days ago, Mamma. Can’t I have this week to relax and be lazy?” Papa’s face now resembled a roti that had been left in the pan too long. “Relax and be lazy !” Mamma thundered. Her glass bangles jangled in synchrony. “Do you think you’re going to find a husband by being lazy ? Do you think, for the past twenty-two years since marrying your father, I’ve had a minute to myself to be lazy ?” Of course not, Dimple thought. Because you’ve been too busy hovering. She bit her tongue and sank down on the sofa, knowing that once Mamma got started, she’d be at it for a while. It was better to let her talk until the words petered out, like those windup chattering teeth you could buy at the joke store. There were a million things she could say in acerbic response, of course, but Dimple still hadn’t ruled out asking to enroll in Insomnia Con if the opportunity presented itself. It was in her best interest to hold back. “No, I haven’t,” Mamma continued. “?‘Lazy’ shouldn’t be in a woman’s vocabulary.” Adjusting the violet dupatta on her gold and pink salwar kameez , Mamma settled against the couch. She looked like the brilliant Indian flower Dimple knew she herself would never be. “You know, Dimple, a grown daughter is a reflection of her mother. What do you think others in our community will think of me if they see you… like this?” She made a vague gesture at Dimple’s person. “Not that you aren’t beautiful, beti , you are, which is what makes it even more tragic—” Dimple knew she shouldn’t. But the flare of temper that overtook her made it all but impossible to stop the flood of words leaving her mouth. “That is such a misogynistic view, Mamma!” she said, jumping up, pushing her glasses up on her nose. Papa was muttering something under his breath now. He might’ve been praying. Mamma looked like she couldn’t believe what she was hearing. “Misogynistic! You call your own mother misogynistic?” Mamma darted an indignant look at Papa, who appeared to be extremely invested in a loose thread on his kurta. Turning back to Dimple, Mamma snapped, “This is what I’m worried about! You lose sight of the important things, Dimple. Looking nice, making an effort… these are the things girls value in our culture. Not this”—she made air quotes, which up until now Dimple hadn’t realized she knew how to use—“?‘misogyny’ business.” Dimple groaned and clutched her head, feeling like that ancient pressure cooker Mamma still used when she made idli cakes. She was sure there was an actual chance she would explode. There was no way she and Mamma were related; they may as well have been two entirely different species. “Seriously? That’s what you think I should be relegating my brain space to? Looking nice? Like, if I don’t make the effort to look beautiful, my entire existence is nullified? Nothing else matters—not my intellect, not my personality or my accomplishments; my hopes and dreams mean nothing if I’m not wearing eyeliner ?” Her voice had risen incrementally until it echoed off the high ceilings. Mamma, caught up in the moment, stood to meet her glare. “ Hai Ram , Dimple! It is not eyeliner—it is kaajal !” Dimple’s temper flashed, the heat tempered only slightly by the dampness of disappointment. This was an argument they’d had so many times, she and Mamma could probably say each other’s lines. It was like they were constantly speaking two different languages, each trying to convince the other in an alien lexicon. Why couldn’t Mamma make the smallest effort to understand where Dimple was coming from? Did she really think Dimple had nothing valuable to contribute besides her looks? The thought made Dimple’s pulse skyrocket. She leaned forward, face flaming, ready to speak her mind about how she really felt— The doorbell chime echoed through the house, bringing them to a standstill. Dimple’s heart still raced, but she felt all the million old arguments stall, unspoken behind her lips. Mamma adjusted her dupatta , which had begun to fall off during the argument, and took a deep breath. “We have guests,” she said demurely, patting her hair. “I trust you will behave for them, Dimple?” Papa looked at her with big, pleading eyes. Dimple managed a curt nod, thinking, Saved by the bell, Mamma. You don’t know how lucky you are. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • The inspiration for the Netflix original series
  • Mismatched
  • !
  • A
  • New York Times
  • bestseller
  • A
  • Time
  • Best YA Book of All Time (2021)
  • An NPR Best Book of 2017
  • A
  • Buzzfeed
  • Best YA Book of 2017
  • A
  • Kirkus Reviews
  • Best Teen Book of 2017
  • A
  • School Library Journal
  • Best Young Adult Book of 2017
  • A
  • Bustle
  • Best YA Novel of 2017
  • A
  • PopSugar
  • Best Young Adult Novel of 2017
  • A
  • Book Riot
  • Best Book of 2017
  • A
  • Paste Magazine
  • Best Young Adult Novel of 2017
  • “Utterly charming.” —Mindy Kaling
  • “Effervescent.”
  • —Chicago Tribune
  • “Full of warm characters and sweet romance.”
  • —Entertainment Weekly
  • “Get ready to fall in love with Dimple Shah and Rishi Patel.”
  • —HelloGiggles
  • The rom-com
  • everyone’s
  • talking about!
  • Eleanor & Park
  • meets Bollywood in this hilarious and heartfelt novel about two Indian-American teens whose parents conspire to arrange their marriage.
  • Dimple Shah has it all figured out. With graduation behind her, she’s more than ready for a break from her family, from Mamma’s inexplicable obsession with her finding the “Ideal Indian Husband.” Ugh. Dimple knows they must respect her principles on some level, though. If they truly believed she needed a husband
  • right now
  • , they wouldn’t have paid for her to attend a summer program for aspiring web developers…right? Rishi Patel is a hopeless romantic. So when his parents tell him that his future wife will be attending the same summer program as him—wherein he’ll have to woo her—he’s totally on board. Because as silly as it sounds to most people in his life, Rishi
  • wants
  • to be arranged,
  • believes
  • in the power of tradition, stability, and being a part of something much bigger than himself. The Shahs and Patels didn’t mean to start turning the wheels on this “suggested arrangement” so early in their children’s lives, but when they noticed them both gravitate toward the same summer program, they figured,
  • Why not?
  • Dimple and Rishi may think they have each other figured out. But when opposites clash, love works hard to prove itself in the most unexpected ways.

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The novel is exuberant!

Dimple Shah got into her dream college, Stanford. However, there is this summer program called Insomnia Con in San Francisco that she wants to attend but she needs to find a way to convince her parents to her go. Dimple's parents are more concerned for Dimple finding a I.I.H. (aka the Ideal Indian Husband). All Dimple wants is to live her life and immense herself in web development learning from the best. Rishi Patel is the total opposite. He embraces his parents to find the perfect future wife. Rishi's parents knew Dimple would be at the Insomnia Con program and they already know Dimple's parents.

The first official meeting between Dimple and Rishi is priceless! Dimple seems to despise Rishi but overtime she warmed up to him and even they even become friends. She knows it's not his fault and even tells him to stay when he offered to go home early. Their budding friendship ends up turning into something more.

Sandhya Menon's debut novel is charming with just enough humor. This romantic comedy shares the views of two children of two sets of Indian parents. I found it refreshing to read a novel that shows two sides of a coin. Dimple is a quirky yet spirited, goal-orientated young lady who wants to advance her career. She doesn't care about arrange marriages; she wants freedom and her independence. Rishi, on the other hand, is a hopeless romantic trying to woo Dimple. He believes in tradition while Dimple finds the culture suffocating her. Rishi's passion is art but he sees it more like a hobby and not a practical field to go into for a career.

Dimple is a role model for teenage girls. It's okay to like math, science and technology. It's okay to wear glasses and not to wear any makeup. I wish I read about Dimple when I was younger. Nowadays STEM is pretty big in education, especially for females. STEM related fields are still male dominated. It's exhilarating to read about a career-driven young lady who is passionate about web development and not about makeup and boys.

When Dimple Met Rishi tackles the struggles of desires and passions. Dimple and Rishi both gather the strength to vocalize what they are passionate about and what they want in life. Dimple's passion is web development and Rishi's passion is art. However, even though they don't want to admit, the love they have for one another is strong and they cannot let it go no matter what they want in life. Do things that make you happy! Trust your gut feeling!

Menon writes When Dimple Met Rishi with sincerity. The novel is exuberant! I was smiling when I was reading the novel for most of the time. When reading When Dimple Met Rishi, I see myself through both Dimple and Rishi. I have never read a book where I see myself completely in. I can see a part of myself in Dimple and a part of myself in Rishi. Menon fuses culture, socio-economics and overriding gender stereotypes in this rom-com. When Dimple Met Rishi is a fluffy yet heartwarming read. I highly recommend it and it's definitely a new favorite of mine.
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Bah. I'm so let down by this book. It could have been so sweet and fun.

I was so excited to read this book. The premise sounded as delightfully adorable as the cover looks, and I was interested in learning more about Indian culture. Sadly, this book was massively disappointing. The writing is fine and there is a lot of interesting Indian culture woven throughout--the one high point of the novel for me--but that's about all I liked.

I really struggled with the main characters. Dimple was incredibly mean and self-absorbed, conversely, Rishi was a complete doormat. I didn't like her and bemoaned his total lack of spine. I never for one second believed the romance between them, especially not Rishi being constantly dazzled by Dimple's smile while she insulted and belittled him. Then there was a total cliche subplot with stereotypically mean kids. It just felt tired and forced.

Bah. I'm so let down by this book. It could have been so sweet and fun.
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I had such high hopes for this book! I was SO interested in learning more about the culture and supporting a book about diverse characters, a girl that tries to tackle her dreams by pursuing STEM opportunities, but nope, nope, no.

Dimple "not like the other girls" Shah has dreams, big dreams for herself, but these dreams are being held back by her parents, whose wish is to see her settled down right after high school and have children. Enter their matchmaking skills: Their friend's dutiful son, Rishi. He believes in tradition, stability, and contrary to his younger brother, adheres to his family's rules. Both sets of parents decide it's a match made in heaven. When Dimple gets offered the opportunity to attend a computer program, Rishi attends too. During their first meeting, he comes up to her, says "hello future wife," so she pours an iced coffee on him and runs out.

When they see each other again, they become partners in the program and it takes about three weeks for his his romantic, soft side to melt Dimple's tough, ambitious exterior, blah blah.

Either I missed it or it was never fully explained - how was Rishi able to attend the computer program? I also could have done without all the references to money. Here's a guy that's supposed to be responsible and mature (with a savings account) but during a hangout, he buys everyone dinner (after they've spent the whole night making fun of him and Dimple). Every time they go out, he pays. He goes above and beyond for their "non-date." He paid $1K for this program and was fine with her telling him to drop out (no refund!).

When Dimple doesn't win the program, he finds a way to finagle her an invitation with her idol, Jenny Lint, anyway. (Of course Dimple lost because a white male's parents bought a computer wing for the school) He just fixes things for her.

The writer tried really hard with the "I'm not like other girls" trope. Dimple doesn't wear make-up, is not like other women because she's not a delicate flower, doesn't need a man to pay for everything (but has Rishi pay for everything), etc. There wasn't even any real information on coding! I thought it'd be a book that went somewhere, not them oogling each other while Dimple being like oh no! I can't get involved, blah blah, wait you're so hot, blah blah. Nobody worked on their project, nobody followed their dreams. They spent time preparing for a talent show instead!

I was also upset at the end. Dimple blamed her romantic entanglement for the fact that she lost. Apparently you can't have a relationship because it'll distract you from your goals but I thought that the writer tried to tackle misogyny and sexism but it fell flat. Dimple had a holier-than-thou attitude and in the book, Rishi was the only one that was portrayed in any sort of positive light. Every guy was portrayed as "obnoxious," those in a fraternity/sorority were shamed, and Dimple's only female friendship with Celia was just Dimple being judgmental of Celia's choices. Dimple was always, well, I'd never do that, I'm too good for that, etc. After weeks of judging Celia for her decisions, Dimple also had sex with Rishi (which I don't know why they had to toss that in there) when she didn't like him, acted pretty miserable toward him, and somehow agreed to be in a long-distance relationship with him as well.

Her personality was also all over the place. She was hot, she was cold. She whined a lot, aggressive, rude. The plot didn't have a clear focus. I couldn't take it anymore.
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Good teen romance but riduclous depiction of strong "technical" female lead

Teen romance, Bollywood style. This really is a fun, well-written, cute book. Dimple is a fully Americanized Indian girl slated to start at Stanford in the Fall. Her parents are far more interested in Stanford as a vehicle for finding an IIH - Ideal Indian Husband. When they agree to let her go to the six week “Insomnia Con” summer program focussed on web development - her passion - she is surprised. Until she arrives and finds the boy her parents have decided she will marry attending as well. The story of them falling in love against her will is a nicely executed teen romance.

BUT - and big SPOILER ALERT because I am so irritated by the plot that I have to explain it all - the story of their experience at “Insomnia Con” is ridiculous. Dimple is supposed to be a strong female character - with real ambitions and a passion for technology. This is great because I love reading books promoting women in STEM fields! However this author knows absolutely zip about the tech field and didn’t bother to do any research. There is hardly a thing about the Insomnia Con program that made any sense.

Dimple declares her passion for web technology often. She wants to develop an app that turns diabetes management into a game in order to help people like her father who have trouble with the administration. She is desperate to win the Insomnia Con prize for best app - the attention and marketing support of Jenny Lindt, her tech hero. That is the extent of the discussion of her great passion. She and Rishi spend a full week of this brief 6 week program working on a Bollywood dance routine to win a talent show that will earn them money to somehow mysteriously enable their app to be better in time to win the prize (and Rishi has tons of money anyway so really there was no need!).

Then another team wins for an obviously stupid idea (Drunk Zombies - a drinking game) because the father of one of them bought a new wing for the University. Jenny Lindt, who in the end likes Dimple’s idea and agrees to help her, gives a little lecture about diversity - about how people get ahead unfairly because they are white or male or straight or rich and how we need more people with different points of view to get the field to move ahead blah blah blah. While diversity is a great message, the set up was offensively inaccurate and paints a very unfair picture of the very industry she claims to be promoting. As a (white, female, straight, reasonably well off but not rich) member of that industry I take real exception to her portrayal.

Rant off!
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Just Another YA Romance

Dimple Shah, high school graduate, has no desire to fill her future with marriage and kids, but instead is looking forward to Stanford and a life of coding--her passion--afterward. She resists her parents traditional Indian values and just wants to live life her way. Rishi Patel is just the opposite. He loves the traditions of his family, and he does every thing he can to please his parents: including going to MIT for engineering when what he truly wants is to be an artist. They are set up by their parents to meet at a six week coding conference with hopes that it could become serious in the future. What will happen when the traditional and nontraditional meet?

When Dimple Met Rishi is a standard YA romance with Indian overtones, and that pretty much sums it up. It deals with typical YA subjects: parents, bullying, trying to achieve, making decisions for the future, romantic ups and downs. It switches back and forth nicely between Dimple's perspective and Rishi's, but without a noticeable change in voice, which was a disappointment. Overall, it lacks charm and is not a compelling read.
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Review for When Dimple Met Rishi by Sandhya Menon

***Review posted on The Eater of Books! blog***

When Dimple Met Rishi by Sandhya Menon
Publisher: Simon Pulse
Publication Date: May 30, 2017
Rating: 4 stars
Source: eARC from Edelweiss

Summary (from Goodreads):

A laugh-out-loud, heartfelt YA romantic comedy, told in alternating perspectives, about two Indian-American teens whose parents have arranged for them to be married.

Dimple Shah has it all figured out. With graduation behind her, she’s more than ready for a break from her family, from Mamma’s inexplicable obsession with her finding the “Ideal Indian Husband.” Ugh. Dimple knows they must respect her principles on some level, though. If they truly believed she needed a husband right now, they wouldn’t have paid for her to attend a summer program for aspiring web developers…right?

Rishi Patel is a hopeless romantic. So when his parents tell him that his future wife will be attending the same summer program as him—wherein he’ll have to woo her—he’s totally on board. Because as silly as it sounds to most people in his life, Rishi wants to be arranged, believes in the power of tradition, stability, and being a part of something much bigger than himself.

The Shahs and Patels didn’t mean to start turning the wheels on this “suggested arrangement” so early in their children’s lives, but when they noticed them both gravitate toward the same summer program, they figured, Why not?

Dimple and Rishi may think they have each other figured out. But when opposites clash, love works hard to prove itself in the most unexpected ways.

What I Liked:

When I first saw this book I thought, Indian rep written by an Indian author? YES PLEASE! I'm Indian and I often have such a hard time reading YA books with Indian protagonists or set in an Indian setting or based on Indian culture or folklore - because these YA books are often written by white authors, and I'm often incredibly disappointed by those stories. This YA contemporary romance is so fun, lighthearted, and it struck a chord in me.

Dimple Shah is off to Stanford at the end of the summer, and she can't wait to start her college career in technology and coding. But first, she is going to attend Insomnia Con, a summer program for aspiring web developers. Rishi Patel is also going to Insomnia Con, but he has a goal in mind: woo Dimple Shah, his future wife. Dimple has no idea that Rishi's parents and her parents have put Rishi up to this, and so color this girl surprised when she and Rishi first meet and he says something about them getting married. Though Dimple has no intention of getting married anytime soon, she doesn't mind starting a friendship with Rishi - especially when they are partnered to work together on the project for Insomnia Con. But Dimple does not expect to fall for Rishi, and Rishi doesn't expect to fall for Dimple. They may have had a rocky start, but they are meant for so much more.

This book is written from both Rishi and Dimple's POV, which I loved. Dimple is clueless to her parents' arrangement with Rishi's parents, and she thinks that her parents are simply sending her to Insomnia Con because she wanted to go. Rishi, on the other hand, knew everything, and thought that Dimple did too. Their first meeting is hilarious! Poor Rishi. Anyway, I liked getting the chance to read from both of the characters' POV.

Dimple was both completely relatable and yet sometimes not. I understand her so well; she feels stifled by her parents' traditions and culture, and she feels 100% American. And yet, she doesn't quite fit in. Dimple has always preferred computers to people, and she is adamant about not getting married and started a "domestic" Indian life. At times, Dimple was hard to relate to, because she was mean to Rishi, and in a cruel way. BUT I think this was all very well written, because we could clearly see her character development, from start to finish. She goes from selfish and cruel and recluse, to more open, considerate, and understanding.

I adored Rishi, much more than I liked Dimple (don't get me wrong, I did like Dimple). Rishi is the opposite of Dimple - he holds tight to his culture and heritage and traditions, and he wants to please his parents in every way possible. He is a good boy, a sturdy and steady presence. Honestly I'd prefer a Rishi to a "bad boy" any day - give me a nice, dorky guy with a fantastic sense of humor and a lot of confidence that doesn't seem like arrogance, and I'd be happy. Seriously, Universe, I'm waiting for my own Rishi Patel.

On a personal note, this book made me so happy. I feel like I'm a perfect mix of Dimple and Rishi - I'm a first-generation American and I'm American (like Dimple), but I try so hard to hold on to my culture and traditions (like Rishi). I also loved all of the Indian food, the Hindi, the clothing, the Bollywood movies/references, and the other subtle touches of Indian culture that Menon infused into this story. So much of it was recognizable to me, even though I am much like Dimple and Rishi (not straight from India, but still Indian).

Another thing I loved about this book was how Menon explored social and socioeconomic themes. There are many stereotypes when it comes to Indian people - we're cheap, traditional, over-the-top flashy, good with computers. In this book, Rishi's family is super rich, and Dimple's family is middle-class, sort of on the lower end. You can see this social divide very clearly, with Dimple noticing Rishi's expensive accessories and him paying for expensive food. I liked that the author subtly included a socioeconomic/social class undertone in this story, because it felt important to discuss, especially in the context of Indian families.

So I adored Rishi, and I liked Dimple. As a couple, they are so cute. They butt heads at first, and Dimple is so rude to Rishi. But Rishi is a kind and sweet guy from start to finish - too good to be true, honestly. I didn't love how Dimple treated him initially, but I like how she felt bad about it and made efforts to starting over with him. The progression of their friendship is gradual but very fun to watch. And the progression of the romance is even more fun! They are an adorable couple, and there are some cute moments, and steamy moments.

Insomnia Con is always in the background, and it is very important to Dimple. Rishi also has a passion that he hides - creating comics. This becomes an important part of the story, because Rishi's plan was to attend MIT and study engineering. College, parental relationships, friendships, and self-identity are such vital themes of this book. Menon did a great job of weaving all of these into the story, without making the story too heavy.

There is a little drama in the last 10% of the book, but it is resolved in a satisfying way. Both characters own up to their mistakes (not just one or the other). I love seeing both characters swallow their pride (and not just Rishi, for example). The ending is a lovely, perfect ending!

What I Did Not Like:

I already mentioned this but I didn't really love Dimple at first! She is callous and rude to Rishi, and irrationally so. BUT. This is all part of her character development, and she definitely grew on me. So, just as heads up!

Would I Recommend It:

I highly recommend this book to my fellow South Asian friends (especially Indian), especially if you're first-generation American. This book will (hopefully) resonate with you, like it did with me. I felt parts of myself in both Dimple and Rishi, and that really struck me. This is so important, and it's so subtle - this book isn't a statement book (in terms of the self-identity aspect). And yet, that subtle part of the story was so important to me.

And of course, in general, if you're looking for a fun, cute YA contemporary read, this is definitely a great read. Lots of swoons, a little bit of angst, and so many warm and fuzzies after finishing the book. You won't regret it!

Rating:

4 stars. It took me entirely too long to crack this book open! I regret not reading it sooner. I am so pleased with this story, and though I think I love it differently compared to other readers, I am glad that I love it in any case.
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When Dimple Met Rishi

At first, I liked WHEN DIMPLE MET RISHI. I respected Dimple’s determination to buck her mother’s expectations for a good Indian girl and follow her dreams of a career in app development. She even convinced her parents to let her go to a summer program for coders. Only to find out when she gets there that her parents have tried setting up a marriage for her, and the guy? He’s at the camp too.

After a few chapters, this book turned into a standard YA contemporary romance with a bit of Indian culture. Despite her dislike of romance and other girls, Dimple quickly focuses on Rishi. The actual purpose of the summer program fades way, way into the background, which disappointed me. I really felt like Dimple deserved to lose, since she and Rishi seemed to put more time into practicing for the talent show and making out than they did working on her app. I couldn’t believe the speed with which their relationship progressed. Basically insta-love, though at least Rishi was somewhat better than a lot of guys in YA. By the time I finished the book, I was disappointed in the whole thing, except for the few encounters between Dimple/Rishi and their parents.
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Cute romance but definitely not the book I thought it was going to be

Actual rating is 2.5 stars.
I really wanted to love this book but I didn't, which is a bummer.

I enjoyed:
- WOC in tech! POC in tech!! Yes! Most of the people we see enrolled in Insomnia Con aren't white so, totes cool. And... it's so normal; it's totally not a big deal at all to see these non-white people. Let's normalize non-white people (men) in tech please.
- The whole idea of Insomnia Con. SUCH a cool idea. Sign me up for any YA books with STEM in them
- Dimple, Rishi, and Celia. They were pretty great characters, I especially enjoyed the friendship between Celia and Dimple. Girls supporting girls ftw.
- Family dynamics. Although we don't see Dimple or Rishi's parents except for the beginning and end of the book, both Dimple and Rishi talk with them on the phone fairly regularly and it's evident how important their parents are to them

Things that were rough:
- Pacing. It felt especially off when multiple chapters took place over just a few hours on a date, but then we went from week 3 to the end of Insomnia Con in one line
- Lack of Insomnia Con. The name implies they're going to not be getting any sleep (which I think is a terrible idea to promote among STEM communities but I digress) but it's rarely mentioned
- Lack of Dimple and Rishi working on their app/ I was SO ready for some cute flirting while they worked on their app during late nights and stuff but I think we only see them work on it once, maybe twice, and it's incredibly brief.
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what could have been a really well done good YA read with positive values of friendship

what could have been a really well done good YA read with positive values of friendship, family, hard work, dreams worth following, loyalty and just plain fun was marred by casual sex sprinkled throughout. I am appalled that the reading age suggested is 12 years old. This is a sad commentary that the author felt this was necesssary to sell what was otherwise a fun, well written book.
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Adorkable, Heartwarming, and Hilarious Rom Com YA Contemporary!

If you could only read one contemporary book for the first half of 2017, this definitely has to be one of the top contenders. When Dimple Met Rishi showcases diverse characters in the sunny setting of California with extremely realistic situations and a wonderful exploration of family, friendship, and romantic relationships. Suffice it to say, I a-d-o-r-e-d this book.

Readers get to see the story unfold through the eyes of both Rishi and Dimple, as we go back and forth from their POV’s. Dimple’s Stanford-bound, despite the protests of her traditional Indian parents. She wants to seize this opportunity for independence and to pursue her passions in technology. To further this passion, she participates in Stanford’s summer program where a pair of people have to compete to create the best app. Throughout these decisions, she gets her mother’s reluctant acceptance and father’s unconditional support – all the while fighting her mother’s push towards an ideal Indian husband and becoming a homemaker. I love reading through Dimple’s narration and her fun, vibrant voice. She’s always been on the quiet side of things, especially experiencing low key insults in school, but college is definitely going to be a different experience.

"I.I.H., for the uninitiated, stood for Ideal Indian Husband.
Uggghh. Just thinking about it made her want to banshee-scream into a pillow."

Rishi, on the other hand, is a more obedient son to his traditional parents and becomes Dimple’s partner in the summer program. He is also SO. CUTE. Can I have one of him for myself please? He’s deeply engrossed with his culture and just so, so sweet and kind to the people around him. He’s always grown up with expectations on his shoulders, especially since his younger brother goes against his parent’s traditional views, so he has to pick up the slack. Rishi goes to the summer program with expectations that Dimple knew of him and their probable arranged marriage. Dimple, on the other hand, is in for a huge (and quite unpleasant) surprise.

After the initial surprise, they start getting to know each other as friends and work together to win the grand prize for the summer program. While Dimple is passionately pursuing her dream of coding, Rishi – who is MIT-bound for engineering – pushes back his art pursuits in favor of his family’s expectations. It may take a meddling (yet caring) friend to set his heart and mind free to follow where his passions lead, despite family influence. He’s so selfless and compassionate and humble, making him super endearing and lovable.

Rishi knew from watching his parents that what mattered were compatibility and stability. He didn’t want a million dramatic, heart-stoppingly romantic moments – he wanted just one long, sustainable partnership.
The other characters in this book include Celia, Dimple’s roommate and new friend, and Ashish, Rishi’s younger, more carefree brother. Their personalities were also explored quite thoroughly, and I loved watching them become fleshed out, three-dimensional characters. From the Bollywood references to sex positive scenes, I’ve connected to the characters in When Dimple Met Rishi in a way no other contemporary YA book has made me feel. The connection to a heritage that they may or may not know; the pursuit of passions that lead to a path made by the heart over the mind; all of these components make this an incredibly realistic, relatable, and down-to-earth contemporary that just tugs at your heartstrings.

"‘When you think about it, our families are back in India, about eight thousand miles away. And they’re still so intricately connected to us. We have their names, their rituals, their traditions. Their dreams sit behind our eyelids. I think it’s beautiful.’"

The romance was so adorkable! Both Dimple and Rishi are a pair of dorks, and I love them and their budding relationship so much. It’s a gradual progression, but you can definitely tell that they’re attracted to each other despite the potential arranged marriage (or little push, you could say) from their parents. I was smiling while reading the book, and kept smiling even after the last page was read.

"And Rishi, gods help him, thought, I could look at that smile every day and never get tired of it."

I can’t say how much I absolutely adore this book, its characters, and all it has to offer. It touched my heart in the best of ways, and I’ll definitely be rereading this in the upcoming years as well. Dimple and Rishi’s story is unforgettable, charming, sweet, and dorky: components that any contemporary reader would enjoy reading.
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