Bad Kid: A Memoir (P.S. (Paperback))
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Bad Kid: A Memoir (P.S. (Paperback))

Paperback – May 19, 2015

Price
$14.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
352
Publisher
Harper Perennial
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0062371287
Dimensions
5.31 x 0.79 x 8 inches
Weight
8 ounces

Description

“The author’s story wonderfully captures the awkwardness, strife, and even terror of his experience as a gay teen; it is also upbeat, endearing, and achingly funny. A vivid and dramatic slice of adolescence.” — Kirkus Reviews “...engaging memoir...Crabb presents this hormone-fueled roller-coaster ride with humor and sensitivity, and draws moving portraits of the people who provided him with a community. His evocation of postpunk bands, brutal skinheads, and Goth attire will resonate with those who experienced the era, while his sexual anguish and fumblings are all too universal. Crabb’s exploration of the intensity, and necessity, of teen friendships especially resonates.” — Publishers Weekly “I expected a memoir from David Crabb to be funny; what I wasn’t prepared for is how touching it is. You needn’t have been a gay and Goth teenager in San Antonio in the early ‘90s to relate to Bad Kid . It’s a story of finding oneself in adolescence for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider.” — Teddy Wayne, author of The Love Song of Jonny Valentine and Kapitoil “I expected a memoir from David Crabb to be funny; what I wasn’t prepared for is how touching it is. It’s a story of finding oneself in adolescence for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider.” — Teddy Wayne, author of The Love Song of Jonny Valentine and Kapitoil “Crabb winds up taking us to the sweet spot of literature: the truth. I rarely laugh or cry when reading. Bad Kid moved me to both.” — Brad Gooch, author of Smash Cut “You simply won’t find a more hilarious and captivating storyteller than David Crabb. His tales of a misspent youth are jaw-dropping, but clearly, his head and heart stayed gold.” — Kevin Allison, writer and performing member of MTV's The State “How can this author’s painful coming-out story-set in Texas be so utterly hilarious? Only David Crabb could transform loneliness and awkwardness and heartache into a laugh-out-loud, ‘90s-music-blasting, eyeliner-dripping joy ride. Bad Kid is a must-read.” — Diana Spechler, author of Who by Fire and Skinny “ Bad Kid manages to do what so many books claim, but then, frankly, fail to do: it makes you laugh, and then, through a perfect turn of phrase or, perhaps, the perfect reference to the perfect song, it makes you cry. Crabb moves masterfully from the profane to the exalted.” — Sara Barron, author of The Harm in Asking “...engaging memoir...Crabb presents this hormone-fueled roller-coaster ride with humor and sensitivity, and draws moving portraits of the people who provided him with a community. Crabb’s exploration of the intensity, and necessity, of teen friendships especially resonates.” — Publishers Weekly “With just the right mix of humor and pathos, Crabb recounts cringe-worthy teenage milestones like a forced first kiss and the unwanted gift of a car. Not everyone had to face what he did, but all can empathize with Bad Kid .” — Booklist Discovering George Michael's Faith confirmed for David Crabb what every bully already knew: he was gay. What saved him from high school was finding a group of outlandish friends who reveled in being outsiders. David found himself enmeshed with misfits: wearing black, cutting class, staying out all night, drinking, tripping, chain-smoking, idolizing the Pet Shop Boys—and learning lessons about life and love along the way. Richly detailed with nineties pop-culture, and including black-and-white photos throughout, Bad Kid is as laugh-out-loud funny as it is poignant. David Crabb's journey through adolescence captures the essence of every person's struggle to understand his or her true self. David Crabb is a performer, writer, teacher, and storyteller in New York City. He is a Moth StorySLAM host and three-time Moth Slam winner. His solo show Bad Kid was met with critical acclaim from the New York Times , Flavorpill , NY Metro , and many others, and named a New York Times Critics' Pick. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • “David Crabb has a smart mouth. His memoir
  • Bad Kid
  • is a delightfully funny, and devastatingly touching, portrait of the artist as a queer Goth kid growing up in San Antonio in the eighties among skinheads and preps, gays and geeks. Very School of John Waters in his infatuation with (and genius for evoking) trashy Americana, Crabb winds up taking us to the sweet spot of literature: the truth. I rarely laugh or cry when reading.
  • Bad Kid
  • moved me to both.” — Brad Gooch, author of
  • Smash Cut
  • From comedian, storyteller, and The Moth host David Crabb, comes a music-filled, refreshingly honest coming-of-age memoir about growing up gay and Goth in San Antonio, Texas.
  • In the summer of 1989, three Goth kids crossed a street in San Antonio. They had no idea that a deeply confused fourteen-year-old boy was watching. Their dyed hair, fishnets, and eyeliner were his first evidence of another world—a place he desperately wanted to go. He just had no idea how to get there.
  • Somehow, David Crabb had convinced himself that every guy preferred French-braiding his girlfriend’s hair to making out, and that the funny feelings he got watching
  • Silver Spoons
  • and
  • Growing Pains
  • had nothing to do with Ricky Schroeder or Kirk Cameron. But discovering George Michael’s
  • Faith
  • confirmed what he was already being bullied for: he was gay. Surviving high school would require impossible feats of denial.
  • What saved him was finding a group of outlandish friends who reveled in being outsiders. David found himself enmeshed with misfits: wearing black, cutting class, staying out all night, drinking, tripping, chain-smoking, idolizing The Smiths, Pet Shop Boys, and Joy Division—and learning lessons about life and love along the way.
  • Richly detailed with 80s pop-culture, and including black and white photos throughout, BAD KID is as laugh-out-loud funny as it is poignant. Crabb’s journey through adolescence captures the essence of every person’s struggle to understand his or her true self.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Worth Reading.

I felt like the book really captured all of this mans growing up years. I felt like the characters were described beautifully as well. I was moved at the end and wanted the book to keep going. The only thing I wished was that there was more of it. I wanted to know more about what happened in the next phase of his life. I will be excited if this author writes another book.
13 people found this helpful
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Fun Book, loved it

Fun Book, loved it! Highly recommended for anyone that was one of the outcasts of society. Especially if you loved the Smiths, Cure, Erasure, Dark Wave, Goth & Industrial.
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FANTASTIC.

I first learned of the author from listening to one of my favorite podcasts: "Risk!" with Kevin Allison. This book is filled with witty quips, hilarious insults, and a very real POV from a queer teenager in the South. The characters are beautifully described as well as the environment. If you enjoy books by the likes of Johnathan Tropper or David Sedaris, this would be an excellent choice. I cannot wait to see what comes next for the author!
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Way Above Average Queer Memoir Where Location Plays A Major Role

Somehow, when I started reading BAD KID, I didn't factor in the idea that this was a book about a particular place. As a fifty-five year-old man, the Goth phenomenon is not on my radar often, but I do know what it is and have a sense, borne out in this book, that to have been Goth was to be an outcast with a band of outcasts ready to welcome you.
The situation of gay people is generally unchanging, so what I went through growing up was recognizable to me in what David Crabb went through decades later.
But Texas took me by surprise here. The state from which the USA has yet to secede plays a large role in BAD KID, and David Crabb, without being ostentatious about it, conveys a sense of open spaces ultimately pointing to freedom. While he describes the danger he was often in, surrounded by skinheads, he also describes pivotal moments of self-assertion. The action matches the geography, especially at a moment when a pack of skinheads surrounds a house full of slightly less angry skinheads. The skinheads inside (SHARPS, who opposed racism) emerge from the house (calling for the boys inside to surrender up a black friend) and, through sheer presence, cause the bullies to back off and get back in their cars.
This is a car culture. Although grounded by his mother a few times, David is often permitted to get in his car and drive off. He will go hundreds of miles on any given trip. (On Long Island, where I grew up, you CAN'T go a hundred miles, unless you want to pay eight bucks to cross the Throggs Neck Bridge.) One night, he and a friend drive to a slaughterhouse, arriving at dawn. They're on acid, by the way.
While Crabb describes a conformist culture, anybody writing about the America of the last forty years is describing a conformist culture. The difference with Texas is, literally, the sprawl. It may be one of the few places on earth where forces of nature give people more choice than not.
This memoir is well-written and witty, but it is at its most powerful when a universal loneliness acts as muse. The author's account of an unlikely friendship with a SHARP is the heart of the book.
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Such a wonderful read

Absolutely absorbing and relatable. His life may have taken some crazy turns, but at its heart it felt like my own coming of age story. It's about feeling different, falling in love, falling in with the wrong crowd (or is it really so wrong?). I couldn't put it down, read it in 2 days.
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Entertaining, Quick Read

Really good read. Since we listen to David Crabb, I heard him narrating the entire time. Interesting insights on why he did as he did.
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I grew up in the same scene and recognized a ...

I grew up in the same scene and recognized a couple of the characters. The only gripe I have is he changed Max's girlfriend's name within a couple of paragraphs.
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Five Stars

Cool book
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Love it!

I love memoirs. I love people and their stories and the experience of being "inside" someone's mind and world. Crabb is so open, and he and the fun characters in his life had me chuckling all the time!
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Five Stars

Great book. I really enjoyed it. I recommend it to anybody.