Bending Toward the Sun: A Mother and Daughter Memoir
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Bending Toward the Sun: A Mother and Daughter Memoir

Paperback – Picture Book, September 7, 2010

Price
$17.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
357
Publisher
Harper Perennial
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0061776724
Dimensions
7.86 x 5.28 x 0.94 inches
Weight
10.1 ounces

Description

“A captivating memoir that explores a complicated, loving, and enduring mother-daughter bond, and reveals how doubts, hopes, and dreams are handed down from generation to generation. As both a mother and a daughter, I found it deeply touching.” — Arianna Huffington, author, syndicated columnist, and founder of The Huffington Post “Here is a memoir that takes us through many worlds, through heartache and noble hopes, through the mysteries of family love and toward a beautiful, light filled conclusion. Read Bending Toward the Su n and enrich your life.” — Rabbi David Wolpe, author of Why Faith Matters and Making Loss Matter-Creating Meaning in Difficult Times “Gripping, exhausting, exciting, devastating--this book is at times hard to read but always impossible to put down. ” — Rabbi Irving Greenberg, Founding President, Jewish Life Network; former Chairman of United States Holocaust Memorial Museum “BENDING TOWARD THE SUN is . . . bolstered by writing that is compelling and sensitive, the book transcends the holocaust genre with its multi-generational point of view on the ultimate effect of fear and evil on young minds.” — Dick Wolf, Emmy Award-winning creator and Executive Producer of Law and Order; Law and Order: Special Victims Unit; and Law and Order: Criminal Intent “[An] affecting memoir. . . . Vivid. . . . Riveting. . . . An amazing story of wartime survival.” — Kirkus Reviews “The lasting impact of the Holocaust on a survivor and her daughter emerges in this joint account. . . . The voices and experiences expressed are valuable.” — Publishers Weekly "A memoir that takes us through many worlds, through heartache and noble hopes, through the mysteries of family love. . . . Read Bending Toward the Sun and enrich your life."—#8212;Rabbi David Wolpe, author of Why Faith Matters A miraculous lesson in courage and recovery, Bending Toward the Sun tells the story of a unique family bond forged in the wake of brutal terror. Rita Lurie was five years old when she was forced to flee her home in Poland to hide from the Nazis in a cramped, dark attic with fourteen members of her family. Young Rita watched her younger brother and her mother die before her eyes. But the tragedy of the Holocaust was only the beginning of Rita's story. Decades later, Rita's daughter Leslie began probing the traumatic events of her mother's childhood to discover how Rita's pain has affected not only Leslie's life and outlook but that of her own daughter, Mikaela, as well. The result is Bending Toward the Sun , a collaboration between mother and daughter that brings together the stories of three generations of a family to understand the legacy that unites, inspires, and haunts them all. Leslie Gilbert Lurie has served as president of the Los Angeles County Board of Education. Formerly an executive at NBC, where she worked on such hit shows as Cheers , Family Ties , Saved by the Bell , and The Fresh Prince of Bel Air , Gilbert-Lurie lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two children. A writer, lawyer, and former executive at NBC, Leslie Gilbert-Lurie is a member and former president of the Los Angeles County Board of Education and a teacher of Holocaust studies. A founding board member and past president of the nonprofit Alliance for Children's Rights, she has worked at a major Los Angeles law firm, served as a Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals law clerk, and is a member of the board of directors for several nonprofit organizations, including the Los Angeles Music Center. Recently Leslie was appointed by the mayor of Los Angeles to a panel to devise a new cultural plan for the city. She is a recipient of the American Jewish Congress's Tzedek Award for Outstanding Commitment to Civil Rights, Civil Liberties, and Justice, and the Alliance for Children's Rights Child Advocate of the Year Award. She lives in Los Angeles, California, with her husband, two children, and stepson. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • “Here is a memoir that takes us through many worlds, through heartache and noble hopes, through the mysteries of family love and toward a beautiful, light filled conclusion. Read
  • Bending Toward the Su
  • n and enrich your life.”  — Rabbi David Wolpe, author of
  • Why Faith Matters
  • and
  • Making Loss Matter-Creating Meaning in Difficult Times
  • A beautifully written family memoir,
  • Bending Toward the Sun
  • explores an emotional legacy—forged in the terror of the Holocaust—that has shaped three generations of lives. Leslie Gilbert-Lurie tells the story of her mother, Rita, who like Anne Frank spent years hiding from the Nazis, and whose long-hidden pain shaped both her daughter and granddaughter’s lives. Bringing together the stories of three generations of women,
  • Bending Toward the Sun
  • reveals how deeply the Holocaust lives in the hearts and minds of survivors and their descendants.

Customer Reviews

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Wonderful

I've read many memoirs on the Holocaust, and this one is definitely unique. It follows 3 generations and shows how what happened so long ago still affects those who are alive today. I felt that Rita's story was very compelling and the more I read, the more I was pulled in. I didn't want to start Leslie's portion of the book because I didn't want Rita's to end, but as I did begin Leslie's story, I realized that it was a necessary addition. She was able to look objectively at her life and her mother's and understand how what happened to her mother and other family members affected not only them, but future generations as well. I especially appreciated her description of her mother's struggles with depression. I have struggled with depression as well and find it's often difficult for those in my life who don't struggle with it to understand, and it was such a relief reading how accurately Leslie described the illness and understood that it was not her mother's fault. I do wish that more was added from Mikaela, but seeing as she was so young at the time, there was probably not much more she could add.

My only negative critique is that I wish it had gone more into ancestral DNA, as it seems Leslie had done research on it, but chose to only briefly delve into this topic. It's something I have heard a lot of recently, and I would have loved to actually see it woven into a memoir like this.

All-in-All, I thought it was a great read on re-building a life after such a traumatic past and how the holocaust has continued to take a toll on future generations. It is also a testament to how bonds of love are truly unbreakable. Definitely recommend.
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You can feel them bending

This book is really the voice of two women with a granddaughter for a short time at the end. Rita who lived through the Holocust in a barn hidden by a christian farmer and his family. The reader learns how one mother can put her fears and insecurities to future generations. Rita's story was the most interesting to me. I found her story compelling and one we don't hear enough about. What happened after the Holocust? This is a moving and touching story. It is nice to read a book without foul language and sex. You can really tell a good writer when the reader learns and wants to read without turning to sex to make a book interesting. I feel for each of these women and I am so happy that they are such a loving and caring family. This is a very sweet and touching story. Leslie is a very loving daughter and her words show her love throughout the novel.
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Insightful...

I found this book hard for me to put down, for a couple of reasons. First, I love history, especially told in first person. I also loved the confirmation of how history really ties us all together and effects future generations. This story is unique to this family but also makes a connection to us all.
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