Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life
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Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life

Hardcover – May 5, 1994

Price
$36.05
Format
Hardcover
Pages
237
Publisher
Pantheon Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0679435204
Dimensions
5.5 x 1.25 x 8.25 inches
Weight
14.4 ounces

Description

From Publishers Weekly Lamott's ( Operating Instructions ) miscellany of guidance and reflection should appeal to writers struggling with demons large and slight. Among the pearls she offers is to start small, as their father once advised her 10-year-old brother, who was agonizing over a book report on birds: "Just take it bird by bird." Lamott's suggestion on the craft of fiction is down-to-earth: worry about the characters, not the plot. But she's even better on psychological questions. She has learned that writing is more rewarding than publication, but that even writing's rewards may not lead to contentment. As a former "Leona Helmsley of jealousy," she's come to will herself past pettiness and to fight writer's block by living "as if I am dying." She counsels writers to form support groups and wisely observes that, even if your audience is small, "to have written your version is an honorable thing." Copyright 1994 Reed Business Information, Inc. From Library Journal Lamott (Operating Instructions, LJ 3/15/93) makes her living by selling magazine articles and books. She also teaches writing. Reading this work is like sitting in on one of her workshops. While discussing elements of the craft such as character development, plot invention, and rewriting, she presents much more than an instruction manual in this small text. Writing is by nature a personal and solitary trade, and Lamott offers thorough examples and anecdotes that explain how she copes with self-doubt, writer's block, professional jealousy, and the discipline necessary to turn thoughts into words on a page. Her work is an honest appraisal of what it takes to be a writer and why it matters so much. Collections supporting creative writing will want to include this because it offers unique inspiration to would-be and struggling authors. Denise Sticha, Carnegie Lib. of Pittsburgh Copyright 1994 Reed Business Information, Inc. From Kirkus Reviews Lamott (Operating Instructions, 1993, etc.) gently explodes the fantasy that writing will solve all of a fledgling author's problems--an ailing bank account, low self-esteem--and at the same time argues that writing ``does turn out to be its own reward.'' Beginning with her first exposure to the writing life through her father, Lamott introduces some practical points: shaping credible dialogue; thinking of a first draft as a Polaroid photograph that slowly develops beneath one's fingers. Her cardinal truth is that there is no secret to writing well other than sitting down to do it every day; she also encourages by noting that even the best writers produce ``shitty'' first drafts. Offering time- tested tips, such as carrying around index cards to jot down fortuitous phrases and observations and focusing on plot as an outgrowth of character, Lamott intersperses stories and prose from her own experience that delight with insight and descriptive acumen. The incident from which the title and folksy aesthetic have been taken is typical: When, years ago, her ten-year-old brother was panicking, unable to write a report on birds for which he'd been preparing for months, their father calmed him with the advice ``Just take it bird by bird.'' While she suggests finding a writing partner for feedback and describes her own traumatic escapades in taking a novel through several drafts, Lamott offers no advice about revision--the most important skill a working writer must master. Still, paragraph by paragraph, this humorous, insightful, no-nonsense approach will remind novices why they are writing: to tell the truth, to live from the heart, and to share their gift with others. A writer's guide that is bound to teach and inspire by example. -- Copyright ©1994, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved. "Superb writing advice... hilarious, helpful andxa0xa0provocative." -- New York Times Bookxa0xa0Review . "A warm, generous andxa0xa0hilarious guide through the writer's world and itsxa0xa0treacherous swamps." -- Los Angelesxa0xa0Times . "A gift to all ofxa0xa0us mortals who write or ever wanted to write...xa0xa0sidesplittingly funny, patiently wise and alternatelyxa0xa0cranky and kind -- a reveille to get off our duffsxa0xa0and start writing now , while wexa0xa0still can." -- Seattlexa0xa0Times . From the Trade Paperback edition. From the Inside Flap years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. [It] was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said. 'Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.'"With this basic instruction always in mind, Anne Lamott returns to offer us a new gift: a step-by-step guide on how to write and on how to manage the writer's life. From "Getting Started,' with "Short Assignments," through "Shitty First Drafts," "Character," "Plot," "Dialogue." all the way from "False Starts" to "How Do You Know When You're Done?" Lamott encourages, instructs, and inspires. She discuss Anne Lamott lives with her son, Sam, in northern California. She is the author of five books, including the novels Hard Laughter, Rosie, Joe Jones, and All New People. Her last book, Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year, was published by Pantheon in 1993. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • "Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. [It] was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said. 'Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.'"With this basic instruction always in mind, Anne Lamott returns to offer us a new gift: a step-by-step guide on how to write and on how to manage the writer's life. From "Getting Started,' with "Short Assignments," through "Shitty First Drafts," "Character," "Plot," "Dialogue." all the way from "False Starts" to "How Do You Know When You're Done?" Lamott encourages, instructs, and inspires. She discusses "Writers Block," "Writing Groups," and "Publication." Bracingly honest, she is also one of the funniest people alive.If you have ever wondered what it takes to be a writer, what it means to be a writer, what the contents of your school lunches said about what your parents were really like, this books for you. From faith, love, and grace to pain, jealousy, and fear, Lamott insists that you keep your eves open, and then shows you how to survive. And always, from the life of the artist she turns to the art of life."An inspiring book about writing as a way of finding the truth-- San Francisco Chronicle"Surpasses all the other books on writing already out there -- even the wonderful stuff by Natalie Goldberg, John Gardner, and Annie Dillard."-- Seattle Times"Well-written, funny, and useful." -- Denver Post"I ended up reading it twice and expect to dip into it again in times of need. I recommend this book to other writers without reservation....This woman is uncanny."-- Marie Winn, Wall Street Journal"A quirky, personal, mordant, down-to-earth guide to fiction writing by a wonderful novelist essayist. Lamott makes writing seem like something you could actually enjoy."-- The Nation

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my wife has her number

(...) I'm not sure how long it was on the air, but for at least five years, Roseanne Barr's show was one of the most popular TV series in America. Meanwhile, I personally would have only tuned in to watch her be fed, piece by large piece, into a woodchipper. So I recognize the frequent possibility, even likelihood, that I am significantly out of step with popular opinion. But let me say this, Bird by Bird, a memoir of the writing life by Anne Lamott reads as if it was written by Ms Barr. Ms Lamott too is screechy, self-pitying, profane, and profoundly annoying. She is one of those people who has made a complete hash of her own life--alcoholic, drug addict, bulimic, single mother, born again but calls God, Her, all the time--therefore, thinks that life is really difficult in general and that her's is especially trying, and for some reason thinks that we should all hear about it and that we have something to learn from her.
Now, I hardly consider myself prudish and I must acknowledge that one of my own most troubling character defects is a tendency to be excessively gutter-mouthed, but there is simply no excuse for Lamott's foul language in this book. If an author is rendering dialogue in a novel, they must obviously use strong language in order to be realistic. But here, in a book that is purportedly about writing, her frequent resort to swearing smacks of affectation and a forced attempt to keep the tone of the book chatty, rather than pedantic. Instead, it is merely unprofessional. What do we have to learn about writing, never mind life, from a woman who can't express herself without resorting to profanity?
The sole moment of pleasure in the book comes in the form of a rejection letter that an editor sent to her, in which he states:
You have made the mistake of thinking that everything that has happened to you is interesting.
We can safely go one step further and say that the mistake lies in thinking that anything that has happened to her is interesting. (...)
GRADE: D
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quirky, insightful book that is the best in its niche

This is about the best book I can think of to give to someone who wants to try his or her hand at creative writing. Beginners often don't know how to begin, and can waste a lot of time making mistakes (such as being perfectionistic) that can be easily avoided by heeding Lamott's humorous yet profound advice. This is not a "nuts and bolts" book but rather a personal approach to teaching the art of creative writing by a novelist who is herself highly accomplished. Though it is saturated with Lamott's California/new agey/progressive Christian/breathe deeply/marin county persona, that doesn't have to pose an obstacle; even if you are, say, a farmer in Iowa, you will still be able to harvest the solid advice that Lamott offers here.

I know of no other book among Lamott's generation that is comparable: Natalie Goldberg's "Writing Down the Bones" is also useful, but she lacks Lamott's quirky brilliance, and, besides, her book on writing is the only piece of writing she is known for. (It must be said, though, that her main interest was in writing poetry, and hardly any poets make a name for themself). Annie Dillard's "The Writing Life" is much more abstract, and recommended for more experienced writers of both fiction and nonfiction. It's a fascinating book with some breathtaking prose (i.e. the chapter about the aviator) but it is not for the novice. By the way, it is great for the experienced/serious writer who is having trouble getting down to work or feels otherwise blocked. Likewise, John Gardner's "On Becoming a Novelist" is a tour de force that addresses everything that the serious writer at the beginning of his or her desired career is wondering about, but it is not for people who lack seriousness and drive. For indeed, it is an indispensible guidebook to the challenges, pitfalls and potential triumphs of the novelist's chosen path, but you won't really get much from it unless you're already working hard at your craft. Lamott really has the beginner niche covered, and provides an enjoyable reading experience, even as she shares with you her secrets.

Of course, if you want to glean wisdom from writing mentors of past generations, you won't want to miss E.M. Forester's "Aspects of the Novel" which contains his brilliant observations on the novelist's art and craft.

To get more suggestions and comparisons, see my Listmania! list: "Best Books on Writing Novels and Short Stories."
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Brilliance with a touch of Irreverance and lots of Humility

I read "Bird by Bird" when my novel was just a tiny steam-ghost rising from my coffee--I read and I thought, "So, this is wonderful, but...." and it was in that BUT I saw what could be my future--I could listen to Lamott, or I could keep saying "But..." I listened to Lamott, wrote my novel, the sequel and another draft for a novel. Then, I picked up "Bird by Bird" again, and read it cover to cover - with a new perspective. I listened again...and no "But(s)..." allowed.

There are few people I really would like to meet, just to see how they fit in my artistic visual...but Lamott is one of them. Not to talk about writing, I'm sick of talking about writing (unless its about MINE of course ..ha!), but to have a glass of wine and some chocolate and just sit silent for a while, and then grin and start yapping away.

I've been compared to Lamott by a couple of people who've read my work--I think, "no way!" But inside, I feel warm and special to be compared to her in any way.

If you want to write or thought about writing - get her Bird by Bird--if you don't want to write, well, it's good reading anyway-notice she says "on writing and LIFE...", however, Lamott has other works to enjoy--just know that you won't be "wasting" your time or money on this author.

Brilliant, funny, achingly vulnerable but with that outer shell many of us pull over ourselves for protection...Lamott.

Enjoy her books, you won't be disappointed.

Kathryn Magendie
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Good for Fiction Writers, Not So Good for Nonfiction Writers

I was eager to read Anne Lamott's advice as I stocked up on books that I believed would help me begin my first serious foray into writing. However, as an aspiring nonfiction writer, I was a little disappointed by her many chapters devoted to fiction writing. I'm not unhappy that I bought it, as there are some useful bits that relate to writing in general, but if you are a nonfiction writer, there are probably other books that would serve your needs better.
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Fascinating inspiration

This book is truly awesome. It's a genuine look into the life of a well established writer, who suffers and struggles just as much as the next guy/gal. Anne has a hillarious sense of humor and discusses her trials and triumphs in a amazingly wonderful fashion. This book is just as marvelous as Stephen King's book about writing, A MEMOIR ON WRITING. Read them both, you won't regret it!
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Make sure you read this book twice

Buy this book and read it twice.
The first time, all the way through.
The second time, slowly, with highlighter pen in hand.
Then, as Henry Miller said, find a place to "plant your ass" and begin writing.
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A fantastic chronicle of the writing life

This book speaks to writers at all stages, especially those struggling to find inspiration. I especially liked her chapter on perfectionism. This is one of my devilish traits--one that keeps from sitting down and writing.
I enjoyed this book and would strongly suggest any one who is looking to broaden their horizons in the writing field to purchase it and put it in their library.
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Bird by Bird by Ann Lamott - Great read

This book is great. I recommend it for any person who enjoys any form of creativity in there life, be it painting or writing or anything else.
Ann Lamott has a way of presenting the facts of life in a honest witty way. This book is honest, funny, and sad, and is a great book for life in general.
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Another wonderful Anne Lamott work!

Anne Lamott never disappoints. Bird by Bird is a thought-provoking and humanly relatable work. Highly recommend.
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Another Anne Lamott treasure!

I love Anne’s books and am just now reading this one!