Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected--A Memoir (P.S.)
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Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected--A Memoir (P.S.)

Paperback – Illustrated, April 2, 2013

Price
$19.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
304
Publisher
William Morrow Paperbacks
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0062045041
Dimensions
0.8 x 6.7 x 9.3 inches
Weight
1.64 pounds

Description

“Bloom is one of the most emotionally stirring books I’ve ever read…. This story is a reminder that perfect, when it comes to human beings, is such a relative (and irrelevant) term…and that a mother’s love for her child is a powerful, eternal, unshakable force.” — Ree Drummond, New York Times bestselling author of The Pioneer Woman Cooks “Kelle Hampton…reminds us that life may not always look pretty or perfect, but it is always beautiful…. She has indeed made of her life something ‘wild and precious’ and her book, like her two beautiful girls, is a bundle of joy. I finished it reluctantly and with a full heart.” — Claire Fontaine, national bestselling author of Come Back: A Mother and Daughter's Journey Through Hell and Back “In her tender and genuinely beautiful memoir, Kelle Hampton encourages us to not simply accept the unexpected circumstances of our lives, but to embrace them like the things we wished for all along.” — Matthew Logelin, New York Times bestselling author of Two Kisses for Maddy “A constitutionally positive person…Hampton makes a convincing argument that grief and disappointment can be transformed into compassion and joy.” — People (3 stars) #11 New York Times Bestseller — New York Times A USA Today Bestseller — USA Today “Bloom is not only about a particular young mother working through the place of hurt …it is about all of us…. [A] powerful meditation on loss, perspective, challenge and opportunity. Give it to anyone you know who is hurting.” — Fort Myers Florida Weekly “In Bloom, a searing and brave portrait of her baby’s first year, Hampton opens up about her fears…jubilation, and…‘the throbbing pain of losing what I had expected.’ Filled with personal photos from the delivery room through Nella’s first birthday, Bloom gives…new meaning to the term ‘open book.’” — BookPage Winner of 2012 Mom’s Choice Silver Award, Biographies & Memoirs — Mom's Choice Awards There is us. Our Family. We will hold our precious gift and know that we are lucky . . . From the outside looking in, Kelle Hampton had the perfect life: a beautiful two-year-old daughter, a loving husband, and a thriving photography career. When she learned she was pregnant with their second child, they were ecstatic. But when their new daughter was placed in her arms in the delivery room, Kelle knew instantly that something was wrong. Nella looked different than her sister, Lainey, had at birth. As her friends and family celebrated, a terrified Kelle was certain that Nella had Down syndrome—a fear her pediatrician soon confirmed. Yet gradually Kelle embraced the realization that she had been chosen to experience an extraordinary and special gift. With lyrical prose and gorgeous photography, Bloom takes readers on a wondrous journey through Nella's first year of life—a gripping, hilarious, and intensely poignant trip of transformation in which a mother learns that perfection comes in all different shapes. Writer and photographer Kelle Hampton chronicles the simple joys of motherhood and daily life on her popular blog, Enjoying the Small Things. An advocate for individuals with Down syndrome, she has been honored by both the National Down Syndrome Society (NDSS) and the National Down Syndrome Congress (NDSC), receiving the NDSC National Media Award in 2010. Kelle lives in Naples, Florida, with her husband, Brett; their two daughters, Lainey and Nella; and her stepsons, Austyn and Brandyn. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • “In her tender and genuinely beautiful memoir, Kelle Hampton encourages us to not simply accept the unexpected circumstances of our lives, but to embrace them like the things we wished for all along.”—Matthew Logelin,
  • New York Times
  • bestselling author of
  • Two Kisses for Maddy
  • Bloom
  • is an inspiring and heartfelt memoir that celebrates the beauty found in the unexpected, the strength of a mother’s love, and, ultimately, the amazing power of perspective. The author of the popular blog Enjoying the Small Things—named The Bump’s Best Special Needs Blog and The Blog You’ve Learned the Most From in the 2010 BlogLuxe Awards—Kelle Hampton interweaves lyrical prose and stunning four-color photography as she recounts the unforgettable story of the first year in the life of her daughter Nella, who has Down syndrome. Poignant, eye-opening, and heart-soaring, Hampton’s
  • Bloom
  • is ultimately about embracing life and really living it.

Customer Reviews

Rating Breakdown

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Needy......Needy....Needy

I am a mother of two. I have been a single mom off and on and yes I was a teen mom. This book made me so angry! This book is about a lady with too much feelings and a perfect life (rich husband, nice house, nice clothes, too much time etc) who happens to have a baby with Down Syndrome, her perfect life is ruined!!! She needs this, she doesn't have this, she doesn't have that. OMG!! This lady really needs to travel more and not too the rich, first world countries, five star hotels, I'm sure she stays in but she needs to realize that there are whole countries that have much less than her. I wanted a book that taught me and inspired me, but reading this book I realized that I am STRONG compared to this lady! I am 22 years old much stronger and much more independent! Somebody take this women to Africa! If you are a needy and an extremely dependent person that likes to whine about little negative things in life than this book is for you! But if your independent, tough, strong than this book is just a roll your eyes throw away kind of book.
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A huge disappointment

I borrowed this book from the library on a whim... I knew nothing of the author and only read it was a Memoir and grabbed it for a beach read.

After reading a bit, I noticed the tone and narcissism and guessed she was a blogger. And I was right.

Let me sum up the book: a self absorbed girl is so utterly disappointed that her daughter has Down syndrome that she frequently relies on friends to throw her pity parties. She cries then thinks she can proceed with life in accepting this awful crutch of being a mom of special needs (oh the embarrassment! The HORROR!) then it happens all over again. No real revelation ever comes.

She attempts to be eloquent and descriptive in wording, but it only drags the story to an interminable, never ending redundancy of self absorption.

I appreciate she was shocked and upset in having a baby placed in her arms and having to move on from that. But the theme of the book was her relationship to her friends. "Finding beauty in the unexpected" certainly never came from her daughter Nella, as she is the character least involved. Hardly mentioned is her at all. More of how this affects her OTHER daughter or how OTHER people react. Heck, she even talks about how she is hurt her audience in
blogland gives her negative comments. Shouldn't she worry more about Nella?

This book infuriated me. The author is so self absorbed, she needs to stick with Blogging. Where the audience expects a level if narcissism with fancy words, but little depth.
32 people found this helpful
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Too much Kelle; not enough Nella

I came upon Kelle's blog shortly before Nella was born. I love her photos; I'm a sucker for baby and children photos and Kelle's are magnificent! I'd go to her blog just to enjoy the beautiful pictures. I don't remember paying attention to her writing until she posted Nella's birth story. I was moved by Kelle's courage to embrace Nella and her willingness to share her painful journey to acceptance. And I fell in love with Nella. I followed Kelle's blog just to read about Nella and to watch her grow. I applauded (and still do) Kelle and Brett for their devotion to this sweet girl and raising her as her own person.

This week I happened to see "Bloom" on the library shelf. I was aware Kelle had written this book but never looked beyond the title. Judging from the cover, I thought this book would give me more of sweet Nella but I was sorely disappointed that it was focused so much on the author. The writing reads just like her blog, not book-worthy. She has an axe to grind with "Church" which she writes about on her blog and spilled way too much ink including in her book. The book is more about Kelle's shattered dream than Nella's life. Would that it were the other way around!
11 people found this helpful
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Bloom was an incredibly touching memoir of love reached through struggle, of coming to understand love and putting aside prejudices and preconceived notions. It was beautiful, and the pictures to go along with it were more than gorgeous. Plus, I really enjoyed the reading of it. As such, I really wish that I could give this book a higher rating, but. . .I just feel like I can't.

When Kelle Hampton gives birth to a beautiful baby with Down's Syndrome, she is shocked. More than/Worse than shock, though, she is HORRIFIED. Not horrified for the baby and for the life that this PERSON will have to lead in the face of prejudiced onlookers, but horrified for herself, horrified for what other people will think. It takes her a little while to come around to feeling horrified for the child. And even though, throughout the book, she keeps moving back and forth between feeling sorry for the child and feeling sorry for herself, I actually breathed a sigh of relief. Regardless of whether or not she was doing it for the child (or, no doubt subconsciously, doing it for image), she was going to be taking care of this child, creating a secure, loving environment in which this child could grow and be nurtured.

I have no children, and I have no clue how I would react if I ever unexpectedly had a child with Down's Syndrome, but. . .I just hope I wouldn't react like Kelle did. I hope that I would immediately love the child, that I wouldn't spend months, years, going back and forth about whether or not this child was a burden for me or whether or not this child was going to be a burden for my other child. I know we're all selfish, and I appreciate everything Kelle went through and just how HARD this must have been for her. But still, I sometimes just found her so selfish and image-obsessed that I couldn't relate, that I hated her a little.

I think it was amazing and beautiful that she was able to get all of her feelings out there; that she was brave enough to chronicle what she was feeling for the world, even knowing that sometimes she was feeling things she probably shouldn't be feeling. She is a brave, beautiful, and courageous woman, and, on the one hand, I look up at her in awe. I know how hard it is to keep staying positive, keep moving forward when everything around you makes you just want to stop. She kept her head up and kept looking for positive, and for that, I loved her and I loved this book. On the other hand, there were so many things that she thought and felt that I just wish she hadn't thought and hadn't felt.

The thing that, more than anything, got me about this book was that I felt like she never truly CHANGED. I didn't get the feeling in the end that she had gotten over image and learned to love her daughter. I got the feeling that she had learned to accept her, and that for the sake of image she would do what she could to raise her. But I still feel like there was a large part of her that was confused and horrified. Anyhow, I'm just glad the child will have a loving environment in which to grow up.
10 people found this helpful
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Meh

The book is full of beautiful imagery that does well to portray the picture perfect life the author imagines for herself. It's all a little too perfect, never messy nothing raw. Nella's birth story is beautiful but the rest of the book is a bore. It felt vapid and random. The chapters made no sense and jumped around from place to place and random story to random story.

I didn't learn much about D.S. or life with Nella. I felt like I was reading a celebrity memoir, you know the ones where they talk at length about their random party stories? Only the stories weren't interesting because the secondary characters weren't noteworthy.

I do not recommend this book. It's awkward and essentially just the story of how much Kelle likes perfection and partying with friends.
7 people found this helpful
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Ehhhhh...couldn't finish it. Her blog is better than the bookj

Seriously, got 1/2 of the way through it and I couldn't finish it. The flow is all over the place, the writing is much like her blog, she repeats herself a lot, and there is a whole lot of me me me.

Good pictures, nice story about Nella

JUST MY OPINION

Bought on Kindle
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I enjoyed the first few chapters but after that forced myself ...

I don't know what I just read? This women seems to just spend most the book boasting about all her friends & how everyone loves & supports her sooooo much. And if I read the word babe one more time I will cry.
I enjoyed the first few chapters but after that forced myself to finish.
No insight on raising a special needs child at all unless pretend it's not happening until you need too is advice.
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Wonderful

I absolutely love this woman, her writing, and this book. You need to read her blog. It is full of this stuff multiple times a week. I can't get enough. www.kellehampton.com.
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From the moment my perfect baby was born he's brought nothing but joy

I read this when I found out I was expecting a baby with Ds. What a mistake! I understand some of what she was going through...but seriously, I couldn't handle the self indungence. From the moment my perfect baby was born he's brought nothing but joy, love and light into this world. I understand everyone is different...but it seems she wallowed in her circumstances way too much, instead of focusing on her beautiful and precious baby...I kept waiting for her to realize this, and I didn't feel like she ever really did. I was very disappointed. I don't recommend this book to any expectant parents out there. This is a highly dramatized negative perspective on have a baby with Down syndrome.
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Charming

This memoir is more than just your typical account of a person's life. It also includes beautiful pictures on almost every page that were taken by the author. I enjoyed how colorful and happy the addition of photos made this book. Even when a situation seemed dire, there was a bright picture of the author or one of her family members to focus on that helped ease the sense of pain that this story emanated at times.

Having never experienced having a family member with any sort of disability or birth defect, I could not relate personally with this touching story. The way Kelle voices her concerns and feelings in this touching story makes it a little easier to imagine what she went through with the birth of her second child. She is brutally honest and raw, and writes her experiences out in a clear and resounding voice that make this book a pleasure to read. If you want an inside look into the life of a family that has been blessed with a child with Down Syndrome, Bloom is an ideal choice. I know I am glad I read it.

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