House Lessons: Renovating a Life
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House Lessons: Renovating a Life

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Named a "Best Book of 2020" by Real Simple Washington State Book Award FinalistPacific Northwest Booksellers Association Bestseller “One part investigation of architecture and design, one part exploration of identity, House Lessons is a meditation on space and home, and Bauermeister is a Zen master of the self.” —Adrienne Brodeur, author of Wild Game “Almost anyone who’s ever let heart rule head will nod, at the very least, at the stories that a 100-year-old house in Port Townsend, Washington, evokes. In her memoir of falling in love with a house, novelist Bauermeister details every cranny, cove, and piece of plaster...This will resonate with any readers who love words and old houses.” — Booklist , starred review “...a family memoir, a primer of architectural theories and a study of how people relate to their spaces. Fans of [Bauermeister's] four novels know [she] has a keen appreciation of the senses—savoring food in The School of Essential Ingredients , the art of fragrance in The Scent Keeper . She demonstrates that same respect for the renovation.” —Shelf Awareness “Erica Bauermeister’s latest book is a thoughtful, entertaining memoir of the time she and her family spent renovating the mother of all fixer-uppers...Bauermeister has given us a skeleton key to unlock ideas about self and space and place...” —Christian Science Monitor “This beautifully written memoir is for anyone who has wondered where home is and how to find it, fix it, love it, and leave it for later as well. We are lucky to be along for the ride.” —Laurie Frankel, New York Times bestselling author of This Is How It Always Is “This deeply moving story of an epic home renovation pulls essential life lessons from the logistics of plaster removal and pipexa0fitting and moves effortlessly across time and topic to find moments of reflection, optimism,xa0and love in the most unlikely of places.” —Tara Conklin, New York Times bestselling author of The Last Romantics and The House Girl “Intimate and gracefully told, here is the irresistible story of a house and a family in transmutation.” —Rikki Ducornet, author of The Deep Zoo “Reading House Lessons is itself like walking through a beloved old home, where strange treasures and beautiful eccentricities reveal themselves around every corner. Generous and artful, this is a hard-won story of the work that goes into building a life.” —Molly Wizenberg, bestselling author of A Homemade Life Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. The house stood at the top of a hill, ensnarled in vegetation, looking out over the Victorian roofs of Port Townsend and beyond, to water and islands and clouds. It seemed to lean toward the view as if enchanted, although we later learned that had far more to do with neglect than magic. The once-elegant slopes of its hipped roof rolled and curled, green with moss. The tall, straight walls of its Foursquare design were camouflaged in salmon-pink asbestos shingles, the windows covered in grimy curtains or cardboard. Three discarded furnaces, four neon yellow oil drums, an ancient camper shell, and a pair of rusted wheelbarrows lay scattered at odd angles across the overgrown grass as if caught in a game of large-appliance freeze tag. The yard was Darwinian in its landscaping—an agglomeration of plants and trees, stuck in the ground and left to survive. Below the house, I could just see the tips of a possible orchard poking up through a roiling sea of ivy. In front, two weather-stunted palm trees flanked the walkway like a pair of tropical lawn jockeys gone lost, while a feral camellia bush had covered the porch and was heading for the second story. Someone had hacked away a rough opening for the front stairs, down which an assortment of rusted rakes and car mufflers and bags of fertilizer sprawled in lazy abandon. In their midst, seemingly oblivious to its setting, sat a rotting fruit basket, gift card still attached. "That one," my husband, Ben, said as he pointed to the house. "It's not for sale," I noted. “I know. But it should be, don’t you think?” Our son and daughter, ten and thirteen, stared out the car windows slack-jawed. “You’re kidding, right?” the kids asked. But I think they already knew the question was rhetorical. --This text refers to the hardcover edition. ERICA BAUERMEISTER is the bestselling author of four novel s: The School of Essential Ingredients , Joy for Beginners , The Lost Art of Mixing , and The Scent Keeper. She is also the coauthor of 500 Great Books by Women: A Reader's Guide and Let's Hear It For the Girls: 375 Great Books for Readers 2-14 . She has a PhD in literature from the University of Washington, and has taught there and at Antioch University. With the exception of two years in Italy, Bauermeister has lived in the Pacific Northwest for nearly four decades, and her children proudly say rainwater runs in their veins. She is a founding member of the Seattle7Writers and currently lives in Port Townsend, Washington, in the house she renovated with her family. --This text refers to the hardcover edition. Read more

Features & Highlights

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  • Real Simple
  • Best Book of the Year from the
  • New York Times
  • bestselling author of
  • The Scent Keeper
  • A satisfying memoir about the power of home and the transformative act of restoring one Port Townsend, Washington house in particular
  • “I think anyone who saves an old house has to be a caretaker at heart, a believer in underdogs, someone whose imagination is inspired by limitations, not endless options.” In this mesmerizing memoir-in-essays, Erica Bauermeister renovates a trash-filled house in eccentric Port Townsend, Washington, and in the process takes readers on a journey to discover the ways our spaces subliminally affect us. A personal, accessible, and literary exploration of the psychology of architecture, as well as a loving tribute to the connections we forge with the homes we care for and live in, this book is designed for anyone who’s ever fallen head over heels for a house. It is also a story of a marriage, of family, and of the kind of roots that settle deep into your heart. Discover what happens when a house has its own lessons to teach in this moving and insightful memoir that ultimately shows us how to make our own homes (and lives) better.

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More than a story about a house

Wow this is a great read. Its personal, insightful and educational. Not to mention it is truly a love story of a family, marriage and home. If you have read any of Erica’s previous books (and you should!) you know that her ability to transport the reader to the place (smells, sights and surroundings), and emotions of the characters is magical. House Lessons does not disappoint, Erica’s own personal thoughts and emotions are revealed, and the house becomes as much of a character with its own feelings and emotions. The book takes you on the family journey of the why and how they chose the house and the impact the renovation had on the people involved, but also provides great research and information on structures, architecture, psychology and more. If you have ever renovated, built or purchased a house or looking to do so this book articulates the emotional journey that most of us have felt but are unable to communicate.
12 people found this helpful
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My Favorite Bauermeister Book to Date

I have read and enjoyed Erica Bauermeister's books, but this one really struck a chord. Perhaps it is because I lived in Port Townsend for six years and have fond memories of its quirkiness (I do not know the author). I also have a renovation story of my own about the house we lived in while there. She captures beautifully the essence of Port Townsend, with its free-roaming deer and a strong sense of the mysterious at work.

Mostly, though, this is a deeply personal book. We see the author go through her own transformation as the house does, too. It reminds us that when we pay attention to our deep inner longings, we find a way to make them happen -- even if it takes a long time to get there. Sometimes the pace at which our dreams come to fruition is maddeningly slow, but each step of the journey is worthwhile. Truly a joy to read this book!
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Amazing book. Amazing house.

I LOVED this book. The author beautifully weaves the story of her family's life and the changes that come with time, age and wisdom with the story of their rescue of this beloved house. The house seems to draw the author and her family in immediately, despite the enormous challenges they will face in taking it on. She describes the house seeming to "breathe" when 7+ tons of garbage are removed from it, and it seems to communicate in ways with the author and her family and even give gifts! Loved the life given to this house, both through the author's writing, and through the actual repair and rejuvenation of the structure itself. The house's "soul" is able to shine and the family and the house seem a perfect match. Having felt this type of draw to a house before, I related to this book so very much. I am also a sucker for memoirs like this (loved David Giffels' book about his remodel too), and this one is so well written. Highly recommend.
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My new favorite book!

Erica Bauermeister is a wordsmith, crafting each phrase in this book to perfection. This isn't just a story about saving a classic old home from destruction, it is about a couple intent on following their youthful dreams while listening to the needs of their family, making adjustments, commitments, promises and giving each other the voice and space they needed to make those dreams come true. This house took a family to raise it from ruin, it took creativity and the ability to truly observe, trust and listen to others and to your instincts and in the end became a family home rich with memories and more to come. It will make you laugh out loud at times, or groan with dismay and in the end close the last page wishing there was more and glad you shared the experience.
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A book about building dreams

If you've ever wanted to re-imagine an old home, like the purple, Victorian, gingerbread house at the east end of the Ross Island bridge in Portland, this book is for you. Poetic like a great novel, we are introduced to the family trials , heartbreak, and and warmth as they all work together to "Imagine" their new home. Loved it.
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I Really Wanted to Enjoy this Book

I tried on three occasions to read this book. I loved the other two books I read by this author and hated to see them end. But this book, House Lessons, stopped me cold after about 14% into the Kindle book. I usually finish a book even if it's not particularly interesting to me. But this one, I could not do it. And I had paid for this download. I just felt I could order something else with the money I spent on this book. So sorry, but the story dragged along. There was all this info that just did little to move the story along with Latin words, etc. It was a confusing shift from one child to a grown woman (assuming it was the child) and her husband's family. Then there was a Victorian house falling down in disrepair and a couple buying it to fix up. It just lost me along the way. I know this author intended a better reception to this book and I wish I could give it.
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The title says it all!

House lessons: yes, every house I’ve owned teaches me something about building materials, priorities, deal breakers, lighting, interior traffic flow, exterior living spaces, end value versus time, effort and expense. Life in those homes reflected relationships, good, bad and otherwise. Bauermeister’s book is a thoughtful and articulate melding of structural and philosophical perspectives one should consider, whether going through an actual home restoration project, or not.
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Not fiction but very interesting

I have read several books by the author and always look forward to her books. However, this is not a fiction book but basically a record of her purchase and renovation of an old house in Washington (state). It is still very interesting. Having renovated an old house (older than the one she records), I understood all the trials that she was going through. Recommended for anyone who likes Erica's other writings, or for those interested in some of the realities of renovating an old house.
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Love houses?

You'll love this story of how house renovation (and what a house of horrors) it was spurs personal growth. As a side benefit it might make you want to visit Port Townsend in the Pacific. Northwest!
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A True Delight

In this smart, funny, and thoughtful memoir, Erica Bauermeister reveals intimate details about her tumultuous, love-at-first-sight relationship with a dilapidated Edwardian house. But House Lessons isn’t about real estate. Through the ups and downs of nearly 20 years of renovation, Baumeister’s story is told through the lens of desire: her dream for her beloved family, her passion as a writer, and her drive to transform herself. She does end up changed, but in ways she did not expect. And her love for detail (the history of plaster, superstitions surrounding foundations, the etymological origins of “housewife”) invites the reader into what it means “to dwell.” As she says, “This is the beauty, the power, of architecture—it exists both outside and inside of us, a dance between structure and self.” A true delight.
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