If You Have to Cry, Go Outside: And Other Things Your Mother Never Told You
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If You Have to Cry, Go Outside: And Other Things Your Mother Never Told You

Paperback – Illustrated, December 28, 2010

Price
$11.29
Format
Paperback
Pages
208
Publisher
HarperOne
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0061930942
Dimensions
5.31 x 0.47 x 8 inches
Weight
6.1 ounces

Description

“Kelly’s book is full of anecdotes from her personal and professional life as well as motivational tips.” — People.com “Cutrone, 44, is infamous to the MTV generation for her untimely eruptions and cutting commentaries. Her hellish take on the fashion world is her ticket to stardom....If You Have to Cry, Go Outside (HarperOne), reads as a gritty guide for young women entering the fashion world.” — USA Today “Choice career and style advice from New York’s most outspoken PR woman.” — WSJ.com “What everyone loves about Kelly Cutrone, owner of fashion PR firm People’s Revolution and The City’s official BS barometer, is that she isn’t afraid to tell it how it is.” — Elle Magazine “Cutrone gives blunt, how-to advice on how to be a “power bitch”... It’s an old-fashioned guide to succeeding in both life and work (phone, not e-mail, you Gen Y-ers!), with a dash of self-styled spirituality and, of course, all dressed up in Balenciaga.” — New York Post “[The] powerhouse fashion PR maven we-love-to-hate-but-really-love...” — Dallas Morning News “Part memoir, part self-improvement sermon (and conspicuously published by HarperOne, the spirituality imprint behind some of Marianne Williamson’s and Deepak Chopra’s books), it recounts Cutrone’s own fitful journey.” — New York Magazine “[A] memoir-ish book of offbeat advice for budding ‘power girls’...” — The Daily Beast “In her new book, If You Have to Cry, Go Outside: And Other Things Your Mother Never Told You, Cutrone shares personal stories and offers practical advice to encourage readers to figure out what they really want to do and to go out there and do it.” — Aol Career Blog “The book outlines [Cutrone’s] tumultuous rise from homelessness to the fashion elite and serves as a guide for navigating an alternative career path.” — The Harvard Crimson “Cutrone’s new book If you have to Cry, Go Outside: And Other Things Your Mother Never Told You is a raw, no bullshit, drama and drug–filled autobiographical joy ride that preaches spiritual self-empowerment over self-sabotage..” — Out Magazine “One of the few movers-and shakers who seems to have an enlightened grip on both the dark and light side of the business she navigates with such self-possession.… Clear, concise, to the point, and abrasively, wonderfully honest.” — The L “A must-read for career-minded gals entering the workforce – or those who just want to reinvent themselves.” — Star Magazine “Intelligent and witty works of wonder...literary bitch-slaps of unfettered straightfoward speech....an honest, instructional pseudo-memoir targeting a new generation of “young girls and gay boys” who want to break into the fashion industry but are unsure they have the chops for it. ” — Bay Area Reporter “In her trademark, no bull-shit style Kelly gives us the raw honest truth in If You Have To Cry, Go Outside. It is an easy fun read book you most likely will read over and over and continue to laugh out loud.” — CupcakeMag.com “Though on her TV show Cutrone’s outer bitch is ascendant, in her book, we’re introduced to the softer side of Kelly. Prone to New Age platitudes like, “Celebrate the magic inside of yourself.” This hippie affect is a delightful surprise coming from a woman who also swears like a sailor.” — Slate.com “She’s also publishing a memoir/guide, turning her take-no-prisoners approach to the fashion business into a message of girl power...entertaining for all.” — Los Angeles Times “Some necessary tough-love truths.” — Columbus Ledger-Enquirer “Part memoir and part career guide, geared toward young women breaking into the workforce.” — The Village Voice “If anything, the word that should be used to describe Cutrone is ‘feminist’ - it’s just that her version of female empowerment involves acknowledging that ‘you’re no different from anyone else and deserve no special treatment’. Unless, of course, you’ve earned it.” — The Sunday Times Kelly Cutrone has long been mentoring women on how to make it in one of the most competitive industries in the world. In her trademark, no-bullshit style, she combines personal and professional stories to share her secrets for success without selling out. Raw, hilarious, shocking, but always the honest truth, If You Have to Cry, Go Outside calls upon you to gather up your courage like an armful of clothes at a McQueen sample sale and follow your soul where it takes you. Whether you're just starting out in the world or looking to reinvent yourself, this book will be the spark you need to figure out what you have to say to the world—and how you're going to say it. Kelly Cutrone is the CEO and founder of People's Revolution, the New York Times bestselling author of If You Have to Cry , Go Outside , a television personality, and mother to nine-year-old Ava. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • In the
  • New York Times
  • bestseller
  • If You Have to Cry, Go Outside
  • , media maven Kelly Cutrone spills her secrets for success without selling out. She combines personal and professional stories from her high-profile gigs as Whitney Port and Lauren Conrad’s boss on
  • The Hills
  • , star of Bravo's
  • Kell on Earth
  • , judge on
  • America’s Next Top Model
  • , and CEO/founder of the fashion PR firm People’s Revolution to offer young professional women no-nonsense, brutally honest career advice—and other things their mothers never told them.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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If you know Kelly, you know the book.

Take it with a grain of salt. If you know about Kelly, you know what her book will be like. Still, insightful thoughts on how to be a business woman and get your stuff together.
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Five Stars

great
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Good read, more of a bio

This felt more like Kelly's biography than lessons for the modern working girl, but I enjoyed it. There were "lessons" woven in throughout Kelly's personal experiences, but I think it's more about her personal story and outlook on life - again, all fine - was still a good read.
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she made into a living what she did best at living for..

The easy thing about Kelly Cutrone's life is that she made into a living what she did best at living for--partying. That may make her PR life seem like a cop out, BUT nonetheless she did have to hurdle over the same obstacles any fashion aspiree would, she just had more fun and drinks doing it. Maybe it's because both world's (PR and fashion) require very similar skill sets--physically putting your life on the line to meet a deadline, networking being the holy grail to guaranteed success, and an intoxicating bitch-aura that frightens everyone you even look at. But I think Kelly hit the nail on the nose with this book and even had an extra dagger to jab at some humor. In fact, some of her recollections of her past (and there were quite a bit of them, not that I minded), aligned with my life in an unsettlingly coincidental way. I suppose this is because, short version, we both came from small towns and flew off to the big city with the tenacity to go along with our big dreams. So if you're that girl or guy, read this book.

More than a memoir, Kelly wrote a sort of an in-the-closet-self-help book, except, like most self help books, it doesn't tell you how to live your life, it veers your mentality into focus in order for you to tell yourself how to live your life. That said, this book is for, above all, the aspiring Fashion Blank who is determined to make it in this poisonous industry while still having a grasp on the state of humanity. But that doesn't mean an aspiring accountant shouldn't pick this up, you're just going to have to deal with all the fashion references, aside from that, at the end of the day you'll still get the same juice that all us Fashion Blanks got.
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Loving this book!

This book isn't a how to make it in PR book. But that isn't was I was looking for anyway. This book is the shared story of Kelly Cutrone who as most of us know is a hugely successful dynamo in PR for art - fashion - music & all things entertainment (and some environmental as well). Her journey is fascinating & you can learn things about & for yourself just from being present in her story telling. I appreciate the insight as well as the entertaining style of her expression. Do not get this book if you are looking for a how to book - it isn't that. But if you are getting to know yourself & are also interested in how other strong people (in this case woman) have found their way - the rise the fall & the rise again (just like real life)... this book is really enriching. Thank you Kelly & Thank you Meredith Bryan for coming together to share this. I am loving this book!
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Motivating and Great Life Lessons!

What a great read for anyone...best for young women entering the workforce. i love Kelly and her straight-forward, honest approach.
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Recommend!

Hilarious, straight forward and fun to read!
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It's good but somehow does keep my attention

Started reading it, and stopped, and started again, and stopped. It's good but somehow does keep my attention.
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Five Stars

Love this book
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Five Stars

A must read