In the Country We Love: My Family Divided
In the Country We Love: My Family Divided book cover

In the Country We Love: My Family Divided

Hardcover – May 3, 2016

Price
$15.00
Format
Hardcover
Pages
272
Publisher
Henry Holt and Co.
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1627795272
Dimensions
6.41 x 0.99 x 9.58 inches
Weight
14.4 ounces

Description

From School Library Journal Teens may recognize Guerrero from Orange Is the New Black, where she plays Maritza ("If you want more pizza, vote for Maritza!"), or Jane the Virgin, where she plays the title character's BFF Lina. In recent months, Guerrero has been speaking out about immigration reform, and this book explains why: when she was 14, she came home from school one day to find that her parents had been arrested; they were ultimately deported to Colombia. Guerrero, born in the United States, was more fortunate than most young people in this situation, in that her family had a strong contingent of friends who lived nearby and who took her in, allowing her to continue her schooling. But she describes how she never truly felt at home once her parents were gone: she tried to minimize the space she took up; she always asked permission, even to eat a snack; she did household chores whenever she could; and she spent her free time worrying about how to achieve financial independence. Guerrero hid her story from others for years but eventually realized it was time to start dealing with her past and sharing her experience, in the hopes of helping others in the same situation. Her acting career has given her the platform to do just that. VERDICT This touching memoir will resonate with teens who love acting as well as those who want to know more about of the lives of immigrants and refugees, or have experienced a similar situation to Guerrero's.—Sarah Flowers, formerly with Santa Clara County Library, CA One of Chicago Public Library 's and BookRiot's Best Books of 2016 "Guerrero, 14 at the time, was left on her own with no government oversight whatsoever, a harrowing situation that she recounts with honesty, pathos, and bravery...Guerrero transforms a truly terrible situation into something meaningful, using her story and her role as an Ambassador for Citizenship and Naturalization by the White House to try to help other immigrant families left in this terrible position." ― Publishers Weekly “Orange Is the New Black actress Guerrero delivers an affecting tale of a childhood lived in the margins. . . . lovingly detailed in colloquial and well-paced prose . . . The author's candor in chronicling the lowest moments of her life reads like an urgent confessional. . . The author's greatest strength lies in her ability to advocate for undocumented immigrants and others affected by immigration status: 'I've written the book that I wish I could have read when I was that girl.' A moving, humanizing portrait of the collateral damage caused by America's immigration policy." ―Kirkus Reviews "Guerrero relates her struggle to hold her life together, get through high school and college, and find her feet in the world--challenges that will resonate with many readers...[She] writes with humor and heartbreaking honesty. Offering readers the story she needed to hear as a child, Guerrero shines a light on this country's flawed immigration system, eloquently calling for reform without diminishing her appreciation for the opportunities US citizenship has afforded her. A timely and enlightening read ."― Booklist " In the Country We Love is the poignant, candid, and often shocking account of the challenges Guerrero faced as a citizen child of undocumented parents"― Kirkus Reviews [special cover feature] “I think putting your life down on paper as honest and raw as Diane Guerrero has done is brave…, Guerrero bares her life showing her faults, her heart, her humor, that the saying kids are resilient is not so, and most importantly her fight to thrive and succeed. I could not recommend this book enough, especially if you liked The Book of Unknown Americans.” ―Book Riot [best books of April 2016] " In the Country We Love is a necessary story for our times...It is a heartrending memoir that humanizes the story of America’s immigration policies and helps us all find a way to understand the challenging questions and ineffective strategies of current policies and practices." ― San Antonio News-Express "Advocating on behalf of the undocumented immigrants in our country, Guerrero’s memoir is a well-written tell-all of a woman who traveled a difficult path to stardom.” ―ReadItForward.com Diane Guerrero is an actress on the hit shows Orange is the New Black and Jane the Virgin . She has written about her family in the Los Angeles Times and has appeared on CNN to discuss immigration issues. She also volunteers with the nonprofit Immigrant Legal Resource Center. She lives in New York City. Michelle Burford is a founding editor of O, The Oprah Magazine and writer of many best-selling books including memoirs by Olympic gymnast Gabby Douglas, singer Toni Braxton, and Michelle Knight. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • The star of Orange is the New Black and Jane the Virgin
  • presents her personal story
  • of the real plight of undocumented immigrants in this country
  • Diane Guerrero, the television actress from the megahit
  • Orange is the New Black
  • and
  • Jane the Virgin
  • , was just fourteen years old on the day her parents were detained and deported while she was at school. Born in the U.S., Guerrero was able to remain in the country and continue her education, depending on the kindness of family friends who took her in and helped her build a life and a successful acting career for herself, without the support system of her family.
  • In the Country We Love
  • is a moving, heartbreaking story of one woman's extraordinary resilience in the face of the nightmarish struggles of undocumented residents in this country. There are over 11 million undocumented immigrants living in the US, many of whom have citizen children, whose lives here are just as precarious, and whose stories haven't been told. Written with bestselling author Michelle Burford, this memoir is a tale of personal triumph that also casts a much-needed light on the fears that haunt the daily existence of families likes the author's and on a system that fails them over and over.

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Great authentic account

I couldn't put down this book. With the current political climate, it was enlightening to hear an authentic recount of a family divided by deportation. It was an easy read, but kept me turning pages to find out what happened next. Whether or not you are a fan of Diane Guerrero, OITNB, or Jane the Virgin, this book is an enlightening, if not enraging true account of how we treat not only immigrants, but also our most vulnerable children citizens.
4 people found this helpful
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Diane's decision to stay in the USA

The first part about how her family came and what made them illegal and how they had to live was very interesting. I did not enjoy her career stories as much. I ordered this as a resident of Tucson, hoping to better understand the immigrants.
2 people found this helpful
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Interesting

This wasn't the best written book, didn't feel like the co-author had affected Guerrero's voice so it read authentically. I think I expected Guerrero to focus more on the issue of deportation and less on the rest of her life, but it probably would have been a less effective book without the reader feeling like they got to know her. This wasn't the best memoir I've ever read but I did enjoy it and I appreciate that she discusses a lot of difficult topics with candor.
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Gripping and heartbreaking

Diane Guerrero, known for her roles on Orange Is The New Black and Jane The Virgin, bares her entire soul with this memoir about how utterly broken the immigration system in the United States is. She came home from school at 14 and both of her Colombian parents had been taken for deportation, leaving her on her own.

She talks a bit about her path to acting, but it's a small part. Most of the book is about her family. Guerrero's shining personality glitters on every page, but she doesn't shy away from the pain of losing her parents or any of the demons she fought as a young adult (alcohol abuse, self-harm, near suicide attempts).

The book goes into detail of the hardships and struggles immigrants go through, and no punches are pulled. It ends on a passionate plea for American voters to go to the ballots and demand change.

If you don't know how troubled America's backyard is, read this.
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Timely, honest and touching. Guerrero shares her story about being the daughter of undocumented immigrants. Recommended.

In this book Diane Guerrero, actress in the popular Jane the Virgin and Orange is the New Black TV shows, details her experiences as the daughter of undocumented residents who, at the age of 14, suddenly finds herself alone in the US when her parents are deported. Readers will be shocked at how easily Diane slipped through the US system with no government agency contacting Diane, an American citizen, to make sure she was okay after her parents were deported. Instead she relied on the help of her community in Boston, her own sheer determination and the generosity of family friends to take her in. But even with their support, Diane feel quite alone and is forced to become an adult at too early an age.

The issues of undocumented residents has been in the news quite a lot lately making this book relevant and timely. Guerrero gives a personal look into what life is like for undocumented residents - the constant fear of being caught, struggling to make ends meet and being victims of fraudsters out to take advantage of people who desperately want to become legal citizens. She also shows the strength, love and support of her local community and how they come together to help whenever they can.

Her account is, at times, heart-breaking, maddening and shocking but always with a real honesty. She doesn't sugar coat her problems and faults with her readers as she struggles to remain connected with her parents, deal with her feelings of abandonment as well as confront alcohol abuse and mental health issues.

She has a very causal and conversational feel to her writing with some contemporary slang (complete with occasional hashtags) thrown in. Sometimes this writing style can backfire and this book felt more like chatting with a girlfriend most of the time. But I think, for the most part, it works for this book and I couldn't help but imagine her saying some of these lines in a Maritza Ramos style. For those who aren't Orange is the New Black fans, Maritza is the character that Diane plays on the hit show. Diane talks a bit about her OITNB experiences and cast mates - their banter and connection is just as solid on and off set as you'd imagine.

Now when I watch Orange is the New Black I have a much better understanding of this relatively new actress. You really cannot understand a person until you've walked a mile in their shoes. As a Canadian citizen, I have had a very different experience growing up but I appreciate how thoroughly she described her feelings and struggles to her readers to enable us to get a glimpse into her life and help us to sympathize with people in similar situations.

While she has started on a successful career as an actress and has become an advocate for immigrants, readers witness how the loss of her parents, at such an important juncture of her life, influences her positive and negative life experiences in such a dramatic way. While Diane accounts her own struggles in this book she has become the voice of many who continue to fight for the opportunity to be American citizens. She is a force to be reckoned with and I applaud her for sharing her painful upbringing, humanizing immigration and shedding the light on America's need for inclusivity.
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Good read!

It was such a good book to read and very detailed.
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Provides important insight to the plight of immigrants

Moving description of the life of Mexican immigrant families. Told through the eyes of a daughter. Provides insight into the fear and uncertainty undocumented people live with.
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Wonderful and important story

This was a wonderful surprise, and such an important story. I loved the evolution of Diane’s voice as the story grew, but the best thing about this book isn’t style, tone, narrative skill, etc. - it is the shocking but incredibly timely and critical truth about the modern-day US, and an unimaginable experience that, Diane reminds us all, happens to far too many people in our country every single day.
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strong woman with a story everyone should be aware of

Liked her 'first person' narrative of a time that had to be much more difficult than most people will ever experience.
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One of my favorite books.

I really enjoyed this book.. great choice!!