Mama, Do You Love Me?
Mama, Do You Love Me? book cover

Mama, Do You Love Me?

Hardcover – Picture Book, January 1, 1992

Price
$5.87
Format
Hardcover
Pages
32
Publisher
Chronicle Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0877017592
Dimensions
9 x 0.38 x 9.88 inches
Weight
12.4 ounces

Description

-- SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL, Starred Review A young girl asks how much her mother loves her, even when she is naughty, and receives warm, reassuring answers. The twist on this familiar theme is that the two are Inuits, and the text and pictures draw on their unique culture: "What if I put salmon in your parka, ermine in your mittens, and lemmings in your mukluks?" asks the girl. Two pages of back matter define and explain the functions of various terms in Inuit life past and present. Charming, vibrant watercolor illustrations expand the simple rhythmic text, adding to the characters' personalities and to the cultural information. Ceremonial masks appear in the corner of several pages and on the endpapers, a nice detail in a well-designed book. -- THE HORN BOOK MAGAZINE, November 1991 "Mama, do you love me?" Every child in the world wants a reassuring answer, including this small Inuit girl in long-ago northern Alaska. In a series of questions and answers reminiscent of Margaret Wise Brown's The Runaway Bunny (Harper), the child uses her imagination to test her mother's love. The answer is always a positive one, but the mother is also honest. " 'What if I put salmon in your parka, ermine in your mittens, and lemmings in your mukluks?' 'Then I would be angry.' 'What if I threw water at our lamp?' 'Then, Dear One, I would be very angry. But still, I would love you.'" The whale-oil lamp is pictured clearly, and its importance is explained in the two-page glossary at the end of the book: "The lamp in an Inuit home was never left untended because it was such a vital part of daily survival." The rounded, stylized watercolors are brightly appealing, full of humor and love. The small challenger stands with her hands on her hips looking way up at the tall, broad mother who has her hands on her hips; in another picture there is a huge hug which encompasses mother, girl, and doll in a mass of variously flowered dress fabric and black braids. The book is a beautiful combination of a rich culture and a universal theme. -- PUBLISHERS WEEKLY, August 1991 "Yes I do, Dear One," answers the mother whose daughter asks her the question posed in the book's title. And how long will she love her child? "I will love you until the umiak flies into the darkness, till the stars turn to fish in the sky, and the puffin howls at the moon," responds the mother soothingly, employing images familiar to the Inuit people of Northern Alaska where this Iyrical story is set. Echoing the simplicity of Joosee's verse are Lavallee's stylized illustrations, which convey the austerity of the arctic landscape while depicting the bright, intricate patterns and textures of Inuit garb. A glossary of terms used in the text is included at the end of this striking volume, which uses a timeless culture to convey a timeless message. -- PARENTS, December 1991 In a story reminiscent of the classic Ruraway Bunny, a child tests her mother's love: "What if I ran away?" she asks. "Then I would be worried," her mother answers."What if I turned into a polar bear, and I was the meanest bear you ever saw...and you cried?" says the girl. "Then I would be very surprised and very scared But still...I would love you" comes the reassuring reply. The arctic setting adds an intriguing dimension to a universal story. This Book is a beautiful combination of a rich culture and a universal theme. The Horn Book California's Children's Book Award Barbara Joosse is a full-time writer and mother. She lives with her family in a little stone house in Wisconsin. Ms. Joosse has a degree in journalism, but for the past 19 years she has devoted her time and talents to writing nearly twenty books for childrBarbara Lavallee lives in Alaska. Her vibrant watercolor illustrations are well-known for their depictions of a wide range of Alaskan life.

Features & Highlights

  • Mama, do you love me? Yes I do Dear One. How much?
  • In this universal story, a child tests the limits of independence and comfortingly learns that a parent's love is unconditional and everlasting. The story is made all the more captivating by its unusual Arctic setting. The lyrical text introduces young readers to a distinctively different culture, while at the same time showing that the special love that exists between parent and child transcends all boundaries of time and place. The story is beautifully complemented by graphically stunning illustrations that are filled with such exciting animals as whales, wolves, puffins, and sled dogs, and a carefully researched glossary provides additional information on Arctic life. This tender and reassuring book is one that both parents and children will turn to again and again.

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Great Message, Great Book

This story focuses on one simple question that every child thinks at one point or another. The question is whether their parents will always love them no matter what the child does. This story confirms for children young and old, that no matter what they do, their parents (mama) will still love them.
The story is delightfully told from the perspective of the Intuit culture. The mischief the child creates deals with things that are unique to that culture such as accidentally dropping ptarmigan eggs, spilling the oil in the family's lamp, slipping an emrine in mama's mukluks or turning into a Walrus. My son and I enjoy talking about how different cultures live and what they believe and this book has started some fun conversations.
I believe the story does not prompt children into asking the "wrong" question as mentioned in other reviews. The story promotes the idea of a parent's love and acceptance no matter what their little hellion does and does it with a wonderful story and captivating artwork. This has become one of our favorite books.
33 people found this helpful
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Wonderful for early reading skills

This book is a favorite! My daughter (now five) loves to hear it over and over again. Since all the words are spoken dialog, I read the mother's lines and she says the daughter's lines. When she was younger, she merely recited the words from memory. Now that she is starting to read, I point to the words as she says them and she looks at the words, too. She is starting to recognize words from the book when she sees them elsewhere.
I also use the story to reinforce my own unconditional love for her. When she is doing something purposefully naughty, I'll say, "Katie, are you putting lemmings in my mukluks?" This usually generates a big grin as she realizes she is being just as silly as the little girl in the story - and that I love her just as much as the mommy in the story!
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Great book! Compares favorably to Runaway Bunny

Very sweet book. A better, less creepy message than “The Runaway Bunny” or “Love You Forever” but a similar vein. This is a conversation between a mother and her child about whether the mom will still love her if various things happen- being naughty, making mistakes, running away, turning into creatures. Whereas Runaway Bunny has a mother who will always chase and catch and find her child, even if they want some space, the message of this book is that the mother will always love her child, no matter what happens. 3 year old likes it, and so do I. The cadence of the words is comforting, there isn’t too much text, and the beautiful cool toned illustrations match the Arctic/Inuit theme and are very soothing before bed. A plus is that this story features indigenous people of color and also educates with an informational section about Inuit culture and animals at the end (though my kid is not yet interested in that section).
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Well written and illustrated.

My daughter loved this book as a child and so do I. It represents unconditional love of a mother to a child. She is now grown up at 23 I found this on amazon. Got the hard cover and presented it to her with some of my words . She teared up and was certainly surprised. Mama do you love me!!! Mamas will love till eternity .
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Lovely read and artwork..

Such a beautiful story and the artwork is beyond awesome!! I taught school among the Yupik Eskimos and can attest to the wonder of this book. I bought it for a friend who just had a little boy and she said it was a really lovely read. Get the hardcover as you will want to keep it forever....
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Love and discipline can co-exist.

There are a few things that are universal. These things are so primal that they are a paradigm across cultures.... actually across species. The unconditional bond of love that exists between mother and child is one of those paradigms. The essence of this book is - All mothers love their children unconditionally and all children go through insecurity when it comes to love and acceptance.

Portrayed in this book is an Inuit mother and her daughter. The Inuit are the indigenous people of Alaska, Canada and the Arctic, basically the northwestern belt of the North American continent.

The child asks her mother a simple question, `Mamma, do you love me?' and the mother replies in the affirmative. The child is still not satisfied with a simple `Yes dear'. Also the mother-child love is neither quantifiable nor objective. So the child proceeds to ask her mother how much and for how long she loves her. The child is still not satisfied with her mother's answers. So she gives her mother scenarios. The child asks her mother if she would love her inspite of the intentional and accidental mischief on the child's part. The book ends with the mother swinging the child and saying, `I will love you forever and always, because you are my Dear One.'

When you are a primary care provider for a young child, there is a melting pot of emotions involved. There is love, happiness, pride, anger, frustration, doubt, sadness, guilt, a sense of responsibility ... enough material to write volumes of books. The thinking that children must be happy ALL THE TIME mires parents many a times. This leads to guilt when the child is unhappy. What parents must realize is that children learn by pushing limits, by testing and that they need to experience all emotions within a safe and loving environment.

Like in this book, when the child breaks ptarmigan eggs by accident, the mother tells the child that she is sorry that the eggs broke, but she understands that this was an accident and reassures the child that she still loves her. The child asks the mother what the mother would do if she extinguished the lamp by purposefully throwing water on the lamp. Imagine the cold, snowy, unforgiving Arctic where people are at the mercy of nature's elements. Fire is simply not a luxury, it sometimes defines the existence of human life. In this situation if the child pours water on purpose, it is perfectly okay to tell the child though you love her dearly, this behavior is unacceptable and that you are VERY angry. It would make the child sad and insecure, but one simply cannot indulge the child just to keep the child happy. By telling the child that you are angry, you are giving the child a life lesson.

Every book has one element that appeals to its readers. What appealed to me is, `one does not have to act happy to make their child feel loved. You can be truthful to your child and still make him/her feel loved.'

Both the author and the illustrator have worked hard to capture the essence of the Inuit culture. Living in the snow means that sometimes you are cut off from civilization for long periods of time and that you must learn how to sustain yourself. You can see that the mother is making dolls and weaving baskets. What you need, you learn to make from scratch with what little scrap that is available!

I could go on an on, but I will be giving out everything and strip you all of the pleasure of making your own discoveries. So check out this book and tell us what you think about it.
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If you buy one book for a youngster, this is the one!

Beautifully illustrated and written. I first found this story in Alaska soon after it was written and have given it as a gift several times to children and prospective parents. It is always a big hit. A true classic that will make you laugh and fill you with love!
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One of my all time favorite books to give to new parents

This is such a beautifully written and drawn book with such an important lesson of being able to hold two emotions at the same time. Encourages a good conversation about feelings and security.
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No matter what, Mama loves

I first saw this book when I lived in Alaska and from the first line I found it uplifting and beautiful. The concept is simple, no matter what I child, or young person may do in life, no matter the troubles that may befall, Mother will love without reservation. This is not only a wonderful book for a children's library, it is great for anyone who has ever held the trust of a child. Love - unconditionally.
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Love this litte book

One day my daughter asked me "Do you love me?" I and told her that I did, that there is nothing she will ever do or say that would make me stop loving her (ps - she hadn't gotten into trouble). We ofter read together, and I saw this book and thought it would be a great book and good way to open the conversation of how much I really love her, but she should really understand that some things will not be tolerated. So if you child should ask this question or not, this is a good read.
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