Meeting Your Half-Orange: An Utterly Upbeat Guide to Using Dating Optimism to Find Your Perfect Match
Meeting Your Half-Orange: An Utterly Upbeat Guide to Using Dating Optimism to Find Your Perfect Match book cover

Meeting Your Half-Orange: An Utterly Upbeat Guide to Using Dating Optimism to Find Your Perfect Match

Hardcover – Bargain Price, January 12, 2010

Price
$52.02
Format
Hardcover
Pages
240
Publisher
Running Press
Publication Date
Dimensions
8.68 x 6.08 x 0.73 inches
Weight
12.8 ounces

Description

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide and Getting the Love You Want "This is a book of hope helping those looking for their other half move from pessimism to hope and from fantasy to reality. A must read for singles looking for love.” Jillian Michaels, fitness trainer on NBC’s The Biggest Loser and bestselling author of Master Your Metabolism “IF YOU’RE SINGLE, drop everything and read this book. It will completely change dating for you as you know it. I can work out your body, but Amy will get your love life in shape!” Harper’s Bazaar , February 2010 "Disillusioned by dating? Meeting Your Half-Orange is the ultimate pep talk.” Glamour , March 2010 “Tear up your old list for your ideal mate, says Amy Spencer, author of the new book Meeting Your Half-Orange . Forget the superficial musts . . . and focus on how you want to feel in the relationship.” Cosmopolitan U.K. , February 2010 " Meeting Your Half-Orange by Amy Spencer is a dating guide with a difference.” Laurie Sandell, author of The Impostor’s Daughter “I could not put this book down. Amy Spencer cuts through the scrap heap of self-help literature with a guide to life that is so joyful—so utterly helpful—you can consolidate that library into one. Women and men looking for love, meet your new guru.” Star magazine, February 8, 2010 “Just in time for Valentine’s Day comes this upbeat book from relationship expert Amy Spencer. She thinks there’s a Mr. Right, or half-orange, for everyone, and the only way to find him is by being yourself. Sounds tasty!” Actress Diane Farr, Californication and Rescue Me “Where the heck was this book when I was single? It would have saved me years of frustration! I’ll be recommending Meeting Your Half-Orange to every ‘single’ person I know.” Joanna Bober, magazine editor “I feel like Amy is absolutely hitting on every issue that spins around in the brain of a single woman, even the ones that I couldn’t explain to myself. This book is a gift to women.” BookPage , February 2010 “In Meeting Your Half-Orange , Amy Spencer helps singles harness the power of optimism to find their other halves. If your glass is empty . . . you may be the person who needs it most.” Skirt! Boston , January 21, 2010 “If you're constantly looking for love, stop the search, and pick up Amy Spencer's new dating guide Meeting Your Half-Orange . This optimistic and unique take on relationships and what we truly want in our other-halves is unlike your typical "go seek our Mr. Right" self-help book. Instead, Spencer advocates for establishing yourself as an individual and learning to accept yourself for who you are, rather than transforming to cater to the needs of a potential boyfriend.” Sirens magazine, February 16, 2010 “Snaps to Spencer for putting ‘upbeat’ right there in the title. Nearly every other dating book screams at women with phrases such as ‘find love now!’ or ‘stop making dumb mistakes!’ This text—half memoir, half advice book—takes the perspective of an honest, encouraging friend who’s been there.” Amy Spencer is a relationship expert who writes for Glamour , Harper’s Bazaar , Page Six Magazine , Cosmopolitan , Match.com, and others, and the former host of the relationship call-in advice show Sex Files on Sirius Satellite Radio’s Maxim channel. She lives in Venice, CA, with her own “half-orange.”

Features & Highlights

  • How would you like to have a wonderfully well-suited, kind, adoring half-orange who feels like a teammate, a partner in crime, a true other half? “Half-Orange” refers to the Spanish term
  • mi media naranja
  • , which describes one’s sweetheart, that perfect other half. What if you heard he or she would be coming along soon? Would you be relieved? Excited? Happy? Well those are the feelings that dating optimism can give you. Rather than admonishing readers to make themselves more available, or turn dating into a full-time job, Spencer's program of dating optimism is a fun, results-oriented way to find a healthy happy relationship, based on brain science and psychology that can help you become a more positive dater. She'll guide you through sowing the orange seed of your ideal relationship and growing it to “fruit-ion.” In essence, by focusing positively about dating, you can actually change your brain, which changes everything from your body language to the way you perceive others and what you ultimately attract.
  • Meeting Your Half-Orange
  • is the pep talk that puts finding true love back into your own hands. It will guide you toward becoming so focused on the relationship you want and so happy in your own skin, the right person will be naturally drawn straight to you. You’ve never read a dating guide like this before. But best of all, it will be the last one you’ll ever need.

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Just want it.

Tired of finding all the lemons in the dating world? Then, you might want to pick this juicy book off the tree of dating self-help books. It's a refreshing pick, for sure, and it'll likely quench your thirst for a satisfying relationship--or in the very least, for an entertaining and uplifting read.

The approach in this book focuses on "dating optimism"--the belief that what you focus on and think about is ultimately what you attract. Changing your thoughts results in changes your brain, body, perceptions of the world, and in what you attract. So, in a nutshell, if you focus on being the best person you can be, you'll ultimately attract the best relationship you can have.

And how exactly will this magical relationship happen? Amy's quick answer to that one is: "It's not your job to figure out how to make it happen. It's your job to want it." But, in case you want a little more guidance, she offers this five-step approach to dating optimism:
1. Believe you can have it.
2. Admit you want it, to yourself and others.
3. Visualize, and imagine feeling yourself in the relationship you want.
4. Openly hope for it like you've never hoped for anything before.
5. Live your happy life.

The fun conversational style of this book is effective: it not only provides easy-to-drink-in inspiration and support for meeting your half-orange, but it also effectively delivers juicy bites from the emerging field of positive psychology.

You can even approach this book as the author recommends you approach your dates: be curious, learn from it, and allow it to help you pinpoint what you really want (and don't!) in a relationship. In the end, you'll be better off than you were in the beginning...whether or not you've found your half-orange (yet).

And, in the worse-case scenario, if you can't figure out how to be with the one you (want to) love, you'll be better able to love the one you're with: yourself. (How's that for dating optimism?)
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Good tips

Good tips, interesting ideas.
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so good

This book was so enlightening.Not only good advice about what to do for your romantic life but also everyday life.