Rethinking Possible: A Memoir of Resilience
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Rethinking Possible: A Memoir of Resilience

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2017 USA Best Book Awards Finalist in Health: General 2018 National Indie Excellence Awards Finalist in Inspirational 2018 National Indie Excellence Awards Finalist in New Fiction 2019 Eric Hoffer Award Finalist in Montaigne Medal 2019 Chanticleer JOURNEY Book Awards Semi-Finalist in Narrative Non-Fiction and Memoir "In her poignant and courageous book, Galli pulls no punches. Rage, tears, frustrations, denial, and doubts spill from the pages through articulate, conversational prose. She shares the intimate complexities of her new reality--bathroom complications, the dangers of unfelt skin abrasions, and mysterious pains where there are no other sensations. Acceptance was slow in coming, but fierce determination lifts the narrative tone: 'Life isn't about what you've lost, but about what you've learned--and what you do with what you have left.' A touchingly honest and thought-provoking account that focuses on resilience." -- Kirkus Reviews With a wealth of compassion and insight, Becky Galli tells her memorable and inspiring story. She is nothing short of amazing and Rethinking Possible counts the many ways this is true. --Jill McCorkle, Author of New York Times bestseller Life After Life Inspiring despite its tragedies, Rethinking Possible is thoughtful memoir that resonates with acceptance, determination, and love, serving as a gentle reminder that you may not be able to choose your circumstances, but you can always choose your attitude. --Foreword Reviews You couldn't tear me away from her memoir, and when my family members found out more about it, they looked at me like I was a sadist. What they didn't get is Galli's story is not just about tallying up tragedy, nor is it a pity party on paper, it's an incredible story about her belief in family and what it is to love unconditionally. It's inspiring because it's heartbreaking...The beauty of this memoir is how we get to witness the author's healing and recovery -- all in one book. -- Book Club Babble "Best Books of 2017" (Maribel Garcia) "Forthright, honest, and bold, Galli tells a story that could be so easily overwhelming or sentimental, with such grace and elegance and clarity, I could not stop reading once I began. Good humor, kindness, and love shine off of every page." --Heather Sellers, author of You Don't Look Like Anyone I Know "Becky lives a different life than most of us and does it with the same graciousness, strength, passion, doubts and power we all envision having. Rethinking Possible is a quick read that delivers a powerful message for those who stop and listen." --Cristina Sadowsky MD, Kennedy Krieger Institute, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, former physician, Christopher Reeves "Becky's memoir had me turning the pages and going to my desk late each morning, so I could read one more chapter with my coffee. Becky writes with incredible frankness and clarity." --Lisa Manterfield "I love reading memoir, particularly stories of transformation, faith, and redemption, and this book has aspects of all three." --Marry Potter Kenyon, Story Circle Book Reviews --This text refers to the paperback edition. 2017 USA Best Book Awards Finalist in Health: General 2018 National Indie Excellence Awards Finalist in Inspirational 2018 National Indie Excellence Awards Finalist in New Fiction 2019 Eric Hoffer Award Finalist in Montaigne Medal 2019 Chanticleer JOURNEY Book Awards Semi-Finalist in Narrative Non-Fiction and Memoir “In her poignant and courageous book, Galli pulls no punches. Rage, tears, frustrations, denial, and doubts spill from the pages through articulate, conversational prose. She shares the intimate complexities of her new reality―bathroom complications, the dangers of unfelt skin abrasions, and mysterious pains where there are no other sensations. Acceptance was slow in coming, but fierce determination lifts the narrative tone: 'Life isn’t about what you’ve lost, but about what you’ve learned―and what you do with what you have left.’ A touchingly honest and thought-provoking account that focuses on resilience.” ― Kirkus Reviews "With a wealth of compassion and insight, Becky Galli tells her memorable and inspiring story. She is nothing short of amazing and Rethinking Possible counts the many ways this is true." ―Jill McCorkle, Author of New York Times bestseller Life After Life "Inspiring despite its tragedies, Rethinking Possible is thoughtful memoir that resonates with acceptance, determination, and love, serving as a gentle reminder that you may not be able to choose your circumstances, but you can always choose your attitude." ―Foreword Reviews "You couldn’t tear me away from her memoir, and when my family members found out more about it, they looked at me like I was a sadist. What they didn’t get is Galli’s story is not just about tallying up tragedy, nor is it a pity party on paper, it’s an incredible story about her belief in family and what it is to love unconditionally. It’s inspiring because it’s heartbreaking...The beauty of this memoir is how we get to witness the author’s healing and recovery ― all in one book." ― Book Club Babble “Best Books of 2017” (Maribel Garcia) “Forthright, honest, and bold, Galli tells a story that could be so easily overwhelming or sentimental, with such grace and elegance and clarity, I could not stop reading once I began. Good humor, kindness, and love shine off of every page.” ―Heather Sellers, author of You Don’t Look Like Anyone I Know “Becky lives a different life than most of us and does it with the same graciousness, strength, passion, doubts and power we all envision having. Rethinking Possible is a quick read that delivers a powerful message for those who stop and listen.” ―Cristina Sadowsky MD, Kennedy Krieger Institute, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, former physician, Christopher Reeves “Becky’s memoir had me turning the pages and going to my desk late each morning, so I could read one more chapter with my coffee. Becky writes with incredible frankness and clarity.” ―Lisa Manterfield “I love reading memoir, particularly stories of transformation, faith, and redemption, and this book has aspects of all three.” ―Marry Potter Kenyon, Story Circle Book Reviews --This text refers to the paperback edition. Rethinking Possible is about living fully in the life you didn't plan.™ I wrote the book in hopes that it would be a book of encouragement to those who may have loved deeply and lost dearly, to those struggling to adjust after life-changing loss, or who may be having a hard time getting through one of life's inevitable rough patches. Life can still be good. Keep "rethinking possible," no matter what. --This text refers to the paperback edition. Rebecca Faye Smith Galli (Becky) is an author and weekly columnist who lives in Baltimore, Maryland and writes about love, loss, and healing. A Morehead-Cain Scholar at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Becky was employed by IBM, where she was the recipient of the Golden Circle award for marketing excellence. Surviving significant losses―her seventeen-year-old brother's death; her son's degenerative disease and subsequent death; her daughter's autism; her divorce; and nine days later, her paralysis from transverse myelitis, a rare spinal cord inflammation that began as the flu―that have fostered an unexpected but prolific writing career. In 2000, The Baltimore Sun published her first column about playing soccer with her son―from the wheelchair. Fifteen years later, with 400 published columns and a completed memoir, she launched "Thoughtful Thursdays―Lessons from a Resilient Heart" - a weekly column for her subscriber family that shares what's inspired her to stay positive. She also periodically contributes to The Baltimore Sun's Op-Ed page, Midlife Boulevard, Nanahood, and The Mighty . Join her Thoughtful Thursdays family at beckygalli.com/signup. --This text refers to the paperback edition. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Becky Galli was born into a family that valued the power of having a plan. With a pastor father and a stay-at-home mother, her 1960s southern upbringing was bucolic—even enviable. But when her brother, only seventeen, died in a waterskiing accident, the slow unraveling of her perfect family began. Though grief overwhelmed the family, twenty-year-old Galli forged onward with her life plans—marriage, career, and raising a family of her own—one she hoped would be as idyllic as the family she once knew. But life had less than ideal plans in store. There was her son’s degenerative, undiagnosed disease and subsequent death; followed by her daughter’s autism diagnosis; her separation; and then, nine days after the divorce was final, the onset of the transverse myelitis that would leave Galli paralyzed from the waist down. Despite such unspeakable tragedy, Galli maintained her belief in family, in faith, in loving unconditionally, and in learning to not only accept, but also embrace a life that had veered down a path far different from the one she had envisioned. At once heartbreaking and inspiring,
  • Rethinking Possible
  • is a story about the power of love over loss and the choices we all make that shape our lives —especially when forced to confront the unimaginable.

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A deeply affecting story that will stay with me for a long, long time. FIVE ADMIRING STARS!

I'm struggling to find words to describe this incredible book. Stunning, heart-wrenching, engrossing, agonizing, uplifting, depressing, compelling . . . the list goes on, but I still cannot adequately express this story's effect on me. The "I couldn't put it down" comment is often used in book reviews, but in this case it's absolutely true--I could not stop reading this book! It reads like a novel and its "plot" is better than most novels, but the fact that it's true is just amazing. How could so many tragedies happen to one person? And how could that person not only survive, but find the courage and resilience to go on? I am in AWE of Rebecca Smith Galli!

Still, I can't help feeling that she was fortunate to belong to an affluent family, able to afford dozens of nannies and caregivers, ongoing treatments and residential care, handicapped accessible homes and van, Caribbean cruises and other trips, etc. A handicapped single mother in financially limited circumstances might find it a bit more difficult to "rethink the possible" as she struggles to provide for herself and her special needs children. This is not a criticism in any way--just an observation. I know Becky is thankful for the help she received.

I won't summarize this book, because nothing should spoil this story. Just read the book description and place this at the very top of your "to be read" list. I'm so glad I took the time to read Becky's beautifully written account of love, loss and survival. This is one that will stay with me for a long, long time.
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Overcoming and not letting it get you down

I chose my rating because here is a woman who lost her brother 1st , then her dad, then her mom and her son in the same day. While she is paralyzed doing what she can for her family. And dirvorce from her husband. And still have faith in God. Not blaming God for nothing. She overcome alot!
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Great Inspiration

Very interesting and heart breaking. The courage and determination to have a good life in spite of such hardships is mind boggling. And I learned a lot about people's obstacles in wheel chairs. My prayers go out to Becky and her family.
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Blessings and challenges

As a memoir writer myself, I'm always looking for real stories of perseverance and inspiration. Galli delivers. Life hands her one heartbreak after another, and she faces them with a mix of sensitivity and fortitude. She is both blessed and challenged by the complexities of her family. A beautifully told story!
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