Slow Dancing with a Stranger: Lost and Found in the Age of Alzheimer's
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Slow Dancing with a Stranger: Lost and Found in the Age of Alzheimer's

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“Riveting and necessary.” -- New York Times “An unflinching and intimate account...conveys a sense of passion and even frustration with a society that [Comer] believes has been slow to acknowledge the spread of Alzheimer’s disease or make adequate provisions to tend to its caregivers.” -- Washington Post Alzheimer’s disease is a slow killer of the health and spirit of the caregiver- the secondary victim. Comer’s pain is contained in elegant writing and channeled into a worthy purpose. This book is a call to action as haunting and urgent as Rachel Carson’s Silent Spring . -- Gail Sheehy , author of Passages in Caregiving and DARING: My Passages “In an unvarnished account of caring for a husband with dementia, Meryl Comer lays out the struggles and gallantry of a devoted and remarkable caregiver.” -- Peter V. Rabins, M.D., MPH, Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, author of The 36-Hour Day “No silver linings, no phony homages to ‘spiritual growth.’ Meryl Comer writes the unvarnished reality of being exposed as a wife, daughter, caregiver, and potential Alzheimer’s victim herself. Admire her bravery and honesty and applaud her for taking away some of the loneliness of the long distance caregiver.” -- Ellen Goodman , Pulitzer Prize winning, nationally syndicated columnist and author of Turning Points to Value Judgments and Paper Trail: Common Sense in Uncommon Times “ Slow Dancing With a Stranger is a remarkable and moving story that will change the way our generation thinks about how we deal with aging and caring for those we love. An amazing journey of caring, love, and resilience.” -- Tom Rath, bestselling author of StrengthsFinder 2.0, How Full Is Your Bucket?, Strengths Based Leadership, and Eat Move Sleep This story is real. Meryl and Harvey are real. I don’t know what it’s going to take to wake the public up to this emerging catastrophe, but I suspect that emotional honesty is a key ingredient. Thank you, Meryl Comer, for telling it exactly like it is. -- David Shenk , author of The Forgetting and creator of the Living with Alzheimer's Film Project“Meryl Comer in Slow Dancing with a Stranger unveils Alzheimer’s Disease in a remarkable and vulnerable way. Her personal story provides knowledge, inspiration and hope to us all. Her heroism jumps out from the pages and hopefully will motivate generations to make a difference against this horrible disease.” -- David B. Agus, M.D., Professor of Medicine and Engineering, University of Southern California and author of The End of Illness and A Short Guide to a Long Life .“Comer received the Sargent and Eunice Shriver Profiles in Dignity Award in 2004, for her work as a dedicated advocate and remarkable, decade-long caregiver. Fast forward a decade later. In Slow Dancing With A Stranger , Meryl shows what it truly means to stay the course.” -- Mark K. Shriver , Senior Vice President, Save the Children and author of A Good Man: Rediscovering My Father, Sargent Shriver “Meryl is a trailblazer in every aspect of Alzheimer’s and it shines through in this wonderful new book chronicling her long and winding journey with this devastating disease.” -- Dr. Rudy Tanzi , New York Times Bestselling author of Super Brain and Joseph P. and Rose F. Kennedy Professor of Neurology, Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School --This text refers to the paperback edition. From New York Times bestselling author, Emmy award–winning broadcast journalist, and leading Alzheimer’s advocate Meryl Comer comes a profoundly intimate account of her husband’s battle with Alzheimer’s disease, one of today’s most pressing—and least understood—health epidemics. One hundred percent of the proceeds from Slow Dancing with a Stranger will support Alzheimer’s research. --This text refers to the paperback edition. Meryl Comer is an Emmy award–winning reporter, veteran TV producer, and business talk show host. She is president and CEO of the Geoffrey Beene Foundation Alzheimer's Initiative, which promotes early diagnosis, innovation, and national public service campaigns like Geoffrey Beene's Rock Stars of Science™ and the 2009 HBO Alzheimer's Project. A co-founder of WomenAgainstAlzheimer's, she is a recipient of the 2005 Shriver Profi les in Dignity Award and the 2007 Proxmire Award. Comer has been the subject of prime time news stories by ABC's Nightline and the PBS NewsHour with Jim Lehrer . --This text refers to the paperback edition. From the Inside Flap From New York Times bestselling author, Emmy award-winning broadcast journalist, and leading Alzheimer's advocate Meryl Comer comes a profoundly intimate account of her husband's battle with Alzheimer's disease, one of today's most pressing--and least understood--health epidemics. One hundred percent of the proceeds from Slow Dancing with a Stranger will support Alzheimer's research. -- Peter V. Rabins, M.D., MPH, Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, author of The 36-Hour Day --This text refers to an alternate kindle_edition edition. Read more

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  • New York Times
  • Bestseller
  • Emmy-award winning broadcast journalist and leading Alzheimer’s advocate Meryl Comer’s
  • Slow Dancing With a Stranger
  • is a profoundly personal, unflinching account of her husband’s battle with Alzheimer’s disease that serves as a much-needed wake-up call to better understand and address a progressive and deadly affliction.
  • When Meryl Comer’s husband Harvey Gralnick was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease in 1996, she watched as the man who headed hematology and oncology research at the National Institutes of Health started to misplace important documents and forget clinical details that had once been cataloged encyclopedically in his mind. With harrowing honesty, she brings readers face to face with this devastating condition and its effects on its victims and those who care for them. Detailing the daily realities and overwhelming responsibilities of caregiving, Comer sheds intensive light on this national health crisis, using her personal experiences—the mistakes and the breakthroughs—to put a face to a misunderstood disease, while revealing the facts everyone needs to know.
  • Pragmatic and relentless, Meryl has dedicated herself to fighting Alzheimer’s and raising public awareness. “Nothing I do is really about me; it’s all about making sure no one ends up like me,” she writes. Deeply personal and illuminating,
  • Slow Dancing With a Stranger
  • offers insight and guidance for navigating Alzheimer’s challenges. It is also an urgent call to action for intensive research and a warning that we must prepare for the future, instead of being controlled by a disease and a healthcare system unable to fight it.

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Sad, but true

Meryl was a tough cookie to hang in there for so many years. However I can't believe she could not find an acceptable nursing home. having lived this journey for 10 years with my mother, I found there comes a time when a carefully selected facility really can provide the better option. I pray the research finds a cure before it's my turn!
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I try to be unemotional when he asks questions like "I have not seen my dad lately

I just finished reading this book, it is so very true. My husband has this awful illness and at times I was in tears reliving some of the incidents Meryl mentions. I am lucky as my husband does not have a tendency to be physical and believe he is weak enough now that he could not be. I try to be unemotional when he asks questions like "I have not seen my dad lately, where is he" or sometimes he tells me he is worried because he has not seen his wife in weeks. I just say the "I am right here" and he seems okay. Had someone mention that his hands were shaking and he became angry, and believe he knows something is wrong but does not want anyone pointing it out. Meryl it is an excellent book and can relate to your pain, we were fortunate that we bought long term health care insurance so during the day he goes to adult day care and I have a person in the home to help bathe him, it takes a lot off of my plate and I can spend the quality time with him.
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The power of love and perseverance

Thank you Meryl Comer for this incredible book of your long and arduous odyssey with
Alzheimer's disease! I could not put this book down!
Your love of family, unconditionally, is inspirational! Your intelligence and determination to foster change in understanding this illness and finding effective treatment is amazing!
This book is so important for families, friends health care providers, researchers, and anyone who cares about making a difference in this world!
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Good read and I am very interested in this subject

Good read and I am very interested in this subject. A little too much talk about the different organizations she worked for but a good book and well written.
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Beautiful and brutal honesty

Comer's courage in writing this book earns the highest rating possible. I wanted to stop reading when it got personal, but could not because their story is too important. I hope her beautiful, agonizing account will raise awareness. Thank you.
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As a person who is the caretaker of someone who ...

As a person who is the caretaker of someone who is in the beginning stages of this disease it was an emotional journey, but helped prepare me for the future with my partner.Thank you for publishing this book I know it will help many others.
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Decent Read

While I found the book interesting and well written and I can appreciate her stamina and loyalty, I’m not so sure I’d be willing to take all of that on under the circumstances. While brilliant and concerned for his patients, Harvey came across as a selfish and not very likable​ person as a spouse even prior to his diagnosis. It always amazes me what people do in the name of love. He really didn’t deserve her.
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excellent!!

excellent!!! for those of us who have or have had a loved one with alzheimers, the story tells what we have all endured, and how more has to be done for the caregiver.
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The Journey is Long and Painful - It Can Be Faced with Dignity

This is an important, informative book on life as a caregiver. Being in the middle of the same situation this book really helped me see where this path is taking us. I congratulate Meryl Comer for her strength and dignity in the face of an ugly situation, and her courage in writing about her struggles. Her love and devotion to her husband long after a most caregivers would give up is commendable. Meryl, thank you for your insight into the journey that is Alzheimer's.