The Abstinence Teacher
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The Abstinence Teacher

Hardcover – International Edition, October 16, 2007

Price
$10.64
Format
Hardcover
Pages
368
Publisher
Random House Canada
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0307356369
Dimensions
5.8 x 1.4 x 8.5 inches
Weight
1 pounds

Description

Praise for Tom Perrotta and Little Children :A New York Times , Los Angeles Times , USA Today , San Francisco Chronicle , Boston Globe and BookSense bestseller:"Extraordinary . . . at once suspenseful, ruefully funny, and ultimately generous."— The New York Times Book Review "Perrotta is that rare writer equally gifted at drawing people’s emotional maps . . . and creating sidesplitting scenes. Suburban comedies don’t come any sharper."— People "A virtuoso set of overlapping character studies."— The Washington Post "A precise and witty evocation of the sweet, mind-numbing routines and everyday marital conflicts . . . an effervescent new work."— Entertainment Weekly "Perrotta wisely refuses to condescend to the world he satirizes, and his masterful perspective provides the reader with a breezy omniscience over the characters’ failures in life. The book is disarmingly funny but rueful . . . a brave novel."— Esquire "…has the same unputdownable quality as Little Children ."— New York Magazine "Sex education, soccer and Christian fundamentalism make strange bedfellows in Perrotta's shrewd yet compassionate fifth novel…Ruefully humorous and tenderly understanding of human folly: the most mature, accomplished work yet from this deservedly bestselling author."— Kirkus Reviews "Tom Perrotta knows his suburbia, and in The Abstinence Teacher he carves out an even larger chunk of his distinct terrain…The book is rife with Perrotta's subtle and satiric humor."— Publishers Weekly "Perrotta deals with timely issues by having characters from different camps forced to confront one another. What results from these civilized exchanges, which feel so human in their complexity and confusion, is a more personal, inside view of how such tensions play out."— Library Journal Tom Perrotta is the author of five previous works of fiction: Bad Haircut , The Wishbones , Election , and the New York Times bestselling Joe College and Little Children . Election was made into the acclaimed 1999 movie directed by Alexander Payne and starring Matthew Broderick and Reese Witherspoon. Little Children was released as a movie directed by Todd Field and starring Kate Winslet and Jennifer Connelly in 2006. Perrotta lives outside of Boston, Massachusetts.

Features & Highlights

  • “Some people enjoy it.”That was all Ruth had said. Even now, when she’d had months to come to terms with the fallout from this remark, she still marveled at the power of those four words, which she’d uttered without premeditation and without any sense of treading on forbidden ground.
  • (p. 11)
  • Thanks to an off-hand remark made during a class discussion of oral sex, sex-ed teacher Ruth Ramsey finds herself a target of the Christian evangelicals who are increasingly influencing the schoolboard of suburban Stonewood Heights. Forced to attend remedial sessions with a smug “Virginity Consultant,” Ruth is isolated and alone, caught in the polarized red-versus-blue landscape of present-day American suburbia. It’s like “living in a horror movie,” she thinks, “
  • The Invasion of the Body Snatchers
  • , or something. You never knew who they were going to get to next.” Divorced and sharing custody of her daughters with her ex, and sometimes attempting a futile date, Ruth spends many a lonely weekend wondering how her bleak existence came to be.Then one morning at her daughter’s soccer game, Ruth meets Tim Mason, a cute forty-something volunteer coach. Ruth feels an instant attraction to Tim, but when he draws the girls together for a spontaneous prayer circle after the game, she angrily yanks her daughter away from the proceedings, placing herself once again in the sights of the evangelicals.But Ruth has another unexpected problem: she can’t seem to get a handle on Tim, her supposed adversary, who keeps appearing at her front door. A recovering addict whose bottoming-out cost him his home and his marriage, Tim found his way to the Tabernacle of the Gospel Truth through the intervention of Pastor Dennis, the charismatic preacher who put Tim’s shattered life back together in an approximation of happiness. Thanks to Pastor Dennis, Tim is now married to Carrie, a fellow Tabernacler who is attractive and attentive, if robotic. He plays guitar at the weekly prayer sessions in a sanitized reenactment of his days in a Grateful Dead cover band. He holds a respectable if unfulfilling job as a loan officer, well aware of the irony of the post for a man with his history. He is grateful for the help he has received from his church community and Pastor Dennis. But he can’t shake the yearning for something more, and a nagging attraction to that troublesome sex-ed teacher....With
  • The Abstinence Teacher
  • , Tom Perrotta wades into the murky waters of contemporary American suburbia, fully deploying his proven gift for describing the panic lurking beneath its seemingly placid surface. Already widely known to book and movie audiences for his scathing satire mixed with remarkable compassion in works including
  • Election
  • and
  • Little Children
  • (both adapted for film,
  • Little Children
  • garnering Perrotta an Oscar nomination), this novel once again proves, as declared by the
  • Los Angeles Times
  • , “Perrotta’s balance of humor and pathos has no equal.”

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Dissappointed

I had to force myself to finish this book which is unusual for me. The characters were very predictable. I felt the author took the lazy way out with his Christian characters, they were complete cliches. I have never met a Christian like the ones that were potrayed in his book. And I have never known a high school student who learned about sex and protection from a sex ed class, so it was hard for me to care how Ruth taught the class. The only intresting part of the book to me was Ruth's gay friend and his relationship troubles. Overall, I definitely wouldn't recommend this book to anyone looking for something that will keep them intrested.
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Poorly developed....then a downhill spiral

The first few chapters of the book seemed very promising: Secular, worldly morality being reconcilled with Bible-based morality. left/right, liberal/conservative. There are some interesting topics briefly addressed, but nothing is resolved and neither side of the discussions is well-supported. Also, the author seemed to need to dump a bunch of vulgar language and images into the book just to 'juice it up'.

And in the end - sorry to ruin it for anyone - the main players who you kind of hoped would do the 'right thing' (in my humble opinion) take the path of least resistence. Blah....sadly uninspiring.
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Loved It

I loved it. I think I'm going to read all of Perrotta's books. He's right up there with Jonathan Franzen for writing intelligent, thoughtful, complex, yet interesting novels. This honest, thought-provoking novel centers on a children's soccer coach who is a former rock musician with a past history of drugging and debauchery who is trying his best to rebuild his life through an evangelical church; and a woman who is a sex ed teacher is baffled by the new abstinence based curriculum forced upon her backed by the same church. Highly recommended.
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Trudging through 368 pages..

A friend gave this to me for my 20th birthday, so I read this with sentiments in mind and genuinely wanted to enjoy/like this book. After reached the end of 368 pages, I have to say that I forced myself to finish the book.

The premise is promising: Ruth, one of the protagonists, is a female sexual education teacher who is forced to teach a curriculum that basically demonizes sex and vouches for abstinence as the only way. Not only does she battle with the soundness of her sexual life but Ruth must also come to terms with the pervasiveness of religion, not only in how it affects her school but her children as well.

The other main character is Tim, a now religious man who was saved from his own self-destructiveness in drugs and indulgence. While Ruth must confront religion, Tim has to confront the possibility that religion might not be the right answer for him.

There are obviously struggles going on and sometimes, the gay couple friends of Ruth are brought up for perspective on homosexuality in the suburbs. Sometimes you see a bit of the kids and their reactions to their upbringings. But these moments are too brief. Ruth is flat, reduced to an impetuous mother who simply reacts and seems desperate for sex and the male touch. Tim's life is more interesting to look at, but for a book that is trying to focus on abstinence, Tim is also missing something because of the shortcomings of his complement.

Perhaps it had too much to look at: religion, homosexuality, conservatism, religion, sexuality, etc. Perrotta had his hands full, maybe fumbling a bit in the process, and it certainly showed.