The Iceberg: A Memoir
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The Iceberg: A Memoir

Paperback – February 2, 2016

Price
$12.33
Format
Paperback
Pages
288
Publisher
Grove Press, Black Cat
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0802124609
Dimensions
5.2 x 0.9 x 8.2 inches
Weight
11.2 ounces

Description

Praise for THE ICEBERG:"Truly extraordinary...one of the most haunting and achingly honest explorations of grief in recent memory...elegantly composed...like any great work of art, "The Iceberg" doesn't merely represent what it sets out to depict; it deftly communicates the emotional truth behind it."—Mary Elizabeth Williams, Los Angeles Times "This book is about love and witness...the pared-down quality of this memoir adds universality and is part of its tensile strength...Its cover should be stamped this way: 'Contains not one glib sentence.'"—Dwight Garner New York Times “The most moving book I have read in some time...It is a harrowing read, as you would expect, but also beautifully written and intensely powerful.”—Bill Bryson New York Times Book Review , "By the Book""Profoundly moving...the intertwining journeys of father and son make this intricate tale of life and death all the more powerful...exquisite."— Publishers Weekly "Riveting...poignant memoir...A poetic and moving chronicle of loss."— Kirkus Reviews (starred review) "An extraordinary memoir... one of the most astonishing books. I was transfixed by it. [Coutts'] work is marvelously wrought and quite experimental, yet says very blunt things."—Helen MacDonald, Guernica “A fierce love letter-cum-elegy... This is far more than just another book about grief.”—Marina Warner, Observer “A memoir quite unlike any other. It has the strength of an arrow: taut, spiked, quavering, working to its fatal conclusion...an extraordinary story told in an extraordinary way.”— Sunday Times “The most heartbreaking memoir of the year.”— Independent on Sunday “A book that clearly had to be written...to be read by anyone who ever pauses to consider our mortality.”— Sunday Telegraph “The Iceberg is mesmerizing, harrowing, and radiant... it is impossible to put it down.”— Daily Mail (UK)“An extraordinary vigil of a book, a work of art.”— Observer “Unflinching yet uplifting...[Coutts is] a chronicler of what it means to be human.”— Financial Times “The writing is lyrical, textured, perfectly paced; the sentences short so that we feel Coutts's moments of panic, her quickened heartbeat... [A] startlingly beautiful and inspiring pioneer text.”— Independent “[Coutts] chooses her words with such beautiful scrupulousness, never twisting or turning the knife of her story to exact our pity or admiration; her thought is like sensation, her descriptions of feeling are often like notes for a visual work... Her book is a homage to an exceptional man; it's also the work of an exceptional woman artist.”— Guardian "Marion Coutts’ account of living with her husband’s illness and death is wise, moving and beautifully constructed. Reading it, you have the sense of something truly unique being brought into the world – it stays with you for a long time after."—Bill Bryson (Wellcome Prize citation)“Extraordinary... Not quite like any other bereavement memoir.”— Evening Standard “Searing, shocking, unflinching, profoundly moving.”— Spectator Marion Coutts is an artist and writer. She works in sculpture, film and video and has exhibited widely nationally and internationally, including the Foksal Gallery, Warsaw; Yorkshire Sculpture Park; and the Wellcome Collection, London. She has held fellowships at Kettle¹s Yard, Cambridge and Tate Liverpool. She is a Lecturer in Fine Art at Goldsmiths College. She lives in London with her son. This is her first book.

Features & Highlights

  • Winner of the Wellcome PrizeA finalist for the Samuel Johnson Prize and the Costa Award“A memoir quite unlike any other. It has the strength of an arrow: taut, spiked, quavering, working to its fatal conclusion...an extraordinary story told in an extraordinary way.”—
  • The Sunday Times
  • “The most heartbreaking memoir of the year.”—
  • Independent on Sunday
  • Winner of the Wellcome Book Prize, and finalist for every major nonfiction award in the UK, including the Samuel Johnson Prize and the Costa Award,
  • The Iceberg
  • is artist and writer Marion Coutts’ astonishing memoir; an “adventure of being and dying “and a compelling, poetic meditation on family, love, and language.In 2008, Tom Lubbach, the chief art critic for
  • The Independent
  • was diagnosed with a brain tumor.
  • The Iceberg
  • is his wife, Marion Coutts’, fierce, exquisite account of the two years leading up to his death. In spare, breathtaking prose, Coutts conveys the intolerable and, alongside their two year old son Ev—whose language is developing as Tom’s is disappearing—Marion and Tom lovingly weather the storm together. In short bursts of exquisitely textured prose,
  • The Iceberg
  • becomes a singular work of art and an uplifting and universal story of endurance in the face of loss.

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Unusual Memoir

I am very conflicted about this book. It is comprised of unusual and densely-packed prose that is often poetic, but the tone is detached. I have very little sense of Tom as an individual, his fears, his life and legacy, and his hopes for his son, despite the fact that this is a book about a terminally ill man battling brain cancer. Instead, Coutts, Tom's deeply put-upon wife, details her every frustration, inconvenience, fit of temper, spate of volatility and physical complaint. She is often bored, self-absorbed, unsympathetic and lacking in empathy by her own admission. Her behavior toward their son, Ev, is sometimes abominable. She seems to see him as a repository for her anger. She often refers to Ev as "the boy" and "the child", rather than "our child" or "my child", which I found odd and disturbing. Clearly, Coutts loved her husband, but in reading the book, you get the overwhelming feeling that all of this is happening to Coutts, not Tom. Care-giving, cancer and death are infinitely difficult issues to traverse, but Coutts comes across as prevailingly cold and blunt. The book is well-written and somewhat interesting, but lacks warmth and vulnerability. It is unlike any memoir or book I have ever read.
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