The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success
The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success book cover

The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success

Paperback – January 5, 1998

Price
$8.15
Format
Paperback
Pages
385
Publisher
Simon & Schuster
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0684823997
Dimensions
7 x 1 x 9 inches
Weight
1.59 pounds

Description

Author Nicholas Lore uses the techniques of his career-guidance network, the Rockport Institute, to make The Pathfinder a substitute for a great job counselor. Through goal setting, list making, and other techniques, the book leads readers though the process of deciding exactly what they want to do for a living and finding a way to make it happen. Lore realizes that people have different temperaments and decision-making methods, so he provides individualized advice to suit each one. He also understands that creating a new career requires courage as well as desire, so The Pathfinder devotes plenty of space to motivation and overcoming fears. While anyone looking for a new career will find direction with this guide, people who didn't know they were looking may decide to start once they go through Lore's probing self-examination process. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. -- NICHOLAS LORE is the originator of the field of career coaching and founder of Rockport Institute, an organization that has guided thousands of professionals, executives, high-tech people, artists, support staff, and government officials through career change, and helped numerous young people design their work. He has been commended for excellence by two U.S. presidents. He lives in Rockville, Maryland. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. This can be your guide. Once, I was in the same situation you are facing today. It was time to decide what to do with my life. I committed myself to doing whatever was necessary to make a truly excellent career choice because I passionately wanted to wake up in the morning looking forward to going to work each day. This is the book I searched for then but did not find. I remember an extraordinary, imaginary book that first framed my boyhood vision of what I hope The Pathfinder will be for you. Each month, Donald Duck’s nephews, Huey, Dewey, and Louie, would find themselves in the middle of a full-tilt comic-book adventure. When things got completely hopeless, when the forces of chaos seemed sure to win, they always pulled off a miracle. Out of their knapsack came their infallible guide and problem solver, The Junior Woodchuck Guidebook. It had an absolutely perfect, creative solution for every situation they stumbled into, no matter how obscure or difficult. It was the complete guide to life. Since then, I have passionately sought those rare volumes of chuckery that surface in the real world. Every once in a while, one appears—the seminal guidexadbook to some aspect of life. Inspired by these wonderful books, The Pathfinder is intended to be one small chapter of The Junior Woodchuck Guidebook : how to decide what to do with your life. Whether you are in midcareer change or are makxading career decisions for the first time, it is designed to get you successfully through the process of planning your future. How can an intelligent person, committed to choosing a new career path, decide exactly which direction to pursue? That is a question I began asking many years ago. At the time, I was restless and bored with my job. I ran a conservation and solar enxadergy company on the coast of Maine. I had written and been responsible for passing legislation that saved thousands of beautiful historic houses from destruction and had recently been commended for excellence by the White House. My office looked out on a beautiful harbor where lobster boats and foghorns greeted the new day. Yet I had trouble getting through the workday. Even with an extensive background in psychology and Eastern philosophy, I had difficulty understanding why my workday left so much to be desired. How could it be that working on interesting projects in an idyllic setting and making a positive difference in the world and getting recognition could get boring? It was an absolute mystery to me. I then searched all over New England to find someone to help me solve my problem. I called nearly every counselor in the region. I told them I was seeking to choose a new career where I would be able to wake up in the morning and look forxadward to work. I said I wanted to find a vocation that was challenging, creative, and that I would passionately enjoy, where I could use my talents to their fullest, doing something that mattered to me. None of them seemed to know what it took to have a really phenomenal career. In fact, I could tell from their voices that many of them didn’t seem to love what they did, either. Finally, I took my problem to a wise old man who was a fellow member of my boat club. As it turned out, I was lucky enough to pick the ideal supporter, R. Buck-minster Fuller. Many people have heard of Bucky because he invented the geodesic dome. The building at Epcot Center that looks like a huge silvery ball is one of his many revolutionary designs. Bucky was much more than an architect. If you can imagine Obi-Wan Kenobi and Yoda combined in a real person who was at the same time a master futurist, scientist, engineer, architect, inventor, mathematician, philosoxadpher, and mystic, you get a little hint as to who he was. I struggled with my dilemma for what seemed like eons. Ultimately, with his encouragement, I decided to dedicate my life to tackling the very problem I had so much trouble solving myself. I founded an organization dedicated to developing more effective ways to help people make career and education choices. Since 1981, that organization, Rockport Institute (www.rockportinstitute.com), has been a pioneer in developing career coaching programs that successfully guide clients through the process of career decision making. These programs consist of clear-cut steps that help clients choose a specific career that will be highly satisfying, give them the opportunity to reach their goals, use their talents at the highest possible level, and be practical and achievable. From the beginning, we have been committed to developing the best tools to help people make the best decisions. Rockport Instixadtute has helped many thousands of clients from all walks of life: young and old, rich and poor, scientists, professionals, executives in career change, artists, professional athletes, students, and people reentering the workforce. Our clients include people who have been fabulously successful and others who never reached their goals bexadcause of an ill-fitting career. We have had the opportunity to serve as personal career consultants to several national and global leaders, C-level executives of Fortune 500 companies, senior policy makers of four presidential administrations, and people in nearly every field of endeavor. Our clients have one thing in common: a strong desire for a very fulfilling career. For the last thirty years, as director of Rockport Institute, my single-minded passion has been to help intelligent, complex people like you live remarkable lives that are self-expressed and satisfying by stretching themselves beyond their everyday circumstances and the perceived limitations that hold them back. I have written this book to duplicate, as closely as possible, the experience you would have if we were to sit together in the same room and work step-by-step until you reach your goal: knowing for sure what you will do with your life—or, at least, this part of it. In these pages, you will find a pathway through the process of deciding what to do with your life that can actually gets you to (or closer to) the goal line. For the first time, you will have access to most of what you need to reach your goal of picking an outrageously excellent new direction, choosing your first career, or tuning up your present path. By looking from new perspectives at the questions you have previously been unable to answer, you will finally have a chance to sort them out. You will also have an opportunity to look into areas of your life you may have never considered before. You will find some of these components absolutely critixadcal to making the best possible career decision. The Pathfinder will help you break everything important down into small, bite-sized pieces and deal with them one by one. Far from offering a generic, cookie-cutter approach, this book will enable you to customize your journey through the morass of questions and uncertainties to fit your own particular needs. I will completely respect and appreciate you and your unique nature. At the same time, I won’t pull punches or be too polite to give it to you straight. I don’t mind at all if you jump up and down and curse me when you get frustrated. After all, I’m just a book. The Pathfinder will help you examine every aspect of your life that relates to caxadreer. Designed to be a universal guide, it should work for you regardless of your age, background, education, point of view, and experience. If you are a recently deposed emperor, you won’t be treated like a teenager. And if you are a teenager, don’t worry, you won’t be treated like a deposed emperor. Rather than just discussing theoretical ideals about career fulfillment, The Pathfinder is designed to actually take you toward your goal of deciding exactly what you will do with your life. Using this book as your guide may take you all the way to your goal of designxading a career that is both perfect for you and practical. It has guided many thousands of intelligent, committed people all the way to having 100 percent certainty about what they will do with their lives. Others make it most of the way or partway to that goal, but need time, experience, professional coaching, or something else to cross the finish line. The Rockport Career Design Method you will use throughout this book helps you answer the question “What am I sure will be the important components of my work?” The most powerful way to design your career is to bexadcome sure about the answers to questions such as “How will I make best use of my natural talents and personality?” “What workplace environment will support my best effort?” “How important is it to do something that personally matters to me, and what specifically will that be?” Asking and answering those big questions about your future build islands of certainty that move your career design project forward. Becoming absolutely sure about one piece of the puzzle makes it easier to sort out the other pieces. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • DO YOU JUMP OUT OF BED EVERY MORNING AND RUSH TO A JOB YOU LOVE?
  • Or is the work you once enjoyed now just a way to pay the bills? Perhaps you're even doubting your career choice altogether. Let
  • The Pathfinder
  • guide you to a more engaging, fulfilling work life. Based on breakthrough techniques developed by Rockport Institute, an innovative and award-winning career-counseling network that has changed the lives of over 10,000 people,
  • The Pathfinder
  • offers invaluable advice and more than 100 self-tests and diagnostic tools that will help you choose an entirely new career -- or view a current job from a new, more positive perspective. You'll learn:
  • * How to design your new career direction step by step so that it fits your talents, personality, needs, goals, values, and is, at the same time, practical and attainable
  • * How to deal successfully with the "yeah but" voices in your head that keep you going back to the same old ill-fitting job, day after day
  • * How to land the perfect job in your new field, plus tips on writing a really exceptional résumé, personal marketing, and networking (even for those who hate to network)
  • Whether you're a seasoned professional in search of a career change or a beginner just entering the working world, you want to make the right choices from the beginning. No matter where you are in your journey, if you want work to be more of a dance than a drag,
  • The Pathfinder
  • will expertly coach you through the process of designing a career you will love.

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I was at work

And I was telling myself that there must be something better than this. I was looking for a book that would act a personal coach, help me to identify both the mental and physical obstacles that keep me from finding work that engages more of who I am. I was looking at Amazon and clicking through the career counseling books when I came across "The Pathfinder." The description of the book and the customer comments made it sound like it would provide the interactive approach I was looking for.

Now that I've read it I can tell you that I found it useful but not transformational. The author would say that I wasn't ready for the transformation. That may be true but I still think the book could have been better. My biggest complaint is that the exercises consisted of making lists. This can be useful for some things but when its applied to everything, it feels redundant and simplistic. I also found the tone condescending and overly positive. I finished the book feeling like I'm not enough of a go-getter to have the career I want. I think that the right audience for the book is sales and marketing people who love networking and making lists! The sections on figuring out your personality type and networking seemed very superficial and cobbled together from other career advice books.

On the plus side, it deals with some of the mental and emotional obstacles that make change difficult. In particular, it identified the the fears that masquerade as "being realistic" as "yeah buts." These are all the negative responses to attempts to do something new. "I could go back to school, Yeah but, it would be too expensive." For me, these are the most powerful stumbling blocks and the book doesn't try to minimize their power or their role as keeping one from committing career suicide or going into massive debt. However, the book does give some useful suggestions for how to cope with them.

Ultimately, the book was helpful in making me realize that I'm engage in a lengthy process that can't be shortened by reading one book no matter how good it is. My advise to you and myself is that if you want to change your life, take a big risk. Its not enough to just read about doing it.
156 people found this helpful
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Read this one before you buy others

After a rather hard day at my new job I was ready to chuck it all. The passing days were more and more worrisome. Through journal writing and a lot of self examination I realized that I probably wasn't in the best field. I came across this book and so far it has been great. Chapter 12 (Why You Don't Get What You Want) and Chapter 13 (The Power of Commitment) are worth the price of the book. The best line that illuminated it all for me was in chapter 13 where Lore states "Most of us, for the most part, are committed to comfort, low risk, and equilibrium." We don't want to work at life we want it all to come without upset or problems. When this happens we say we are happy. When it doesn't, we look for solutions or wallow in our dispair. While I haven't finished the book yet, the information contained within has helped changed my attitude and recognize the multitude of "yeahbuts" that plague my thinking. Get this, read this, and learn this book. Combine this with The Path by Laurie Beth Jones and I think that you are well on your way to defining a more menainginful career and life.
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This is a great book!

This is the first book that I can honestly say changed my life. I was stuck in a job that was just not right for me. I hated going to work everyday. Did you see that commercial that CareerBuilder ran during the Superbowl about how you know it's time to leave your job (I think they said if you cry all the time, get no respect, want to punch small animals... ect). That was me, I had pretty much all those symptoms. Well, after the 2nd or 3rd time of calling in sick because I just couldn't face another day, I decided I wanted to look at my options, and I picked up The Pathfinder.

Ok, The Pathfinder is not an easy book to read. They want you to do all these exercises and keep a notebook journaling your wants, commitments, and requirements. I will admit that the journal thing is not all that clear (or at least it wasn't to me). Plus, there are several parts of the book that are kind of confusing, such as, what's the difference between a commitment and a goal, and a meta-goal and your purpose? I still haven't figured a few of those things out.

However, there are quite a few nuggets of gold hidden between the craziness. First of all, this book will convince you that there is a better job out there for you, that you are not necessarily stuck forever in your current crappy job unless you decide to be. This was the biggest revelation for me. Until I read this book I thought that my last job was the best that it would ever get, which in retrospect was pretty sad because I was really unhappy in my last job. Secondly, it will get you off your butt and help you think in more positive ways about how you can improve your situation. I think that that is actually the main purpose of the journal - maybe some of the things they have you do don't make much sense but at least you're thinking about how to change things. Finally, there are some extremely good and different ideas in here, stuff that I have never seen before. This Nicholas Lore guy has an extremely different way of thinking. I love his discussion about the "yeahbuts," which are the things that make you fail your commitments. That chapter alone has helped me through many obstacles. You could even use this book outside of the job search purpose, if you had something else in your life that you wanted to change.

A side note - I did the talent assessment that Lore recommends to go along with this book. I would say, it is very interesting, and it helps you see why you are the way you are a little more. However, I don't think it is worth the 500$ price tag. Especially since it didn't affect my job search in the slightest, and I am slightly skeptical of the way they are calculating their "grades" on the exam. My opinion after going through the entire process of finding a new job is that you innately know what you want from a job, and you probably don't need a talent assessment to tell you that. For an example from my own experience, during my job search I knew that I wanted a lot more problem solving and responsibility at my new job. When I took the talent assessment it showed me that I had high analytic and diagnostic reasoning. I could have figured out from the test that I wanted more problem solving, but I already knew that before I took the test.

I was definitely a victim of the American way of job selection, and I now believe that every senior in high school should have to take a class in deciding what they want to do with their lives before they go to college and get forced to select. It is unfair to ask a kid that has never been out in the workforce and has very little life experience to simply just decide what they want to do for the next 40-50 years, especially if they are not the type of kid with some sort of hobby that could translate into a career. When I have kids, they are going to learn from me that the most important thing that they can do to get into a career that suits them is to pick up a book like Pathfinder, and really assess their lives and ask questions about what profession would be best for them.

This book has it's flaws, but I feel that the main goal of this book (to get you off your hiney and looking for a job if you're unhappy, or to start thinking about what careers would be best for you if you're a student) is achieved, and the author has some genius pearls of insight that can help you in every aspect of your life. Plus, I can also attest that I have this book to owe for getting me out of my old job and into a new job that I am much happier in.
18 people found this helpful
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The career-searcher's bible

If there is anyone better equipped (or more entertaining) than Nicholas Lore in this field, I would like to meet him. Not only is this a great methodology for finding your true vocation in life, it contains many invaluable exercises for finding out more about what kind of person you really are. Lore stresses continually that his are not meant to be accurate psychological descriptions but rather practical working models for finding your true passion.
The sting in the tail with all such books and techniques is our built in ability to resist getting out of our comfortable sense of equilibrium. It then becomes inevitable that people become distracted from the process outlined in the book and soon find themselves drifting back into well-lit comfort zones.
The trick I think is to follow this book as accurately as possible, but FIND SUPPORT. Enroll someone else, a friend, lover co-worker or confidante and make sure that you feedback on progress within a predetermined time. The fact that so few of us wind up with jobs about which we feel passionate is symptomatic of a very real resistance to changing. The only way to get over the hurdle is to FIGHT IT.
This book has scarcely left my side for the last two years. I have discovered much, and continue to do so. Those I have recommended it to have not stopped thanking me. Of course, there is no silver bullet - but if you want it badly enough, this book is a necessity to speed you on your way.
Nicholas Lore can take you to the sweetest of waters. Buy this book and choose to drink.
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RECOGNIZES WE'RE NOT ALL THE SAME!

Many of the people I work with feel "stuck" because the traditional approach to designing their life doesn't fit who they are. What I liked about this book is the author doesn't fall into the trap of "one piece of advice fits all." Instead he recognizes that people with different approaches to change and decision-making need more of an individualized approach. As a life coach, I know how true that is. For example,in my work with Renaissance Souls (people with too many interests to pick just one) I know to avoid questions like "What do you expect to be doing in five years?" or "What is your passion (as if they had just one!"
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Absolutely wonderful

This book is a refreshing and welcome change from the average self-help, career-oriented book. Nicholas Lore uses a completely different perspective wherein the reader is 100% engaged in designing his/her path towards a fulfilling career and ultimately, life. This books takes readers on a journey of self-discovery that is useful and applicable to their life goals. The principles apply not only towards careers but other facets of personal life such as relationships, decision making and many others. Anyone who seriously reads this book must gain something new and helpful nomatter what path along life this person is. I would encourage anyone to read this.
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A little help to identify the purpose driven life

I found this book so useful, I bought it twice. The first time to examine my overall interest and possible fit for career. Then, I lent the book out. I just repurchased to complete the values exercise. This book has a mini Myers-Briggs Type assessment (useful to understand how you make decisions, where you get your energy, how you take in information and how you organize your life) and its potential impact on career and other life choices.

If you like to read and aren't into doing 'self work', this book is not for you. Hope it does for you what it did for me, clarity around things I'm passionate about and creating a plan to align my work with the things I'm most passionate about.

I found the quotes and drawings inspirational and relevant, pushing me to keep digging and searching for my right path.
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A superb book; a terrific career advisor

The Pathfinder changed my career and my life. The activities in the book helped me navigate through my unconscious assumptions about my life, and connect my vision of my future with my career goals. Completed the exercises in the book -- particularly the life timeline -- led me to an epiphany about how I wanted to spend my life at work. Nick Lore is a master career coach, even in book form. The Pathfinder is a must read for anyone who wants to have it all at work and in life, but may be stuck in their current career.
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Essential Big-Picture Concepts for Career Success

For a variety of reasons, most people innocently approach their career search in the wrong way. You need to start your career search asking the BIG QUESTIONS (What do I want to do?, What are my natural talents and interests?, etc.), and I have found 'THE PATHFINDER' to be the single best book for this process. Lore has assembled a range of inquiries and approaches for self-analysis, decision-making, and implementation that I have yet to find in any other single collection.
There seems to be three types of typical career books: 1) the "how-to's" (how to write a resume, search for jobs on the internet, etc.), 2) collections of information that just scratch the surface of a topic (titles such as 'The Top 47 Jobs for the 21st Century', 'Careers in Healthcare', etc.), or 3) series of personal vignettes that may or may not relate to your situation. 'THE PATHFINDER' distinguishes itself in that it gives specific procedures for mastering the most important aspects of the career search process. It also correctly points out the relationship between your career goals and objectives in the other areas of your life.
Besides 'THE PATHFINDER', I also recommend `WHAT COLOR IS YOUR PARACHUTE' and 'DO WHAT YOU ARE' for required reading at the beginning stages of your career or job search. The best time to buy these books is right NOW. The research and reflection required to create a rewarding career is not easy, and can take from a couple of weeks to a few months. It is best if you can do this when you are still working, rather when the process is forced upon you. There is a good chance that you, the reader, need to purchase this book TODAY, since most people are unhappy in a job that does not fit them well.
The positive customer reviews and high sales rakings for these books attest to their usefulness. Of course, not everyone is going to find each of these books to be equally helpful, but the total investment is well worth making given the potential pay-off. Some reviewers have suggested 'Zen and the Art of Making a Living' as an alternative to 'The Pathfinder', which may better suit your taste. Best of luck in your career endeavors!
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Fun, provocative, insightful, and essential

The Pathfinder uses the best technology in the field to guide you to the career of your dreams! But what is even better--the author makes the journey entertaining, humorous, and deeply engaging.
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