The Rainbow Comes and Goes: A Mother and Son on Life, Love, and Loss
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The Rainbow Comes and Goes: A Mother and Son on Life, Love, and Loss

Paperback – January 31, 2017

Price
$10.80
Format
Paperback
Pages
320
Publisher
Harper Paperbacks
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0062454959
Dimensions
5.31 x 0.72 x 8 inches
Weight
8.8 ounces

Description

Review “Intriguing… an ideal Mother’s/Father’s Day gift, with the opening, ‘Let’s get to know each other better’…Affectionate, heartfelt, inspirational, and sometimes hilarious, the book’s message is that it is never too late to cultivate a new relationship with your family and break down those walls of silence.” — Bay Area Reporter “A beautiful book that will resonate for all generations, especially mothers and their sons . . . riveting, touching, dishy, funny, and surprising.” — Andy Cohen “Fascinating, forthright, philosophical, and inspiring, these mother-and-son musings on family, life, death, forgiveness, fame, and perseverance are at once uniquely personal and deeply human.” — Booklist (starred review) “[A] touching story. . . . Through greater openness, Cooper and Vanderbilt achieve a new closeness, demonstrating in this intimate and lively read that it’s never too late to have a rich relationship with family.” — Publishers Weekly “A layered mix of reminiscences, heart-rending revelations and apologia, all captured with unsparing candor. . . . Rainbows may in fact come and go, but this revealing take on the forces that shaped two dynamic lives promises to have real staying power.” — AARP Magazine “A remarkably frank and tender undertaking.” — New York Times “Meaningful, revealing.” — Wall Street Journal “This is a book like no other I have ever read…if any two people have lived through way more than their share of crises, singly and collectively, it is Anderson Cooper and Gloria Vanderbilt. Their brave engagement with what they confront so staunchly in this extraordinary dialogue leaves me quite simply awestruck.” — Washington Times “Memoir readers (and Hollywood fans) will appreciate this book, especially those interested in relationships between mothers and sons. A perfect Mother’s Day read.” — Library Journal “Entertaining and thoughtful moments exchanged between a mother and son who have spent much of their lives in the spotlight.” — Kirkus Reviews “Through greater openness, Cooper and Vanderbilt achieve a new closeness, demonstrating in this intimate and lively read that it’s never too late to have a rich relationship with family.” — Publishers Weekly From the Back Cover A touching and intimate correspondence between Anderson Cooper and his mother, Gloria Vanderbilt, offering timeless wisdom and a revealing glimpse into their lives Though Anderson Cooper has always considered himself close to his mother, his intensely busy career as a journalist for CNN and CBS affords him little time to spend with her. After she suffers a brief but serious illness at the age of ninety-one, they resolve to change their relationship by beginning a year-long conversation unlike any they had ever had before. The result is a correspondence of surprising honesty and depth in which they discuss their lives, the things that matter to them, and what they still want to learn about each other. Both a son’s love letter to his mother and an unconventional mom’s life lessons for her grown son, The Rainbow Comes and Goes offers a rare window into their close relationship and fascinating life stories, including their tragedies and triumphs. In these often humorous and moving exchanges, they share their most private thoughts and the hard-earned truths they’ve learned along the way. In their words their distinctive personalities shine through—Anderson’s journalistic outlook on the world is a sharp contrast to his mother’s idealism and unwavering optimism. An appealing memoir with inspirational advice, The Rainbow Comes and Goes is a beautiful and affectionate celebration of the universal bond between a parent and a child, and a thoughtful reflection on life, reminding us of the precious insight that remains to be shared, no matter our age. About the Author Anderson Cooper joined CNN in 2001 and has anchored his own program, Anderson Cooper 360° , since March 2003. Cooper has won 18 Emmys and numerous other major journalism awards. He lives in New York with his sons. Gloria Vanderbilt is an American artist, writer, and designer. Her artwork can be found at GloriaVanderbiltfineart.com. She is the author of eight books and has been a regular contributor to the New York Times , Vanity Fair , and Elle . She lives in New York City. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • A charming and intimate collection of correspondence between #1
  • New York Times
  • bestselling author Anderson Cooper and his mother, Gloria Vanderbilt, that offers timeless wisdom and a revealing glimpse into their lives.
  • Anderson Cooper’s intensely busy career as a journalist for CNN and CBS’
  • 60 Minutes
  • affords him little time to spend with his ninety-one year old mother. After she briefly fell ill, he and Gloria began a conversation through e-mail unlike any they had ever had before—a correspondence of surprising honesty and depth in which they discussed their lives, the things that matter to them, and what they still want to learn about each other.
  • Both a son’s love letter to his mother in her final years and an unconventional mother’s life lessons for her grown son,
  • The Rainbow Comes and Goes
  • offers a rare window into their close relationship and fascinating lives. In these often hilarious and touching exchanges, they share their most private thoughts and the hard-earned truths they’ve learned along the way. Throughout, their distinctive personalities shine through—Anderson’s darker outlook on the world is a brilliant contrast to his mother’s idealism and unwavering optimism.
  • An appealing blend of memoir and inspirational advice,
  • The Rainbow Comes and Goes
  • is a beautiful and affectionate celebration of the profound and universal bond between a parent and child, and, like
  • Tuesdays with Morrie
  • , a thoughtful reflection on life and love, reminding us of the precious knowledge and insight that remains to be shared, no matter what age we are.

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Disappointing and shallow

Hoped this would be a good sentimental read. I do like AC very much. But the mother!!! Wow, like most people have not had to deal with hard childhoods, tragedy, etc. Half way through I was rolling my eyes at her total lack of common sense and ridiculous "excuses" for her really poor decisions due to her past. Shallow silly woman that had people bailing her out her whole life, then, like her beloved Dodo, she lets them fall through the cracks. Cold hearted, I think much like her mother was. The book is not good, and I really now do not like GV at all! Sorry Anderson. The book was also cheaply put together. Glad I got it at a discount price.
26 people found this helpful
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A lovely read: guaranteed life lessons

With this book The Rainbow Comes and Goes, Anderson Cooper and his mother Gloria Vanderbilt have completed a lovely year-long project, so personal that they could have kept it to themselves, and yet, we are fortunate that they shared. Cooper, of course, is the celebrated journalist who comes into our homes on a nightly basis and helps us celebrate New Year’s once a year. His mother is design icon, painter, actress, and legendary poor little rich girl, heir to a Vanderbilt fortune, Gloria Vanderbilt, she of jeans fame. Unlike so many of us who never quite communicate with our loved ones and then watch them die, only to wonder why we never asked questions about their life, Cooper decided to get to know his enigmatic mother. In a year-long series of emails, Gloria Vanderbilt opens up about her early life, her feelings surrounding Cooper’s father’s untimely death, her relationship with her distant mother, and the coping with Cooper’s brother’s suicide. And in these poignant, revealing emails, we learn—as does Cooper—so much about a woman who has lived a life in the spotlight yet hidden to us all, even to her son. And Cooper’s reactions to her revelations leads him to make his own revelations and conclusions about life, death, happiness, and what life is truly about. As someone approaching seventy years of age, I identified with ninety-one year old Vanderbilt. She says that by the time we reach old age, life has a way of working out, i.e. our experiences all fall into place, and we know how to accept our triumphs and our failures. And that, she says, is what life is all about. No one can be happy all the time, for if that happened, we would not know what happiness is. We must know grief to know happiness. After all, the rainbow comes and goes.
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One Star

The writing style was confusing. I never knew who's voice was revealing the thoughts, Mom or Son.
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but will enjoy the language and experience from Gloria Vanderbilt

Most readers will not find anything new in this book, but will enjoy the language and experience from Gloria Vanderbilt. The book and words take us back to an earlier time and remind those of us in different stages of life to maintain perspective and embrace our lives, enjoying every single moment no matter what is going on.
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The dialogue is very touching and universal .

I used this for book club ! I shared this with my daughter (only child). Yet to obtain her reaction.
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Must be hard to be so wealthy, Vanderbilt Family

The book was okay, Gloria Vanderbilt definitely had a interesting upbringing. In my 30’s. She definitely made her name in the fashion world.
Yes, even super wealthy have horrible things happen in their lives. Kinda sad in its own way
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One of the most soulful books I ever read. Absolutely beautiful.

This book keeps me so close to my feelings, all sort of them, whether my childhood's dreams and illusions, wishing for something so out of my hands while still continuing to be a wish, and dreams in my adult life. It is very sentimental and human -not about money-, about building a loving relationship through respect and acceptance of who mother and son authentically are. The grammar is impecable.
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Communication is the foundation of understanding

Interesting to read how these two personalities communicated about their experiences and their innermost feelings to gain a better understanding of each other. I commend Anderson for realizing the importance of "talking" to his mother about her life before she passed and the importance of leaving no questions unanswered. Both suffered devastating losses in their lives, but the year they spent in discussions detailed in the book certainly cemented their bond. Fascinating read.
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Beautiful Book with Anderson Cooper at His Best

Such a beautifully written collaboration between Anderson Cooper and his Mother Gloria Vanderbilt.
Interesting and yet sad story of Gloria Vanderbilt's life.
Would highly recommend.
Book arrived in excellent condition and would definitely purchase from seller again.
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Excellent book about Mothers and Sons!

I really enjoyed reading both Gloria's and Anderson's perspectives on their lives, and their relationship.

It was an important reminder about how important it is to share your life with your children. It encourages openness and understanding for everyone.
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