The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
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The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse

Paperback – September 30, 1991

Price
$7.82
Format
Paperback
Pages
235
Publisher
Bethany House Pub
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1556611605
Dimensions
0.75 x 5.5 x 8.5 inches
Weight
11.2 ounces

Description

David Johnson grew up in a Christian home, the son of a Baptist Minister. There were great benefits to growing up in the church, but they were not all positive. Along with the life, and truth, and purity&151;there was death, and lies and hypocrisy. At a relatively young age he began to wonder why, if its called good news, it didn't feel that good. Johnson vividly recalls the pattern of being 'yelled at' to tell people the good news of Jesus. It struck him that if it really was good news, "why did they have to yell?" Everything, including evangelism felt like a weight. Early in his High School years, brokenness in the form of serious family issues, invaded his home. Johnson's initial fear of the trouble was that his parents response would be to add even more weight&try even harder to look good and right. Instead, his father discovered grace and the weight in their family was lifted. For the first time, "how things looked" was not what mattered most and how things really were could be discussed and dealt with without fear. Johnson entered the ministry with a deep desire to bring that liberating grace to people who has been weighted down by a system of religious performance. In the process, he discovered that the issue was bigger and more wide spread that he had ever imagined. Recently he discovered a name for it&spiritual abuse. Johnson's education includes a B.A. in Psychology from Bethel College in St. Paul, Minnesota. Further education followed at Bethel Seminary and Trinity Evangelical School, Deerfield, Illinois. While attending Trinity, he served as the Senior Pastor at the Melrose Bible Church, in Melrose Park, Illinois. Johnson is presently Senior Pastor at Church of the Open Door of Crystal, Minnesota. David and his wife have 4 children. They make their home in Minnesota. size : 5.2 x 8

Features & Highlights

  • Breaking the Silence on an Abuse Within the Church That Leaves Christians Feeling "Used," Manipulated and Shamed.
  • Churches are meant to be safe places where spiritual leaders help and equip the members for the work of service. There are some churches, however, where leaders use their spiritual authority to control and dominate others, attempting to meet their own needs for importance, power, intimacy or spiritual gratification. Through the subtle use of the right "spiritual" words, church members are manipulated or shamed into certain behaviors or performance that ensnares in legalism, guilt and begrudging service.
  • This is
  • spiritual abuse
  • , and the results can be shattering. Deeply ingrained spiritual codes of written and unwritten rules control and condemn, wounding believers' spirits and keeping them from the grace and joy of God's kingdom. Believers find themselves enslaved to a system, a leader, a standard of performance that saps true spiritual life.
  • This is a message for Christians who feel they are spiritually abused and for those who might be causing it. Authors VanVonderen and Johnson address these important themes and point the way toward freedom:
  • What are the abusive spiritual dynamics that can develop in a church?
  • How do people get hooked into these abusive systems?
  • What are the marks of false spiritual leadership and their impact on a congregation?
  • What are the scriptures and doctrinal concepts that c

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Healing from Abusive Churches

This book is a classic in the field of spiritual abuse. Anyone who has been abused in a church or religious setting should read this book. The authors go into the symptoms and causes of spiritual abuse. They also discuss how to heal from such experiences. If you have suffered from authoritarian abuse in a church or ministry, or if you are interested in learning about the subject, I highly recommend this book. Clergy and counselors would especially benefit from this book, as it would help them to identify this widespread problem, and to better assist those harmed by it.
14 people found this helpful
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Exposes the clerical abuses within churches.

You may find yourself in a spiritually abusive situation. One where thinking for oneself is strongly discouraged and the pastor has assumed the role of dictator. Are you loosing the joy you once had in churchgoing, finding excuses not to attend, or feeling beat down after attending? Then this book may be for you. Very good read.
6 people found this helpful
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really good

this is a really good book on a hard subject. I also recommend "when bad christians happen to good people."
4 people found this helpful
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It is subtle, but so real!

Powerful much needed book for today. How it must break the heart of God to see such abuse occuring within His Body today. But yes, it is there. This is a very enlightening and practical book. A must read for you and for many with in the churches today. Don't let the title throw you, you need to read this!
4 people found this helpful
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Excellent Book.

This book explains in fine detail how "Christian" C/churches destroy people. It explains how they take away their joy, breakdown their spirits, steal their finances, hate God, and even take away their wills to live. It happened to me with a Church and, in hindsight and with the aid of this book, I see how insidiously it was done.

The authors of this book are careful not to single out any one denomination.

If you have a loved one or a friend that is letting a church destroy him/her, buy this book for them.
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ANSWERED PRAYER!

This book is an answer to prayer! Reading this book helped me to realize that I am not crazy! My husband and I have also been able to minister to 12 families by purchasing used copies and sharing them with other families who have come out of the same abusive church - We plan to purchase more, so if you are looking at this book used, buy it now before we get the rest of them! May God bless you with His peace and His healing as you read through this book!
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Informative

I have not finished. But it's informative.
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Five Stars

Excellent in identifying spiritual abuse and allowing one to feel the deep painful places in order to gain freedom.
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This book really opened our eyes to how easy it is to be abused and to abuse those ...

This book really opened our eyes to how easy it is to be abused and to abuse those around us. Every Christian needs to read this book to gain a clear and Biblical understanding of Biblical leadership.
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One of my all time favorite books. So real

One of my all time favorite books. So real, so insightful, a must read for all Christians. Too bad the authors don't believe in the full gospel, that the gifts of the Spirit are in use today. Nonetheless it's a great book!