Tired as F*ck: Burnout at the Hands of Diet, Self-Help, and Hustle Culture
Tired as F*ck: Burnout at the Hands of Diet, Self-Help, and Hustle Culture book cover

Tired as F*ck: Burnout at the Hands of Diet, Self-Help, and Hustle Culture

Hardcover – February 8, 2022

Price
$25.30
Format
Hardcover
Pages
320
Publisher
Harper Wave
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0063052970
Dimensions
5.5 x 1.05 x 8.25 inches
Weight
13.8 ounces

Description

“I laugh-cried all the way though this biting critique of self-help bullshit and manipulative power structures. Dooner has written something deeply of the moment and relatable as f*ck.” — Amanda Montell, author of Cultish and Wordslut “This book is what Caroline Dooner does best. . . . Hilarious, relatable, yet unflinchingly honest, Tired as F*ck is an empowering memoir every woman needs to read. As a therapist, I am increasingly concerned about the toll hustle culture is taking on our lives, and Caroline tackles this topic head-on while also guiding readers back to themselves. In a time when most memoirs shout ‘if I accomplished this, you can do it, too!,’ Tired as F*ck implores us to truly take care of ourselves and f*cking rest.” — Amanda White, author of Not Drinking Tonight “For anyone who is tired of sacrificing their sanity to fit into a smaller pair of jeans, Tired as F*ck highlights our complicated relationship with success, beauty, and health. When it comes to wellness trends, Caroline has tried it all. With the voice of a funny, honest, and relatable friend, she takes you on her journey to find acceptance by any means necessary. This book will force you to see just how wildly obsessed we’ve become with the quest for beauty, thinness, and pseudo ‘health’ that you just may decide to get off the roller coaster and rest, too.” — Whitney Goodman, LMFT, author of Toxic Positivity “ Tired as F*ck takes the F*ck It Diet mindset and focuses it on the countless ways we must rebel against the ‘hustle and grind’ culture that leaves us exhausted and depleted. Dooner opens up about her own anxieties and trauma in a style that is somehow light and hopeful, inviting us all to consider how we’ve grown up and grown older in a world that asks us to prioritize progress and productivity over actual health and well-being. This book is the reminder we all need to redefine what health, happiness, and hustle mean in our everyday lives.” — Lexie Kite, PHD, coauthor of More Than a Body “ Tired as F*ck is, quite frankly, relatable as f*ck. With her relatable stories and humorous writing, Caroline will make you feel seen, heard, and understood in an experience we all know too well: feeling constantly exhausted but not being able to pinpoint why. In a society that’s constantly burned out, this book will reenergize you—physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.” — Mary Jelkovsky, author of The Gift of Self-Love “Caroline manages to weave her personal stories into the broader cultural narrative in a way that makes you simultaneously laugh, cringe, exhale, and feel less alone. Smart, funny, witty, and just in time, Tired as F*ck is exactly the kind of medicine we need right now.” — Laura Mckowen, bestselling author of We Are the Luckiest and founder of The Luckiest Club Caroline Doonerxa0is a humorist and storyteller. She spent years as a performer and dieting like it was her job (because it kind of was). After healing her relationship to food, she's been sharing what she learned ever since. She lives with her anxious bernedoodle in Pennsylvania, and they’re just trying to live the simple life. She believes wholeheartedly in the healing powers of food and rest.

Features & Highlights

  • Blending memoir and blistering social observations, the author of
  • The F*ck It Diet
  • looks back at her desperate attempts to heal her hunger, anxiety, and imperfections through extreme diets, culty self-help methods, and melodramatic bargains with the universe.
  • Offering a frank and funny critique of the cultural forces that are driving us mad, Caroline Dooner examines how treating ourselves like never ending self-improvement projects is a recipe for burnout. We have become unknowingly complicit in perpetuating our own exhaustion because we are treating ourselves like machines. But even phones need to f*cking recharge.
  • Caroline takes a good hard look at the dark side of self-help, and explains how she eventually used a radical period of rest to push back against cultural expectations and reclaim some peace.
  • Tired As F*ck
  • empowers us to say no to the things that exhaust us. It inspires us to carve out time to slow down, feel okay about doing less, and honor our humanity.
  • This is not a self-help book, it’s a cautionary tale. It’s an honest look at the dogma of wellness and spiritual self-improvement culture and revels in the healing power of rest and letting shit go.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Don't waste your time/money - no insight to be had

I saw this woman on the news/press cycle this morning and decided to check out her book, as I too have been feeling burnout. But the book offers little guidance or insight - it's a series of independent chapters, just a few pages in length, with some lofty titles like, “How to Stop Dieting” and “How to Heal Your Creative Soul” that each simply provide an anecdote about a time the author seemingly had a personal realization or specific experience. There's little to no takeaway from these stories, they just are...
11 people found this helpful
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Buy this now

I turned 30 last year, and with my birthday I also received an extra helping of existential dread. I’ve been dieting off and on since I was 10, convinced that if I could just stay thin, eschewing the pleasure of food and drink, I would find fulfillment. Turning 30 made me turn up the pressure on myself. Who cares that I just had a baby and have barely slept in six months. Work harder, get up earlier, eat less. People will know you had your fourth child and are getting older, as if that’s something to be ashamed of, if you don’t put the work in! I’ve Marie Kondoed the crap out of my life over and over, each Monday a fresh start, and I wondered why I was still so tired, and anxious. Caroline says what we’ve all thought, and been too afraid to say out loud. It’s ok to not be extraordinary at everything. The pressure we’re putting on ourselves to keep all our crap together no matter what, is destroying our lives and making us miserable. Reading Caroline’s journey through the ups and downs of self help and diet culture was like a breath of fresh air. I devoured this book in 2 evenings and it left me feeling as if a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Yes I still have anxiety, yes I’m still getting older, but this book has helped me give myself permission to just rest. Thank you!
10 people found this helpful
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LIFE CHANGING!!!!

Caroline writes with humor and honesty. She puts herself out there in a way that makes her readers feel bonded with her because she tells it like it IS, flattering or not. None of our experiences are identical in our lives, but there are so many common threads we share. Reading her story made me feel ACCEPTED, and NORMALIZED some of my "quirks" that I used to believe meant there was something very WRONG with me. I highly recommend getting this book. You might laugh, you might cry, you might be INSPIRED. You will DEFINITELY be entertained!
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Self-indulgent

Since I LOVED Caroline Dooner's first book and found it life-changing, I was eagerly awaiting her second follow up book that I thought would focus on our very American addiction to busy-ness and the valor of being "so tired". Unfortunately, I found the book to almost read like all the deleted chapters from The F*#ck It Diet. Tired as F*#ck outlined her journey using "self-help" cultural fads and faith to attempt to heal herself, but did little to elucidate the "why" of our addiction to over-scheduling and the obsession with individual exceptionalism. The book really didn't have anything to say. It is a basically well-written memoir from someone who hasn't lived very long. I was disappointed.
7 people found this helpful
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Not helpful for me

I was really excited for this book after hearing the author on a podcast. I hate writing a negative review because I’m afraid to make the author more insecure if she reads it, but I think it’s helpful for people to understand what they’re getting.

This is definitely a captivating book, but kind of like a car crash, you just can’t look away. But it’s not as helpful as I was hoping. I’m about 2/3 of the way through it and haven’t really found any insights that I can use to improve my own life. I was hoping this would be as insightful as hearing her speak, but it’s not for me. It’s almost like she write it while she was struggling still, but now is wiser. I want to hear more of her “now” and less of the struggle. I’m also less interested in the diet topic, which is why I bought this this one and not her first book, but this book is still very much about her struggles with food.

It’s an entertaining read, but not full of the helpful ideas she talks about these days. Maybe I’ll just stick to podcasts.
7 people found this helpful
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Great balance of truth and humor

Who doesn’t relate to the title? I immediately was drawn to it and after following Caroline Dooner for a while on IG I was even more intrigued. She balances the her real life experiences with how society feeds the need to constantly push standards to unattainable goals resulting in exhaustion and health issues - all while being extremely entertaining. I thoroughly enjoy this book.
4 people found this helpful
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10/10 - Highly Recommend!

Absolutely love this book and Caroline Dooner! Tired as F*CJ is so relatable in every way and has me in tears with laughter so many times. 10/10!
4 people found this helpful
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Hilariously accurate

I bought this book along with the fck it diet after following Caroline on the gram for a while. She definitely has a BFF vibe to her, and the book is no different. She sets the stage for all of her stories so well, and she is knowledgeable in what she is speaking about (ahem: social detriments of health). I legitimately laugh out loud throughout the book, as it feels like she is talking right to you. In today’s climate of hustle and grind culture, rest is an act of rebellion. Keep resting CDoons.
4 people found this helpful
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Worthless

Someone else described this as “self-indulgent” and that’s probably the most accurate description I’ve seen yet of this book. Also, Dooner is a 9/11 “truther,” a white supremacist, and dishonest. Don’t waste your time and most certainly do not give her your money.
3 people found this helpful
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Life changing

LOVE this author! Hilarious, easy to read, relatable and best of all, it’s life changing stuff! 100% recommendation this book and The F*ck It Diet! Love yourself and read these! Or listen! She narrates both and has the voice to do so. I prefer to listen on both of these!
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