Token Black Girl: A Memoir
Token Black Girl: A Memoir book cover

Token Black Girl: A Memoir

Paperback – October 1, 2022

Price
$10.99
Format
Paperback
Pages
255
Publisher
Little A
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1542035156
Dimensions
5.5 x 1 x 8.25 inches
Weight
9.3 ounces

Description

Review “A trenchant, honest, and unique memoir about body image, fashion, and Blackness.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review) “Former BET style director Prescod lays bare the toxic scaffolding of the fashion and beauty industries in her piercing debut…As she reckons with [these] small- and large-scale oppressions, Prescod maintains a striking self-awareness and even hope that these problems have solutions. The result is sure to galvanize those who are looking to make change from within fraught spaces.” — Publishers Weekly “An eye-opening account of growing up in an elite white community and her career in fashion, where racist beauty standards are the norm.” — USA Today “A former BET style director reflects on the racism she internalized growing up in a mostly white environment, the toxicity of society’s beauty standard and how she freed herself.” — People Magazine “Fashion industry and beauty expert, Danielle Prescod, dives into the reality of being a Black woman in the industry in a refreshing and brutally honest memoir.” — Glamour “[Prescod] didn’t know she’d one day become a fashion media icon. Or that she’d have to face white supremacy and coworkers asking racist questions on a daily basis. This is her story of recovery—from perfection and from white supremacy.” — Buzzfeed “Prescod has come through the other side with wisdom to share about how to come into your true gorgeous self.” — Los Angeles Times “Through powerful anecdotes, Prescod details how being whittled down to just her race led her down dangerous paths of an eating disorder and internalized misogyny she regrets putting other women through… Token Black Girl faces the harsh realities of the media scene and empowers young women to fight to see change.” — POPSUGAR “ Token Black Girl isn’t just a fashion memoir or a manifesto about racism—it’s also a specific look at the kind of society that Black girls live in. The book also offers a portrait of a woman grappling with the physical and emotional consequences of being raised in a world where whiteness was seen as more desirable, more acceptable. Prescod takes an unflinching look at how the fashion industry has upheld and continues to uphold whiteness, but also offers a guide to how things can improve.” — Coveteur “More than just another media memoir, Token Black Girl also explores how Prescod broke her own destructive cycles and found ways to heal from not just toxic work experiences but a toxic culture at large.” — Town & Country “In the refreshingly frank memoir, Prescod examines her life as a Black woman forced to confront the influence of media and its effect on her mental health and body image. Using anecdotes from her own life, Prescod’s memoir emphasizes the prevalence of white supremacy in our daily lives and especially in the fashion and beauty industries.” — Marie Claire “Prescod candidly chronicles her life growing up as the “token Black girl” in a largely white, upper-class area in Connecticut to making it as a magazine editor in her adult life. She provides a razor-sharp look at the racist, toxic systems within the fashion and publishing industries. And lays bare the devastating effects it had on her mental and physical health” — The Skimm “Human beings contain multitudes, and there are innumerable ways to show up as a Black woman in the world…I praise Prescod, who came up in a racially oppressive environment, for breaking free and finding her own definition.” —Nneka McGuire, Washington Post “With wit and the sharp eye of a woman who has lived through it, Prescod’s memoir takes the reader into the places and institutions of privilege where the idea of the Token Black Girl thrives. Literally shrinking herself to conform to the expectations of those around her, Prescod’s experience feels both unsettlingly familiar and incendiary. This is an essential read to understand how beauty standards and media industry affect Black women in America.” —Gabrielle Union, author of You Got Anything Stronger? “Sometimes it feels like we are just beginning to discuss the full extent of the Black experience in America, and with a frankness and a brave ability to stare down her own truth, Danielle Prescod has vividly detailed a portrait of Black womanhood that feels so familiar and yet so rarely discussed. It’s time! In her firsthand account of what it’s like to live as a Black person in the middle of whiteness, Danielle suffers no fools and holds back no punches as she explores the humor, WTFs, and emotional repercussions of coming of age as she did. As a memoirist and cultural critic, she deftly keeps things from feeling like a collection of the aha-ha moments you have in therapy, and instead, through her experience, offers people a way out of their token Black friend role (self-inflicted, structural, or otherwise.)” —Allison P. Davis, senior writer for the Cut “In an honest, relatable, and enlightening fashion, Danielle eloquently speaks about an experience many of us know too well. This pointed memoir reveals the struggle of being a Black woman in a world that tends to praise everything opposite of what you are. This is necessary reading for all women navigating social constructs while simultaneously learning to love themselves out loud.” —Taylor Rooks, Emmy Award–nominated sports journalist and host of the Bleacher Report “Danielle Prescod candidly shares her experience from growing up in a predominately white environment to then working in a white-dominant industry and how those experiences impacted her identity formation throughout the years. Her story made me feel seen as it is honest and relatable and will leave you mulling over your own experience with self-discovery in a world where we all strive for perfection and to ‘fit in.’ Token Black Girl is a must-read for anyone who has felt like a ‘token’ in society.” —Hannah Bronfman, entrepreneur, author, and founder of HBFIT “With her richly introspective debut, Token Black Girl , Danielle Prescod reveals devastating and lingering childhood traumas in evidentiating the racist structures central to the psychological gymnastics that the Black community must navigate in order to exist and thrive in the United States.” —Tamu McPherson, fashion consultant and All The Pretty Birds founder “First, this book should and will be taught in schools and universities. The way Danielle deftly discusses internal and external racism is masterful. She’s like a hip university professor who, instead of barraging you with sleep-inducing soliloquies, talks to you as both a human and friend…And lastly, and what speaks to me most loudly, is that Danielle doesn’t shy away from her own flaws and misgivings. In fact, she shines a bright light on them, which takes a particular type of courage that you can’t help but admire. This is a book that doesn’t only reflect our past but also our present, while giving us the tools to build a better future.” —Mateo Askaripour About the Author Danielle Prescod is a fifteen-year veteran of the beauty and fashion industry and graduate of NYU’s Gallatin School of Individualized Study. A lifelong fashion obsessive, she was most recently the style director of BET.com. With Chrissy Rutherford, Danielle cofounded 2BG Consulting, which aids fashion and beauty brands and influencers on their anti-racism journeys. She dedicates her time to researching how feminism and social justice intersect with pop culture. An avid reader and writer, Danielle also loves TikTok, the arts, staying active, horseback riding, and exercising at any hour of the day.

Features & Highlights

  • Racial identity, pop culture, and delusions of perfection collide in an eye-opening and refreshingly frank memoir by fashion and beauty insider Danielle Prescod.
  • Danielle Prescod grew up Black in an elite and overwhelmingly white community, her identity made more invisible by the whitewashed movies, television, magazines, and books she and her classmates voraciously consumed. Danielle took her cue from the world around her and aspired to shrink her identity into that box, setting increasingly poisonous goals. She started painful and damaging chemical hair treatments in elementary school, began depriving herself of food when puberty hit, and tried to control her image through the most unimpeachable, impeccable fashion choices.
  • Those obsessions led her to relentlessly pursue a career in beauty and fashion―the eye of the racist and sexist beauty standard storm. Assimilating was hard, but she was practiced. And she was an asset. Their “Token Black Girl.” Toxic, sure. But Danielle was striving to achieve social cache and working her way up the ladder of coveted media jobs, and she looked great, right? So what if she had to endure executives’ questions like “What was it like to drive to school from the ghetto?” Or coworkers’ eager curiosity to know if her parents were on welfare. But after decades of burying her emotions, resentment, and true self, Danielle turned a critical eye inward and confronted the factors that motivated her self-destructive behaviors.
  • Sharp witted and bracingly candid,
  • Token Black Girl
  • unpacks the adverse effects of insidious white supremacy in the media―both unconscious and strategic―to tell a personal story about recovery from damaging concepts of perfection, celebrating identity, and demolishing social conditioning.

Customer Reviews

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Not for average Black woman.

Didn’t enjoy the book at all. Difficult time understanding her inability to like who she was. Also didn’t understand the audience in which she wrote for. No lessons for me to learn. Glad she started getting it together.
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I can relate

I’m getting the paperback! I sampled this book on kindle on my want out of town and I was hooked! I reached out to Danielle on IG and she favorited my comment lol! ANYWAY, BUY THE BOOK, read it, share it!
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Must Read!

Token Black Girl is a must read! I appreciated the authors transparency and insight. I learned a wealth of information just by turning the pages of this book. I recommend this book be incorporated into college curriculums. I will definitely share this with my circle and clients!
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Pretty good read

A pretty good read.

As another Black person who grew up the token most of his life it brought back many memories, and makes you look at your every day life now and reevaluate how you present yourself in the world, and how you want to leave your mark any way that you can.

You'll go a rollercoaster of emotions reading through the pages of this book, relating and feeling sorry for the author in one minute, and rolling your eyes at her in disgust and shame at other times.

It doesn't speak to everyone, as Millennial lingo runs through it which many of other generations may not relate to. I'm Gen-X and had to look up a few references about people or things I couldn't care less about. lol

Also, right when you're into it, the book takes a little bit of a spin, going through more chapters than needed focussing on eating disorders.

Overall, I got through it, and was pleased with the read.
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Relatable

This book was beyond relatable and beautifully written. Everyone could benefit from reading it. So many of the stories that Danielle told reminded me of situations I was in growing up as a token black girl. I loved reading this and thinking about my experiences that almost mirrored Danielle’s and what I learned from them and how they truly shaped me to be the BOLD, BRAVE, and beautiful black woman that I am today. My voice is loud and proud and I will not apologize for it because just like Danielle, there were situations that I was in where I didn’t use that voice. Loved reading this!!
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Relatable

This book was beyond relatable and beautifully written. Everyone could benefit from reading it. So many of the stories that Danielle told reminded me of situations I was in growing up as a token black girl. I loved reading this and thinking about my experiences that almost mirrored Danielle’s and what I learned from them and how they truly shaped me to be the BOLD, BRAVE, and beautiful black woman that I am today. My voice is loud and proud and I will not apologize for it because just like Danielle, there were situations that I was in where I didn’t use that voice. Loved reading this!!
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Relatable

This book was beyond relatable and beautifully written. Everyone could benefit from reading it. So many of the stories that Danielle told reminded me of situations I was in growing up as a token black girl. I loved reading this and thinking about my experiences that almost mirrored Danielle’s and what I learned from them and how they truly shaped me to be the BOLD, BRAVE, and beautiful black woman that I am today. My voice is loud and proud and I will not apologize for it because just like Danielle, there were situations that I was in where I didn’t use that voice. Loved reading this!!
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Relatable

This book was beyond relatable and beautifully written. Everyone could benefit from reading it. So many of the stories that Danielle told reminded me of situations I was in growing up as a token black girl. I loved reading this and thinking about my experiences that almost mirrored Danielle’s and what I learned from them and how they truly shaped me to be the BOLD, BRAVE, and beautiful black woman that I am today. My voice is loud and proud and I will not apologize for it because just like Danielle, there were situations that I was in where I didn’t use that voice. Loved reading this!!
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Well-written story

I liked the story and it’s worth reading. While reading the book, I looked at the author’s profile. According to her picture, it seems she’s still allowing society to dictate what she looks like even though she railed against it in her book. She looks manicured and her hair is straightened, even though it was evident in the book that she was very tired of trying to keep up with accepted culture.
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ONE OF THE MOST HONEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR!!!

People's perceptions of the many facets of being a Black woman were significantly expanded by Danielle's book. It was a stimulating and frank discussion of how Black women feel about how frequently they are judged for their standards of beauty as well as how frequently Black women judge themselves. Teenagers should be encouraged to read this book to better understand the stress of trying to be "perfect" in a imperfect world. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder and skin deep. Well done, Danielle!