Unforgettable: A Son, a Mother, and the Lessons of a Lifetime
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Unforgettable: A Son, a Mother, and the Lessons of a Lifetime

Hardcover – March 31, 2015

Price
$9.94
Format
Hardcover
Pages
256
Publisher
Flatiron Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1250061133
Dimensions
5.75 x 1 x 8.5 inches
Weight
12 ounces

Description

“Patricia Lyons Simon Newman was a bombshell: drop-dead gorgeous, glamorous, hilarious, insightful, curious, a woman whose bounding, generous, mischievous presence beckoned to others like the first warm sunshine of spring. She was wise, irreverent, brave in loss and grateful in joy, and urgently, thankfully alive to the beauty in everything and everyone. And before anything else, she was a profoundly devoted mother to her son, NPR host, journalist, and author, Scott Simon. In his poignant, funny, intimate memoir of his last days with her, Simon reflects on the lessons she taught him, the preciousness that death gives to life, and the endless resonance of love. This is an unforgettable meditation on a life lived, as Hemingway wrote, 'all the way up.'” ―Laura Hillenbrand, author of UNBROKEN: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience and Redemption and SEABISCUIT: An American Legend on the audio recording of Unforgettable“In a return to the bighearted storytelling that made him a star NPR correspondent, [Simon] pays full tribute to the ex-showgirl who...taught her only son to be honest, kind, and entertaining. Be assured, tears will fall.” ― People Magazine “With UNFORGETTABLE, Simon reveals not the possibilities of social media but its limits. Those 140-character bursts...seem inadequate compared with the skilled unspooling of this memoir. This book is about family secrets revealed...because a moment arrives when they're all that matter and secrecy no longer does. [Reading this] you realize that the tears have been flowing...easing your way through a book that easily matches its title.” ―Carlos Lozada, The Washington Post “A heartfelt, nostalgic, funny and uplifting celebration. Far from depressing, Simon uses precise prose and nimble portraiture to create an inspiring and unforgettable memoir that reassures readers that even the most ordinary life is extraordinary when examined.” ― Shelf Awareness “ Unforgettable is a treasure. It is as poignant and tender and wise as Tuesdays with Morrie , with the added virtues of being unflinching and, quite often, very funny. At its center is a remarkable woman, gorgeous and charming and relentlessly honest, who remains a true star to the very end.” ―Scott Turow, author of PRESUMED INNOCENT“Who would have thought that such short intimate tweets could lead to such literature? This mother and son story is personal, universal, and filled with humor. Scott Simon reminds us of the transience of life and the endurance of love--and that beautiful writing is the best guardian of memory.” ―Azar Nafisi, author of READING LOLITA IN TEHRAN“This is an extraordinary book. Amazing. Breathtaking. Affirming. This book will change lives, restore hope to the broken-hearted, and remind the rest of us of what is truly important.” ―Laurie Halse Anderson, author of SPEAK“Simon's memoir is so captivating that everyone, not just fans of NPR's Weekend Edition Saturday , will enjoy learning about the wellspring that nourished the award-winning journalist's wit, intelligence, heart, and chutzpah. Wait, an enjoyable memoir about a dying mother? Indeed. That is part of Simon's...charisma. Every child should have such an opportunity to be there for his or her mother in those final days and hours. Every mother should have such a gifted child.” ― BOOKLIST (*Starred Review) “A charming tribute to a remarkable woman and the bond between mother and son.” ― Kirkus Reviews “In this tender memoir, Simon finds the last week of his mother's life to be a time for them to cherish each other and tenderly reminisce. He takes his quirky, devoted, gracious mother on her own terms, and his work shimmers as a touching tribute.” ― Publishers Weekly “Refreshing. [Unforgettable] celebrates a happy if quirky childhood and its central beloved architect: Simon's mother. Unforgettable isn't about modern medicine or death. It is about how to live.” ― AARP “No doubt Patricia Newman would be proud of her son and his extraordinarily compelling, heartfelt tribute.” ― BOOKPAGE SCOTT SIMON is one of America's most admired writers and broadcasters, having reported from all over the world and from many wars. He is now the award-winningxa0host of Weekend Editionxa0Saturday. With over 4 million listeners it is the most-listened to news program on NPR. Simon has wonxa0a Peabody and anxa0Emmy for his reporting andxa0also has over 1.2 million followers on Twitter.

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  • New York Times
  • Bestseller
  • "In a return to the bighearted storytelling that made him a star NPR correspondent, [Simon] pays full tribute to the ex-showgirl who...taught her only son to be honest, kind, and entertaining. Be assured, tears will fall."--
  • People Magazine
  • "In his poignant, funny, intimate memoir of his last days with [his mother], Simon reflects on... the preciousness that death gives to life and the endless resonance of love."--Laura Hillenbrand, author of UNBROKEN
  • UNFORGETTABLE is a son's spirited, affecting, and inspiring tribute to his remarkable mother and the love between parent and child. When NPR's Scott Simon began tweeting from his mother's hospital room in July 2013, he didn't know that his missives would soon spread well beyond his 1.2 million Twitter followers. Squeezing the magnitude of his final days with her into 140-character updates, Simon's evocative and moving meditations spread virally. Over the course of a few days, Simon chronicled his mother's death and reminisced about her life, revealing her humor and strength, and celebrating familial love. UNFORGETTABLE expands on those famous tweets to create a memoir that is rich, deeply affecting, heart-wrenching, and exhilarating. His mother was a glamorous woman of the Mad Men-era; she worked in nightclubs, modeled, dated mobsters and movie stars, and was a brave single parent to young Scott Simon. Spending their last days together in a hospital ICU, mother and son reflect on their lifetime's worth of memories, recounting stories laced with humor and exemplifying resilience. UNFORGETTABLE is not only one man's moving celebration of his mother's colorful life,

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"Children connect you with eternity...

"Children connect you with eternity...they're like notes to be opened after we die". This is a quote from a letter that NPR journalist Scott Simon received from his mother, Pat. It is included in "Unforgettable: A Son, a Mother, and the Lessons of a Lifetime" that Scott Simon wrote after the death of his mother in 2013. The book, which is a compilation of the tweets Scott sent out to his friends, family, viewers...hell, anyone with a "smart devise", from his mother's bedside at a Chicago hospital as she lay dying at the age of 84. The tweets are explained in the book by Simon as he gives his mother - who must have been a real character - a final "goodbye".

"Patricia Lyons Simon Newman Gelbin" was three times married and one time a mother. Her son, Scott, was born in her first marriage to an alcoholic who Pat left when the drinking became too bad to handle, along with the raising of a young child. And Pat raised young Scott on her own, with the assistance of family, friends, and various "men friends." A beauty, Pat dabbled as an actress, a hand model, a saleswoman, and many other jobs as she earned enough to support herself and her son. She knew lots of people - some "important", some not - in Chicago and she seemed to leave all of them with a positive impression. Unfailingly polite to others and genuinely interested in their lives, Pat Newman tried to influence her son to treat people the same way she did. She seemed to have a "glass half-full" view of life and the people around her. By the way, the book's title, "Unforgettable" comes from Scott and Pat's love of the Nat King Cole/Natalie Cole song.

I suppose I particularly enjoyed Scott Simon's book because I am a native Chicagoan about the same age as he is. I recognised most of the places and people he writes about - and, yes, "Eli's Famous Cheesecakes" are delicious - so the story of Scott and his mother resonated with me. But even non-Chicagoans will enjoy Scott's book about his mother's life...and her death.
17 people found this helpful
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Share the final days of a mother/son relationship

Even though I am crazy about my son and I do love books about that particular relationship, I was not wild about this book. It definitely was a fast read and had it moments of humor, however I was really uncomfortable that for me this book crossed some uncomfortable lines.
The story opens as the son is hurrying to his mother's hospital room where she is in the last days of her life. As they share her hospital room and he even sleeps on the floor during the night, they reminisce about the years past. They also talk about the various husbands that she had and his memories of them.
I guess this was where I got uncomfortable because they discussed things about these men and the relationship those men had with his mother that were a little too personal to be shared with a son...in my opinion.
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Tender Love Story

Well, I'm all frothy about this one. It's a quick read but I had to stop and put it aside--forever. And the reasons aren't all that clear cut. But the major one was that it was depressing the heck out of me.

But let me back up a bit and sort of describe why I chose the word frothy and not some singular term that might more easily describe my emotional conflict with UNFORGETTABLE.

The book starts out great and I was interested. I didn't follow or even know about Scott's tweets, but I know of Scott Simon of course. He's a dear man and I'd recognize his voice anywhere.

So initially I was reading along, but then I began to loose my focus. Parts of the narrative just weren't that interesting to me. But at the same time I was emotionally caught up in a son's homage and literary act of love for his mother. So a bit bored and yet overwhelmed. I'm not sure how the two can co-exist but I was definitely overwhelmed. Depressed and sad and inspired and sad is just not a place I can be right now. I have older parents. I just can't follow the author right now to the place he's leading his readers.
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Well written, I came to cherish the nursing professionals yet again. And not so much doctors. This is a wonderful love story and even typing this review up my eyes are watering.
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An okay memoir but far from the best

I like Scott Simon. I appreciate very much his calming voice and interviews on Saturday mornings on NPR. I liked his previous book, Baby, We Were Meant for Each Other, chronicling the adoption of his two daughters.

I feel the need to start out with these commendations, because I have a feeling that there will be many who will choose to dislike this three star review only because of their loyalty to Mr. Simon. I get that. And three stars, after, isn't all bad.

It's just that this book is pretty thin gruel. It is touching to share some of the memories that Mr. Simon and his mother rummaged through as she lay dying in the ICU, but it may be more than a little off-putting for many to see how lightly heavy drinking and less than faithful relationships are discussed and laughed over. It is good to know that a childhood that could easily be depicted as deprived or mismanaged has instead been a source of warm nostalgia, but it still makes this a tale sometimes difficult for the reader to truly enjoy.

And then there is a strange absence of his mother's current husband. Why is he so totally not included in the ICU times? Near the end, Simon mentions that "my mother's husband" chose not to be there at the end because he had already said his goodbyes. Somehow, there seems to be a whole added story that should have been included in this little book.

In the end, this no doubt has helped Scott Simon work through some of the loss of his dearly loved mother, and it may be worth a quick light read for his most ardent fans, but I can only give it a lukewarm recommendation for most readers, even those of us who are regular Saturday morning Scott Simon listeners.
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A story about life, not loss...

I Tweet. A lot. I have also spent countless nights in a hospital room with a loved one in their final days. But I have never thought of connecting the two. So while I was intrigued by the premise of this book, I wasn't really sure I would like it. But rather than trivialize such a profound experience, Scott Simon actually turns his last days with his mother into a poignant story, not about loss but about life.
The Tweets themselves are the inspiration for the book, and not the bulk of the content, which is what I was expecting. Instead, they are interspersed throughout as a way to pull together a wonderful tribute to his mother and the time they shared in what turned out to be her dying days.
No surprise, Simon is an eloquent writer and makes the reader feel as if they are there, not just in the hospital but also along for the ride the two shared together in life.
Rather than being a difficult book to read, it was inspiring and uplifting, even in its sadness.
You don't need to be a fan of Simon - or even know who he is - to like this book.
There is no easy way to say goodbye to a loved one, especially a parent. Simon shares his own thoughts and fears about that experience in a way I know I never could and I thank him for that.
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A poignant treasure

I was hooked at the first line, and read it straight through overnight. Scott Simon depicts his relationship with his amazing mother and their final days together with grace, charm, wisdom and humor. It's a truly Unforgettable treasure.
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Wonderful memoir

A touching and beautifully written memoir. Full of interesting people and poignant memories of the writer and his mother. I recommend this highly.
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"Children connect you with eternity..."

"Children connect you with eternity...they're like notes to be opened after we die". This is a quote from a letter that NPR journalist Scott Simon received from his mother, Pat. It is included in "Unforgettable: A Son, a Mother, and the Lessons of a Lifetime" that Scott Simon wrote after the death of his mother in 2013. The book, which is a compilation of the tweets Scott sent out to his friends, family, viewers...hell, anyone with a "smart devise", from his mother's bedside at a Chicago hospital as she lay dying at the age of 84. The tweets are explained in the book by Simon as he gives his mother - who must have been a real character - a final "goodbye".

"Patricia Lyons Simon Newman Gelbin" was three times married and one time a mother. Her son, Scott, was born in her first marriage to an alcoholic who Pat left when the drinking became too bad to handle, along with the raising of a young child. And Pat raised young Scott on her own, with the assistance of family, friends, and various "men friends." A beauty, Pat dabbled as an actress, a hand model, a saleswoman, and many other jobs as she earned enough to support herself and her son. She knew lots of people - some "important", some not - in Chicago and she seemed to leave all of them with a positive impression. Unfailingly polite to others and genuinely interested in their lives, Pat Newman tried to influence her son to treat people the same way she did. She seemed to have a "glass half-full" view of life and the people around her. By the way, the book's title, "Unforgettable" comes from Scott and Pat's love of the Nat King Cole/Natalie Cole song.

I suppose I particularly enjoyed Scott Simon's book because I am a native Chicagoan about the same age as he is. I recognised most of the places and people he writes about - and, yes, "Eli's Famous Cheesecakes" are delicious - so the story of Scott and his mother resonated with me. But even non-Chicagoans will enjoy Scott's book about his mother's life...and her death.
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Well, I loved it

however I too lost my beloved mother (in 2001 at age 63) so the book struck home. What a lovely tribute to the love he had for her. Keeper!

I was hooked after watching on youtube the author discuss the book and his mother, you can find it here "Scott Simon: "Unforgettable: A Son, a Mother, and the Lessons of a Lifetime Chicago Humanities Festival".
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Lovely

Loved this book so much, sweet, funny and interesting. You don’t want it to end and it stays with you for a while, hopefully forever. So lovely.