What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful
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What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful

Hardcover – January 9, 2007

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$14.60
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Hardcover
Pages
256
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978-1401301309
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6.38 x 0.88 x 9.5 inches
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1.02 pounds

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From Publishers Weekly Goldsmith, an executive coach to the corporate elite, pinpoints 20 bad habits that stifle already successful careers as well as personal goals like succeeding in marriage or as a parent. Most are common behavioral problems, such as speaking when angry, which even the author is prone to do when dealing with a teenage daughter's belly ring. Though Goldsmith deals with touchy-feely material more typical of a self-help book—such as learning to listen or letting go of the past—his approach to curing self-destructive behavior is much harder-edged. For instance, he does not suggest sensitivity training for those prone to voicing morale-deflating sarcasm. His advice is to stop doing it. To stimulate behavior change, he suggests imposing fines (e.g., $10 for each infraction), asserting that monetary penalties can yield results by lunchtime. While Goldsmith's advice applies to everyone, the highly successful audience he targets may be the least likely to seek out his book without a direct order from someone higher up. As he points out, they are apt to attribute their success to their bad behavior. Still, that may allow the less successful to gain ground by improving their people skills first. (Jan. 2) Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. From Booklist By now, the CEO as celebrity is old hat. (Just start counting the books from former company heads.) That goes for the executive-recruiter-cum-president-makers. What has yet to be explored--until now--is the celebrity business coach, the individual who helps C-level executives correct flaws, whether invisible or public. A frequent interviewee in major business magazines like For tune, Goldsmith, with the sage help and advice of his collaborator Reiter, pens a self-help career book, filled with disguised anecdotes and candid dialogue, all soon slated for bestsellerdom. His steps in coaching for success are simple, honest, without artifice: gather feedback from appropriate colleagues and cohorts, determine which behaviors to change (and remember, Goldsmith specifically focuses on behavior, not skills or knowledge), apologize, advertise, listen, thank, follow up, and practice feed-forward. Admittedly, this shrewd organizational psychologist only works with leaders he knows will listen, follow advice, and change--especially considering that he doesn't receive fees until improvements are secure and visible. On the other hand, these are words and processes anyone will benefit from, whether wannabe manager or senior executive. Barbara Jacobs Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved "As a guy who has had some success in my life, I especially understood and appreciated what this book taught me. The point of the book is actually the title and subtitle. He states: "The problems we'll be looking at in this book are not life-threatening diseases (although ignored for too long they can destroy a career). They're not deep-seated neuroses that require years of therapy or tons of medication to erase. "More often than not, they are simple behavioral tics 'bad habits that we repeat dozens of times a day in the workplace' which can be cured by (a) pointing them out, (b) showing the havoc they cause among the people surrounding us, and (c) demonstrating that with a slight behavioral tweak we can achieve a much more appealing effect. "One of the keys to a good business book can be found in the Table of Contents. This book is not different. The four sections are titled: The Trouble with Success; The Twenty Habits That Hold You Back from the Top; How We Can Change for the Better; Pulling Out the Stops. If you go into a bookstore to check this book out, just look at the twenty habits. They were a scary eye opener for yours truly. I used up one hi-lighter on this book and found way more bad habits I have and need to change than I care to admit. The nice thing about this book is that you can identify the flaws you didn't think you had and fix them without anybody knowing you had a problem. Now that is a huge benefit. All in all, this is an important book." -- Jack Covert, Jack Covert Selects, 1800CEOREAD "Goldsmith has no interest in probing why people behave the way they do. He doesn't try to reshape their personalities. He measures success by the extent to which other people's perceptions of his clients change for the better . . . he teaches them how to apologize for their shortcomings -- 'the most magical, healing, restorative gesture human beings can make,' he writes in his book [ What Got You Here Won't Get You There ] . . . and then to ask for help in getting better . . . 'It's much harder to change people's perceptions of your behavior than to change your behavior,' he says . . ." -- Barbara Rose, Chicago Tribune "If you decide to purchase one new book this year I encourage you to make it What Got You Here Won't Get You There . This is the top tier of leadership information available!" -- weLEAD Rating - highly recommended "The book is written pretty much the way Marshall speaks. It is simple, brutally honest, and humorous. It doesn't try to get fancy. It's economically composed, crafted to be useful. It will appeal to people with no time to waste. Like its author, it's practical and to the point . . . What Got You Here will be required reading for many years to come. -- David Zweig, Senior Editor, World Business Academy Perspectives "This is a superb book, practical with a rich understanding of human behaviour and how to change. Mr. Goldsmith has endless examples from his work and his own personal failings, and the result is a chance for readers whose companies don't hire him to get the benefit of his expertise." -- Harvey Schachter, Globe and Mail "What holds you back from achievement? Marshall Goldsmith is an executive coach who has worked with over eighty CEOs in the world's top organizations -- so he's in the perfect position to examine how global leaders overcome self-defeating habits, translating these lessons to the modern condition and everyday man in What Got You Here Won't Get You There . From key beliefs in successful leaders to common behavior flaws, this book translates drawbacks to success, and will find an audience in any general-interest collection where self-improvement is of interest." -- Diane Donovan, Midwest Book Review/California Bookwatch "You'll see the results whether you're a CEO or just getting started." -- BookPage To Marshall Goldsmith: Thank You for Writing This Book (And We're Not Sucking Up): Marshall Goldsmith is one of the most successful of corporate America's celebrity coaches -- he typically makes upwards of a quarter-million dollars for a year or so of work with each individual client -- and is also one of the best. ... The beauty of Goldsmith's approach lies not just in the simplicity of his insights, but also in the clarity of his advice. ... Goldsmith has written a leadership manual that could double as a guide to good parenting and marital peace. -- Knowledge@Wharton Marshall Goldsmith is America's preeminent executive coach. He is among a select few consultants who have been asked to work with more than sixty CEOs. His clients have included many of the world's leading corporations. He has helped to implement leadership development processes that have impacted more than one million people around the world. He has a Ph.D. from UCLA and is on the faculty of the executive education programs for Dartmouth College and the University of Michigan. The American Management Association recently named him as one of fifty great thinkers and business leaders over the past eighty years. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • America’s most sought-after executive coach shows how to climb the last few rungs of the ladder.
  • The corporate world is filled with executives, men and women who have worked hard for years to reach the upper levels of management. They’re intelligent, skilled, and even charismatic. But only a handful of them will ever reach the pinnacle -- and as executive coach Marshall Goldsmith shows in this book, subtle nuances make all the difference. These are small "transactional flaws" performed by one person against another (as simple as not saying
  • thank you
  • enough), which lead to negative perceptions that can hold any executive back. Using Goldsmith’s straightforward, jargon-free advice, it’s amazingly easy behavior to change.
  • Executives who hire Goldsmith for one-on-one coaching pay $250,000 for the privilege. With this book, his help is available for 1/10,000th of the price.

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unpleasant tone

Though some information was useful, a lot of the skills that the author points out not to use are repetitive. This book is most suitable for individuals who are already successful and have issues with arrogance and/or over-confidence. Not an inspirational read. The author's tone is also rather condescending. Did not enjoy, but could be useful for higher upper management.
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Excellent, Truly Excellent - ORIGINAL & DARING!!!!!

Marshall Goldsmith's book is ORIGINAL, and adds strongly to the body of literature dealing with ORGANIZATIONAL BEHAVIOR. In fact, Goldsmith has a PhD in the subject. When you read a book, you know you are onto something when the author's whole thrust flys in the face of what you the reader personally believe. When this happens, you have to make sure you maintain an OPEN MIND. Goldsmith caused me many problems while trying to absorb his information, but that's a good thing.

NOT A "FEEL GOOD" BOOK but VERY USEFUL

In spite of the title which is both flashy and catchy, this is not a rah, rah, let's go get them feel good book. This one has depth, and there is a lot of meat on the bone. We as readers must be daring enough to work our way through the author's concepts. Goldsmith has credentials though. The Wall Street Journal called him a "top- ten executive educator, while Forbes picked him as one of the five most respected executive coaches. The central theme of this book is simply this:

The CENTRAL CHARACTER TRAIT that you believe got you to the POSITION that you currently hold, may very well be the SAME trait, that is HOLDING YOU BACK from WHERE you want to be.

We should all read the above central theme again, and again. Goldsmith will hammer us with it throughout his work. He doesn't mention this, but he is taking his basic theory from renowned psychoanalyst CARL JUNG. If you are interested, read any of Jung's work regarding the SHADOW. If you are into personal development, nothing is more powerful than Jung's shadow work.

When you read this book, you will find that it is basically divided into 3 parts:

* PART I

In Part I, the author is laying out the psychological underpinning of the "The "Trouble with Success". This is the section where he hammers home that once you achieve a distinct level of success, you need new skills to get you to the next level, hence the title of the book. Some of the key in this section are:

A) "HERE" can be a great place. "THERE" can be a better place

B) He's dead on accurate when he described Chevy Chase's fading career, and attributed it to "Chase's losing touch with what he was projecting to people."

C) A famous journalist taught him that in a long distinguished career, the most important thing he learned was that, "Put a comma in the wrong place, and the whole sentence is screwed up."

D) "Our delusions become a serious liability when we need to change. We sit there with the same godlike feelings, and when someone tries to make us change our ways, we regard them with unadulterated bafflement."

E) "To successful people, past is always prologue." This is an amazing statement because it is profound.

F) The author does have wonderful humor. In this section he talked about a certain belief and said, "This belief makes about as much sense as inheriting money and thinking you're a self-made man."

* PART II

Part II is an attempt to list 20 HABITS that hold you back from the TOP. Let's just mention a few of them.

A) WINNING TOO MUCH - Our need to win overwhelms our common sense. The author believes that it may be built into our DNA, but in the end, it can limit our success

B) STARTING WITH "NO, BUT, or HOWEVER" - In this section, he is saying that whenever somebody says anything, and you respond by beginning a sentence with any of these three words, NO, BUT, or HOWEVER, you are telling the other person that they are WRONG. Goldsmith is taking this from Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), another subject you might want to study.

C) SPEAKING WHEN ANGRY - It is not possible to predict another person's reaction to ANGER. People may shut down on you; therefore anger stunts your ability to change.

D) NEGATIVITY - It was one of the great lines of the book, but the author said for some people, "Negativity is their DEFAULT response." Nobody wants to be around anybody who is negative.

E) FAILING TO GIVE PROPER RECOGNITION - Recognition brings CLOSURE, and people need closure. People need the "Emotional payoff that comes with success," and that's RECOGNITION.

* PART III & PART IV

Once you know the 20 habits that are holding you back, you need to institute a program that helps you change. What good is knowledge that is not ACTIONABLE?

Part III and Part IV helps you effectuate change by teaching you 7 behaviors you can institute immediately. The behaviors are:

1) Feedback

2) Apologizing

3) Telling the World, or Advertising

4) Listening

5) Thanking

6) Following Up

7) Practicing Feedforward

CONCLUSION

Goldsmith the author has given us some original material here. It is not reworked jargon, which some other authors are prone to do. I feel the discussion of the 20 Habits that prevent you from getting to the TOP were by themselves worth the price of the book.

For me Part III and IV dealing with specific procedures to deal with our issues were not as well done as Part II dealing with the 20 Habits. This is not a negative, as anyone that has ever been through therapy knows. It's always easier to identify the issues we have to deal with than to actually EFFECTUATE CHANGE. We all know that. In any event, READ this WONDERFUL book, and I wish you GOOD LUCK IN YOUR JOURNEY.

Richard Stoyeck
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Awesome

The same concepts that make Marshall one of the most outstanding classroom teachers on the planet come alive in this book. His concepts are clear, focused, and insightful and he illustrates them with entertaining & memorable stories. For most of us, the key to becoming a more effective leader is not about learning some new, complex theories about leadership. It's about being more self aware, focusing on a few things to change, and actually doing it. Marshall's book helps you do all three. If you read the book, pick a few items to change, and follow Marshall's advice, you will become an even more effective leader, colleague, spouse, partner, parent, friend. If you don't, you will at least have a quick and very fun read.
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ok

Talks about these topics:

* Making Destructive Comments
* The Obsessive Need To Tell The World How Smart We Are
* Speaking When Angry
* Trying To Add Too Much Value To Other Peoples' Ideas
* Not Listening
* Goal Obsession

I didn't find the book terribly intereseting.
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Great book but Male-Centric

I do really appreciate Dr. Goldsmith's work and follow most of his coaching model. He is a good writer, clear, does not use a lot of business jargon and fads. His approach is research based and works really well for those who tend to be defensive and overvalue their contributions. He is very open about his own flaws and that tends to make the reader more open to self-examination.

However, he does not seem to take into account the unconscious gender bias that exists in the workplace and the barriers that confront women as they try to hit the next level of leadership. For that, I would suggest the work of Alice Eagly, Herminia Ibarra, Deborah Kolb and Robin Ely. Integrating the two approaches can be a challenge but since we know there is some problem in temrs of likability/competence with the 360 feedback process for women, it is an art to take all of that into account when helping a company develop its workplace.

In any event, Dr. Goldsmith writes a great book that is easy to read and understand, has clarity and is researched as a process that works.
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Middle of the road...

This book is interesting, but has some drawbacks. First, it does present some useful information on how to deal with some of the interpersonal flaws many of us bring to the workplace. I haven't implemented any of the suggestions, but Marshall is talented and successful, so I take him at his word that the process works if implemented properly.

However, I had a hard time figuring out if I liked the book or not. I was - to agree with another rater - pretty bored with the material right out of the gate. But, since I'm reading this as part of a book club, I had to finish it. Also, - to agree with another rater in this forum - I felt the book was longer than necessary, and at times redundant. I like Marshall's writing style; its pretty conversational. Also, the sections are short, so you can get through a single idea pretty quickly. But, I had a hard time getting jazzed about the content. In fact, it wasn't until near the middle of the book that he expressly stated his thesis - what sets great leaders apart (the closer you get to the top of the org chart) is interpersonal effectiveness, not role-specific expertise.

Now, as a middle manager in corporate America, that seems like an obvious message to me. The only thing I'm stumped about is how to get the right people to pick up the book. As with most of the materials in this genre, those that need it probably won't read it!
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Too simplistic

I felt that this book was too simplistic and I was bored pretty soon after starting it. Never finished it.
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To be Successful You Must be Self-focused; but not TOO Self-focused

When you distill this book down to its essential elements, it comes to this. You have to be self-focused to get going in the world, but if you are ONLY for yourself, at some point the self-focus changes from positive to negative. What happens is that those around you feel less free and less good about themselves in your presence. They don't see you as someone who is on their side to help them achieve their own goals. They feel that, to you, they are only a means to your achieving your own goals. People don't like being the means to someone else's ends. As a board-certified cognitive behavioral therapist I found this book helpful because it is not so easy to see our own self-focus at work. Goldsmith shows how to check particular interactions so we can catch ourselves in the act of crossing that negative line.

The other thing I found interesting about this book is that I have long understood that self-focus is the royal road to depression but I never saw so clearly that self-focus was the royal road to business failure as well. There is definitely a correlation because depression is rampant among successul people. Most people don't realize the impact of the fact that they basically have two brains, a thinking brain (the neocortex), and a feeling brain (the subcortex) and that they can learn to switch from one to the other. When your thoughts are self-focused, all the neural activity starts to spark up in the subcortex, and depression is only located in the subcortex. There is no depression in the neocortex. "Brainswitching" is the way to re-wire your brain out of its habitual depression. Perhaps you can brainswitch to business success as well since it would get you out of habitual self-focus. Something to think about. A. B. Curtiss, author of BRAINSWITCH OUT OF DEPRESSION
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Brilliant insight, profound generosity

The real greatness of this book is its laser beam focus on what blocks executives and
their organizations from being as successful as they could be. The issue is simply
stated: the drive to win that propels executives up the ladder can prevent them from
learning to win through others. Their excessive need to be right, to win every debate,
alienates the only people who can help them make the leap to greater heights.
Being too competitive keeps executives from listening and giving others the credit they
deserve. They shoot the messenger and fail to thank people or apologize. They argue
needlessly just to add their 2 cents or have the last word. Goldsmith shows how 20 such
bad habits can be changed through the rigorous application of a number of practical
steps. The key is measurement, before, after and during the change effort. Goldsmith is
a relentless counter of behaviors when he is striving to eliminate his own bad habits and
he pushes his clients to do the same. Stakeholders are enlisted to provide 360 feedback
before and after. Goldsmith is not interested in how you got to where you are or any
personal problems you might have. He drives his clients to focus on the future and forget
the past. Accountability is a core value for him and he pushes his clients to follow suit.
Goldsmith gives himself an A+ in gratitude for being so religious in remembering to thank
people. But he should also give himself an A+ in wisdom, generosity and integrity.
Wisdom leaps out at you from every page of this fascinating book. Giving away his trade
secrets like this is more than ample evidence of his generosity. Integrity is shown in the
numerous places where he admits his own errors and weaknesses.

Goldsmith demonstrates his commitment to accountability when he attacks the bad habit
of making excuses but also when he encourages clients to advertise their development
plans to all of their important others. Recognizing that changing bad habits is not easy,
he is adamant that no improvement will occur without a public declaration of intent,
continual measurement and follow up. Goldsmith doesn't explicitly refer to behavior
modification principles but his approach is clearly behavioral. He recognizes that people
are motivated by self-interest, what gets rewarded, what they want and value. Hence, he
encourages clients to set up rewards and punishments to help them stay focused on
their personal development plan.

I found this book inspiring and helpful on both a personal and professional basis. I can
see that I could be a better listener and better at thanking others for their contributions.
So, I must say: Thank you Marshall for this insightful book! It deserves to be widely read.
One of the bad habits Goldsmith rightly attacks is the need to add your 2 cents worth to
someone else's idea. Clearly, always having to have the last word and never accepting
anyone else's idea as it stands is a bad habit. But this cannot mean that it is never OK to
challenge, or try to improve, another person's thinking. Active debate is one of the best
ways of improving ideas. In this spirit, I would like to say a few words on how we might
build on Goldsmith's insights. One thing I noted is that Goldsmith does not say much
about how executives might channel their competitive urges more productively, He
states that they need to learn how to win through others, but his book mainly focuses on
what they need to STOP doing, not what alternative behaviors they should cultivate.
Given that the bulk of our work today revolves around smarter thinking, making better
decisions, solving problems and being innovative, perhaps the best way to get this work
done through others is to ask them questions such as: `'What do you think?'' In other
words, executives might be well advised to reframe the basis of their contribution from
being a goal scorer or solution generator to that of drawing solutions out of others with
facilitative questions. They need to stop trying to win as individual goal scorers, in other
words, and start winning as coaches. There is nothing new in this if you focus only on
the doing of tasks versus delegating, but when you view our work as thinking, the goal is
to be more of a question-asker, less of an answer-giver. Winning coaches need to be
competitive to win. They just need to channel the bulk of their competitive urges toward
external competitors. The key point here is to recognize the asking of facilitative
questions as a valuable way of making a contribution, that offering your own opinions is
not the only way to add value.
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Must have book for success

Just about everyone I meet assumes that the same behaviors that get you ahead will keep you there. Old practices like 'gain high visibility, be an extrovert, take as much credit and limelight as possible...' are hopelessly flawed. Marshall explains why what succeeded won't continue to do so. He relates the best practices for being at the top, and he makes behavioral suggestions to win. For the novice or accomplished expert, this work offers insight and practical suggestions. Bravo Marshall... thanks for the coaching.
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